What should i do (3) ?

[EverSteve]

Okay once again im updating, can a mod maybe link my old posts anyway...

Youth Club Dude - Yeh, i saw him again yayayaya, I was really nervous but still havn't said anything gay to him yet, I hate being aspergic....

Friend outa school - OMG, he used to touch my *** out of view of one of my other mate who like refs the game, anyway he touched my crotch the other day....he said he dose it for fun but now touching my crotch area, im not so sure

School Dude - Someone's found out about it last month and im still not sure if my crush is safe, I dont even like the person who knows....

Best Mate - I just found out that my best mate kinda has a crush on me...but i dont think i like him sexually. How can I say this to him ;(

Anyone who replys thanks :)

I've added the links - Ostinato :]

http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=32154
http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=209418

[Ostinato]

Okay once again im updating, can a mod maybe link my old posts anyway...

Youth Club Dude - Yeh, i saw him again yayayaya, I was really nervous but still havn't said anything gay to him yet, I hate being aspergic....

Friend outa school - OMG, he used to touch my *** out of view of one of my other mate who like refs the game, anyway he touched my crotch the other day....he said he dose it for fun but now touching my crotch area, im not so sure

School Dude - Someone's found out about it last month and im still not sure if my crush is safe, I dont even like the person who knows....

Best Mate - I just found out that my best mate kinda has a crush on me...but i dont think i like him sexually. How can I say this to him ;(

Anyone who replys thanks :)

I've added the links - Ostinato :]

http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=32154
http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=209418


Okay well, first of all you need to tell this friend of yours whos touching you, that your not comfortable with it, and if it isn't 'fun' for you, and that if he doesn't put a stop to it, then he'll be jeprodising your friendship with him.

It's good that you are spending time with this guy you like more, and gradually - as you get to know him better - you'll become more comfortable around him and should find it easier to talk to him about it.

There's nothing you can really do about someone knowing about your crush. Your just going to have to live normally and hope it doesn't come out, but if it does then that's just life and you need to get on with it - don't let it get you down.

You don't need to say anything to your friend that likes you, until they say something to you. Just act all normal, and if they try it with you or indicate they have feelings for you, just tell them that you like someone else and that you prefer them in a friend way, but your flattered and won't let it bother your friendship, and move on and forget about it! :]

[EverSteve]

It's good that you are spending time with this guy you like more, and gradually - as you get to know him better - you'll become more comfortable around him and should find it easier to talk to him about it.


Well there is only one problem about that, I have asperges and so dose he, meaning im more nervous than everyone thats why I hardly ever talk to him unless someone brings us close lol. Cause either ill mess it up or well just stand there looking at each other lmao.

Btw thanks for the advice the guy at school hasn't found out whats a mint thing. Just wish that there a cure for asperges and dyspraxia ;(

[Ostinato]

Well there is only one problem about that, I have asperges and so dose he, meaning im more nervous than everyone thats why I hardly ever talk to him unless someone brings us close lol. Cause either ill mess it up or well just stand there looking at each other lmao.

Btw thanks for the advice the guy at school hasn't found out whats a mint thing. Just wish that there a cure for asperges and dyspraxia ;(

Well we all just need to accept what we are and get on with it I'm afraid!

You just need to work on it though, as like you said there's no fast cure etc. so it's simply just getting to that point of overcoming your nerves gradually. Just smile at him if you see him arond, and start just saying 'hi' and stuff, and before you know it you'll be having a big conversation! :)

[EverSteve]

Hope you are right lol, i have falled for him big time :|

Thanks for your comments, if anyone else has any comments please reply as even if its the same comment then i know at least ppl agree on what i should do.