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Nemo
24-09-2006, 08:57 PM
If u do then post about what... and if u wanna then some names...

I do and because im small and i got eczema :'( they say stuff like ewww i got niamh[thats my name pronounced ni-em]flakes!!! and haha midget etc. so yeah...

post away and vote away...


ewww gotta go now for school 2moro

cocaine
24-09-2006, 08:58 PM
Yeaa I do.

dirrty
24-09-2006, 08:59 PM
Aww, sos mate.

I dont get bullied. Not many people get bullied at my school. Only verbal really. But there are fights with the older kids because some of them are spilt into two groups who hate each other. And they are chavs. So they are "im bringing me crew down from thurnby lodge and knifes" and all that bull. Nothing ever happens that much though. All talk and no play.

Scriptermone
24-09-2006, 09:00 PM
I do sometimes, but rarely, the odd once a year I suppose, where someone says; "Get a haircut", and im like 'no' and they say "but your hair is too long, get it cut" and so on, but that rarely happens, coz my hair goes down past my shoulders just.

FlyingJesus
24-09-2006, 09:03 PM
No, if people try bullying me I just make fun of them and turn it around, so people at school learned not to bother. Not that it happened often anyway, I do have rather a lot of friends.

College is different, no-one gets bullied at all really.

Charlie
24-09-2006, 09:03 PM
Since i started college i haven't, i've had some noobs say "alright sexy" & grab my butt, but nothing else.

In my last school, they was the odd time, when i had cans & coins threw at me, and i got called smelly & stuff, but i ignored it. And my mates throw abuse for me.

tan
24-09-2006, 09:04 PM
never ever

Nemo
24-09-2006, 09:05 PM
Since i started college i haven't, i've had some noobs say "alright sexy" & grab my butt, but nothing else.

In my last school, they was the odd time, when i had cans & coins threw at me, and i got called smelly & stuff, but i ignored it. And my mates throw abuse for me.Like ross?


and the thing is... i been bullied all my life but now it really hurts =[ i just dont know why...

lust
24-09-2006, 09:05 PM
nope..

i probably will at my new school though for not being a chav.. oh well [:

Charlie
24-09-2006, 09:06 PM
Like ross?


and the thing is... i been bullied all my life but now it really hurts =[ i just dont know why...

It maybe hard, but you just gotta either ignore them or laugh along with them, when they realise it doesn't bother you, they'll stop.

Thats what i do, i just agree with all the negative comments said about me, and laugh them off, they give up after a while.

Nemo
24-09-2006, 09:08 PM
ignored - Tried and like they r the only ppl that i hang around with... i dont wanna be a loner :'( anyways im off 2 pack my bag =[[[[

Jamie!
24-09-2006, 09:10 PM
Nope.....

Dirgeofcerberus
24-09-2006, 09:13 PM
Not at all.
But at my school, everybody calls everybody elses mother like mad, its so stupid.
Ive learnt to just get along with it, as none of them have ever met or seen my mother, so none of its true.

Jesus-Egg
24-09-2006, 09:25 PM
Not really. I sometimes get chavs calling me loads of names, but the "insults" they use are usually hilarious.

-Dispute
24-09-2006, 09:32 PM
never have done!

Crono
24-09-2006, 09:34 PM
Nah, not really. Occasionally someone makes a mean joke about me or talks about me behind my back. It's usually the same couple of people.

Rizla
24-09-2006, 09:35 PM
Nah, I used to do the bullying a few years back. I'm changed now though, so y'know.. :p

Azul
24-09-2006, 09:36 PM
yes everyday, i even contemplated suicide!

Rizla
24-09-2006, 09:40 PM
Down the road, not across the street ;)

Ostinato
24-09-2006, 10:44 PM
Nop. I've never been in the situation of getting bullied, and I've never really witnessed anyone else being in it. I get along with just about anyone hehe! xD

Well, if you are getting bullied I suggest you speak to someone about it, because it's completely unfair and can be dealt with much easier than you think.

You just need to keep reminding yourself how insecure these people are, that because of their own terrible and pathetic lives, they need to try and upset others to make themselves feel good. Just you know that you are better than them.

