need help!!

[.demolitionman.]

hi all,

i really like this girl in my form, infact i love her.
we talk on msn but very very little in school, i wanna be best mates with her and that and eventually go out with her.
can you help me because i dunno how to become very good mates with her and that.
i find it very hard to start conversations with her in school as im embarresed,
can u help me??? :s

[Rizla,]

You don't love her, you don't have to talk to her all the time. I don't always talk to the people who I count as my best mates in school, and I hardly ever talk to my bird in school, soooo....

[Memmish]

hi all,

i really like this girl in my form, infact i love her.
we talk on msn but very very little in school, i wanna be best mates with her and that and eventually go out with her.
can you help me because i dunno how to become very good mates with her and that.
i find it very hard to start conversations with her in school as im embarresed,
can u help me??? :s

Its a good start if you both chat on msn, try to build up a friendship there and then talking in school will follow on. If you both get really close on msn maybe she will start the conversations in form, making it easier for you. Just carry on as you are, and the rest will follow naturally.

<3

[Rockerboi6]

Erm, Talk to her a little bit more, ask her to go cinema, and then see where it goes.

[:Hazel]

How do you expect to build a relationship if you won't talk to her? That's the only way...

[.demolitionman.]

ok i do try to talk to her but she seems not to wanna talk back if u see wat i mean

[Lµke]

hi all,

i really like this girl in my form, infact i love her.
we talk on msn but very very little in school, i wanna be best mates with her and that and eventually go out with her.
can you help me because i dunno how to become very good mates with her and that.
i find it very hard to start conversations with her in school as im embarresed,
can u help me??? :s


If this was me, i'd start off by listening in school and see what she talks to her mates about ( Expect most of it to be girly but theres gotta be something you can both relate to, if not, its not ment to be sorry. ). Pick a moment and just work your way into the conversation. Also about MSN, start off saying Hey, how are you etc. And relate to school like, did you see what such and such did, it was soo funny.

Once you've broken the ice, words should just come out of your mouth without even giving it a thought.

Goodluck.

[.demolitionman.]

ok thanks so much mate ;)

[x~Rebel~x]

Its a good start if you both chat on msn, try to build up a friendship there and then talking in school will follow on. If you both get really close on msn maybe she will start the conversations in form, making it easier for you. Just carry on as you are, and the rest will follow naturally.

<3


I agree, great advice :) Good Luck xx

[luke-p]

Youve got to talk to her, Get to know her better find out her interests :)

[Ostinato]

Okay well, how can you expect to have a relationship with her if you can't start a conversation with her mate? Conversation is the key to all relationships!

It's really good that you talk on the computer and stuff, so it shows she does like you and is willing to talk to you, but you need to realise you can't just make yourself someones best friend and expect to go out with them, it isn't all on your terms.

I think you should just keep talking to her online and what not, but start just talking to her in school - just like you would on the computer! Start off with a wee 'hiya' when you see her around in school, and gradually build it up into talking about stuff.

If you don't build up the courage to get a conversation going though, I doubt you'll get anywhere with her!

Good luck!

[@K]

You don't love her, you don't have to talk to her all the time. I don't always talk to the people who I count as my best mates in school, and I hardly ever talk to my bird in school, soooo....

It's been 2 days since I started going out with this girl and I haven't talked to her once in school since lol, but talking on msn helps you get to know her, then just meet up after school and on the weekends.