Help Please.

[bum]

hi, i told one of my closest friends before i was bi. thinking he would keep it secret "/. He told people from my year, now everyone is asking if im bi.gay all the time. Dyou think its a good time to come out ? Im not sure ;l.

[cocaine]

If you feel comfortable enough.

But you shouldn't care what other people think :]

[bum]

Thnx for advice x.

[VersionUpdate]

Your choice , your life
LIVEIT

[Fomas]

Yeh it depens on your friends.
But really they should be understanding.

There not your friends because your straight are they?

[bum]

Your choice , your life
LIVEIT

Im sorry but that didnt help ;l.

[.demolitionman.]

its only a good outcome if you wanted everyone to know if you dont like that everyone knows just dislike your friend because hes not a true mate to do that to you ;)

[Uwe]

Yes!
The exact same thing happened to me! Except I'm gay. I just said yes and I was the 'gay boy' for about a week. After that it was old news :P

[bum]

Yes!
The exact same thing happened to me! Except I'm gay. I just said yes and I was the 'gay boy' for about a week. After that it was old news :P

Thxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ma bbz. <3.

[cocaine]

Thnx for advice x.

Lol yw <3x

[bum]

Lol yw <3x
+rep 2 uuuu <3

[Bef]

The way i look at life is this...
Those who matter don't mind
And those who mind don't matter...
I live by that rule, but it's up to you. People can be so nasty sometimes and unaccepting, if you think that in the long run, youl be unhappy then nuh. If you think itl b a weight off your shoulders then yuh, do it.
Theres always going to be some rseholes who aint going to accept you, it just depends on if your going to let them upset you or if your a strong enough person to deal with it. If you aint now, then don't worry, your still young, you will be one day babes <33

[bum]

The way i look at life is this...
Those who matter don't mind
And those who mind don't matter...
I live by that rule, but it's up to you. People can be so nasty sometimes and unaccepting, if you think that in the long run, youl be unhappy then nuh. If you think itl b a weight off your shoulders then yuh, do it.
Theres always going to be some rseholes who aint going to accept you, it just depends on if your going to let them upset you or if your a strong enough person to deal with it. If you aint now, then don't worry, your still young, you will be one day babes <33

omg thx bbz. It seriously helped .

[Rizla,]

Slap your mate, and come out.

[-Soph-]

Wow what a good friend he is:rolleyes:

If you have quite a strong skin and could take people calling you things, Etc.. for a few weeks (Homophobic people:rolleyes:) then go for it, But if you have quite sensitive feelings then don't..

When I did, I had people saying stuff to me for weeks.
You just have to make it clear that you don't care what they think about your sexuality:)

- Laughing and having a joke at their comments usually works.
Even if its not remotly funny, It shows that you don't care about what they think.


If I make any sense:s

[Rizla,]

It doesn't show anything of the sort, it makes you look even more foolish. Although people will get bored, you still look like a fool.

[FlyingJesus]

When I'm in a tight situation, I use my natural instincts and lie.

[bum]

Wow what a good friend he is:rolleyes:

If you have quite a strong skin and could take people calling you things, Etc.. for a few weeks (Homophobic people:rolleyes:) then go for it, But if you have quite sensitive feelings then don't..

When I did, I had people saying stuff to me for weeks.
You just have to make it clear that you don't care what they think about your sexuality:)

- Laughing and having a joke at their comments usually works.
Even if its not remotly funny, It shows that you don't care about what they think.


If I make any sense:s

Thanks ;] It helped <3.