Albion
24-09-2006, 10:46 PM
only when we r like ****ing round, not bullied seriously

Barker
24-09-2006, 10:47 PM
nope, never.. my brother used to though until he told us. He wasn't even 'geeky' it was just people gelous (sp?) coz he was good @ football and was in the middlesbrough acadmy.

Rizla
24-09-2006, 11:09 PM
If you're getting bullied - Hit them. People pick on people they know won't do anything.

Flumples
24-09-2006, 11:24 PM
If you're getting bullied - Hit them. People pick on people they know won't do anything.
YOU SHOULD BE A COUNSELOR!!!!!!!!!!

-sFusion-
24-09-2006, 11:26 PM
nope never. i dont really think there's much to bully about me... and i'm quiet enough that i dont, and there are bigger targets at my school.

Memmish
25-09-2006, 01:31 AM
i have never been bullied.

its sad to see how many are :( the bullys dont usually even realise how much it affects you. If you are getting bullied you really should talk to someone about it (a friend? parent? teacher?) just getting it off your chest will help.

College is so much better, everyone just gets on with their own thing and respects everyone elses views and differences.

you ok niamh? how was school today (when you get home)?
ps. i love your name <3

Rozi
25-09-2006, 02:29 PM
Niahm, Have you told your parents? Because, I know this seems lkie the wrong thing to do, but, Dont if you haven't because they'll get onto the school, the school will make a big fuss but wont actully do anything and it'll just make you
feel like you don't want to go to school ever again :) That's what I feel like :P

Also I was bullied at my primary school but it was never as bad at our school. To many Chavs at our school. :(

Anyway, I hope it gets better for you and personly I think your shortness is cute.

If you can mabye you could look for help outside of school?

Anyway jasmine's almost shorter than you...

(We go to the same school by the way...)

xzl.
25-09-2006, 02:42 PM
Well I do sometime.
Seeing as my school is full of Chav's ;l
Its all the practically do in my opinon
They should get a life and I dont take it personally.

Nemo
25-09-2006, 02:53 PM
If you're getting bullied - Hit them. People pick on people they know won't do anything.When they are stronger than u its hard...


i have never been bullied.

its sad to see how many are :( the bullys dont usually even realise how much it affects you. If you are getting bullied you really should talk to someone about it (a friend? parent? teacher?) just getting it off your chest will help.

College is so much better, everyone just gets on with their own thing and respects everyone elses views and differences.

you ok niamh? how was school today (when you get home)?
ps. i love your name <3im ok... i gues =l and school was... well i got really annoyed by this boy wen i was in english - teacher heard and saw everything and yet only 1 person did anyfin [this girl] im like wtH?


Niahm, Have you told your parents? Because, I know this seems lkie the wrong thing to do, but, Dont if you haven't because they'll get onto the school, the school will make a big fuss but wont actully do anything and it'll just make you
feel like you don't want to go to school ever again :) That's what I feel like :P

Also I was bullied at my primary school but it was never as bad at our school. To many Chavs at our school. :(

Anyway, I hope it gets better for you and personly I think your shortness is cute.

If you can mabye you could look for help outside of school?

Anyway jasmine's almost shorter than you...

(We go to the same school by the way...)Yeah when i like girls and stuff who are my age i dont want them 2 think im "cute" =l

Also i told my mum and stuff- U TELL NOBODY ROSIE!!!

and is she :s

Callum.
25-09-2006, 02:55 PM
I don't, people have tryed, but not suceeded.

Nemo
25-09-2006, 03:11 PM
I don't, people have tryed, but not suceeded.
Howd u stop em?!

velvet
25-09-2006, 03:17 PM
I don't really get bullied. I just get the chavs shouting stuff like 'greebo' at me. But if anyone says anything I just turn it round onto them and make them look pathetic :]

DJ-Ali
25-09-2006, 03:17 PM
I did back in Year 7-8 people because I got bullied for being a goth. Pathetic really, chavs are so full of themselfs. Pfff.

Eamonn
25-09-2006, 03:25 PM
Nope I don't , never did at lower or middle school (three tier is better soz cus people don't think ther well hard and big because the years are different and that) and I don't get bullied now either :]]

Brody
25-09-2006, 03:30 PM
Shortness is nothing to be ashamed of im 13 and only 5 ft so yeh manm midgets ftw dont go australia tho lol

Herman
25-09-2006, 03:38 PM
I used to get bullied, but not anymore.

Samishlol
25-09-2006, 03:44 PM
I used to but it stopped when i was in year 8.

joshuar
25-09-2006, 03:50 PM
i would say i was, but i just became more confident and i just throw more abuse back and that. i do feel bad for people who get bullied now cause its not nice i dont think, i have never felt extreme bullying though.

YellowParasol
25-09-2006, 03:55 PM
Nope i don't

Rizla
25-09-2006, 08:18 PM
When they are stronger than u its hard...It's all about having the bottle. Even if you get battered, people know they can't mess you around. If you get battered there's a short period of pain, then it's over.

Callum.
25-09-2006, 08:26 PM
Howd u stop em?!

The "hard" group tryed to pick on me in year 7, had a fight, exclusion for 3 days then havn't been picked on since.

Wouldnt advise doing it though.

Rizla
25-09-2006, 08:30 PM
^ Thank you!

foxyfox00
26-09-2006, 08:47 AM
I used to alot, because of how fat I was and my hair.
I dont really now, its mainly gossip and the odd comment but you deal with it

Rizla
26-09-2006, 11:09 AM
Wouldnt advise doing it though.
Spoiled it :( It's the best way.

Blinger1
26-09-2006, 12:02 PM
i used to get bullied

womanizer
26-09-2006, 03:01 PM
No.. I dont.

Chosen One
26-09-2006, 07:23 PM
I got bullied in year 7, when everyone was trying to act "popular" and "hard" and god knows what else.

But then our form molded together and then we all became friends...Then the bully moved to Canada (haha).

a:p
02-10-2006, 05:47 PM
I got bullied in year 7, when everyone was trying to act "popular" and "hard" and god knows what else.


It was like that with me too, everyone has started the new school and everyone thought because they were in the 'big' school now they had to have their own little cliques. I didn't talk much and didn't attract attention but they chose me for some reason. Most of the time, I ignored them as it was the usual chav sort of thing but I told the head of year when it was getting out of hand and everything was sorted out. I even ended up being mates with a couple of them by the end of Y11. But I know it's much worse for some people, it's not fair for people who get bullied to suffer.
So I advice anyone who is being bullied to speak out, as it can't go on!

scubadiva
02-10-2006, 09:31 PM
I've been bullied all my life because of the way I look. I have ginger hair, glasses, used to have braces, freckles, a slight lisp etc. and it really gets on my nerves. My friends stick up for me though because they have gotten to know the person inside. Also, all the people who have said 'I don't get bullied', this is either because they act all big and do the bullying, or stick around under the protction of people like this.

Rizla
02-10-2006, 09:34 PM
Or they stick up for themselves? The world isn't separated into "Bully" and "victim" you know.

JoeyK.
02-10-2006, 11:32 PM
Nah...

Freshman year I did a little (no freshman walks through my school without being bullied daily for the first three months), but that was a couple years ago, other than that, no...

itz jer m8
02-10-2006, 11:47 PM
i'm constantly called goth and emo, but i dont really call that bullying i guess. :s

---PAUL---
03-10-2006, 12:09 AM
i'm constantly called goth and emo, but i dont really call that bullying i guess. :s

dw m8 ill nok dem owt.

Nixt (Forum Moderator) Please do not post pointlessly.

MsTanya
03-10-2006, 05:53 AM
no, havent ever

Rauhl
03-10-2006, 08:38 PM
tbh ive never bin bullied since the past week and its annoyin then i got my drink robbed out the vendin machine and my money and got a coin threw at the back of ma head and ive had enuf i just dont dare to tell all today

Azza
04-10-2006, 05:52 PM
i dont get bullied
i get the occasional made fun of ^^

Krypsis
04-10-2006, 06:33 PM
Nah, I don't get bullied.

alexxxxx
04-10-2006, 09:03 PM
I used to be. By my 'friends.'

I have no 'real' friends. I can tell they don't want me there, I have nobody else to turn to, so I turn to them.

I cried, infront of my dad fgs.

Sarah.
04-10-2006, 09:06 PM
i get the odd comment but i just ignore it, they soon move on.

:Hazel
04-10-2006, 09:15 PM
I'm surprised at the amount of people that have voted yes. I haven't been ever bullied, thankfully.

blah blah blah
05-10-2006, 01:07 PM
I have never been bullied. ive always been able to stick up for myself and have alot of self-cofidence. i do get an occasional insult by people i dont even know. but i just think that you cant make everyone like you, all ya need is friends and family to lean back on. i also frown apon those who do bully. although i may not know what it feels like to be the victim but i know its not a good feeling. and it dosent make you a bigger person if you bully.
Anyway, just my view :)

sarey
05-10-2006, 02:28 PM
Yeah.
I got bullied during Secondary School, hence why ive left, but not just for that reason.
But, yes, i got bullied because of some personal problems and my appearance.

I still do sometimes, but i avoid going out now. :(

Ruined my social life AND 2 years + of education. >.<

I now look down on bullies and think 'You should really get a life, bullying someone about there life proves you havent one yourself', but it did upset me on what some used to and still do say to me.

=:Elliot:=
05-10-2006, 02:46 PM
Well bulling isnt big or clever people do it to show off infront of there friends to act "Hard" or whatever. But really most of them are all mouth and are really just (wussy - sorry for the use of this word it was a spare of the moment thing) - now i am not telling anyone to smack 10 bells out of someone i am just saying they are all mouth i gave it back 10 times worse so i didnt get bulled really i know i shouldnt have done but it stopped them because they knew they couldnt argue with me - But it really is best if you ignore them and dont let them get to you because they are silly people so dont get upset by it.

Maybe see a teacher i know it sounds so uncool to do that but trust me they will sort it

anyway i hope i helped - DOWN WITH SMELLY BULLYS ;)

Dark Chevard
05-10-2006, 05:33 PM
Ive never actually ever got bullied so no :l but I always stick up for people who get bullied and dont have guts to stop them.

-Soph-
05-10-2006, 06:51 PM
No but I did in yr7.

Bef
06-10-2006, 12:25 PM
Not really, i grew up in a council flat so people used to call me poor and scrubber and stuff when i was younger but i learnt quite quickly to stick up for myself and other people. I hate bullying, in high school, i always got in trouble for having a go at the bullies who were picking on other kids.
One of my best mates was apparently really badly bullied in school, people used to throw her down the hill and put pubees in her hair. I think its disgusting, its funny thou, the girl who bullied her is now working in sainsburys and completely sucks all our bums. My mate who got bullied is on good money and training to be a dental therapist.

James!
06-10-2006, 12:41 PM
I get the occasional name calling from random people, but I can learn to ignore that or call them something back.. I used to get bullied in Year 3, but not too bad, just the odd kick-in the shin.

Grrr, I just hate bullies so bad.. :@

Crimson
06-10-2006, 03:54 PM
Fortunatly I dont. But if my friend was being bullied it wouldn't be able to see them because I would be out there looking for the bully.

Fomas
06-10-2006, 03:56 PM
Nope, I go College so it would be kinda weird if i did get bullied lmao.
Although this girl takes my milk money and beats me.
Joking but meh.

brodeo
06-10-2006, 05:32 PM
i was bullied for like being gay even though i never like told anyone i was. Just like the odd insult. But when people actually realised that i really didn't care whether or not they believe i'm gay they gave up. Anyways people mature, and to be honest my sexuality is a great talking point now.

Nightrose
06-10-2006, 05:43 PM
Ive been bullied since i got into high school from yr 7 till yr 11,

Name Calling
Phyiscal abuse
Metal abuse
Locking out side of rooms
being told to kil myself
Sharp objects rammed in my face
Getting threaten to be knocked out
Been called names in public

its been getting worser recently and i havnt been school much, idont know how to go about leaving but ive been told to stay to sit my exams

the bulling is mostly from guys and i dont do anything to them but they do it to me because i like rock music and my apperance as i dont wear to much makeup and when i do its mostly eyeliner and that i dont go sleeping around,

Now its ruined my social life i barely go out just in case it happens
I have to see a woman every friday to know how to deal with it and ways tactics of dealing with it

I mean i know bullies are people who are low and everything but it gets to me, ive also beenn so depressed recently etc

Anyway i hace reported it and it stops for a few days and it happens again

Just dont suffer alone if u do,

Nightrose x

Eamonn
06-10-2006, 06:15 PM
No thankfully :]] got a good group of friends so if anyone even started to bully me they wouldn't be to sucessful :p and most people like me anyway because I'm 'nice'

brodeo
06-10-2006, 08:37 PM
No thankfully :]] got a good group of friends so if anyone even started to bully me they wouldn't be to sucessful :p and most people like me anyway because I'm 'nice'

Same i like no everyone now and everyone knows me.
But cos i'm in year 10 now and we mix, like because in years 7-9 we are seperate into two halves of the year and we only have classes with like that half. But now we've picked our options we get mixed with the other half and even though i like know some people already the first question i'm asked is "are you gay" and i'm like omg does everyone think this so i get a bit shifty, deny it then move the conversation on.

GOD I RLY NEED TO BE... UR.. WOTS THE WORD... STRONG?

Slash
06-10-2006, 08:47 PM
I do get bullied sometimes.
Not a regular thing, but yeah, sometimes.
Happened just today -.-'
But meh, I have good friends who see me through :)

WHANGFACE
06-10-2006, 08:48 PM
Yah a bit

brodeo
06-10-2006, 08:49 PM
I do get bullied sometimes.
Not a regular thing, but yeah, sometimes.
Happened just today -.-'
But meh, I have good friends who see me through :)


Yah a bit

Pls expand.

WHANGFACE
06-10-2006, 08:50 PM
Pls expand.
...I get bullied a bit, thats it.

Why do you wanna know..

brodeo
06-10-2006, 08:52 PM
I find it intresting to hear why people are bullied and try and help.

SORRY FOR HELPING GAWD.

WHANGFACE
06-10-2006, 08:53 PM
I find it intresting to hear why people are bullied and try and help.

SORRY FOR HELPING GAWD.
The first comment doesn't really sense you intended to help anyone.

brodeo
06-10-2006, 08:54 PM
The first comment doesn't really sense you intended to help anyone.

Why? I've nothing else better to do than help people.

Acidulantes
06-10-2006, 09:44 PM
lololol I put no... but I used to... erm, name calling... thats it really... I got hit in the face for not passing someone their football... but I think that was a one off thing lol....

RedStratocas
06-10-2006, 09:45 PM
Nah, havent gotten bullied in a while actually.

My school is actually pretty good. Im not like popular or anything, but for the most part, cliqs of people get along. The gap between loser and popular isnt very big.

Homesrfan
06-10-2006, 11:09 PM
Nah, never really got bullied, but for some reason in 7th grade my friends didn't like me for a couple of weeks... and they wouldn't let me sit with them. I have no idea why, but we are great friends now so it really doesn't matter.

Axel
06-10-2006, 11:17 PM
nope, never had.

.demolitionman.
06-10-2006, 11:17 PM
look yea if ur getting buillied really badly and they start punching you etc when they next come up to you get your fist ready and quickly and hard punch them in the head, only if nessacery though. its works trust me and you earn respect for urself and they become scared of you!! :D

L3aas
07-10-2006, 09:41 AM
I used to b bullied, these two kids jumped me and almost ripped my ear off because I won an easter egg in a raffle:s

so i moved school and im enjoying it now
;)

^.^
07-10-2006, 07:10 PM
never been bullied but that may just be because im pretty much taller than everyone in my year :)

Just-One
09-10-2006, 11:43 AM
I've never been bullied, I remember going to an extremely rough school however I had a huge crush on some girl (Jr school!) and spent the few years trying to get in with her. I DID Finally!! But moved schools a week later, so a school which was alot closer and friendly. I wasn't exactly bullied there, but there was one guy who seemed to obsess over me being the new guy and kept pulling me away to be his mate.. but I kinda pushed him away when one time playing with him he groped me :'(!!!!

Then Secondary school, well I was lucky to have Pokémon there at the time and that was a GREAT social starting point and getting to know people as everyone was doing it! I used to help in after school activities and all sorts, never bullied, but witnessed alot of bullying though. I guess people didn't particually have any reason to bully me and knew they couldn't as I always show them up. xD

Everyone gets name called once an a while.

DarkSound
29-10-2006, 02:26 AM
i never have im a bully and not proud of it ive been kciked out of the school loadsa times i just cant stand goths that smell with a greaseball of hair

Marsquake
29-10-2006, 02:34 AM
Nope, if anyone bullied me I'd ******* smack them. Just like if anyone bullies my brothers, I smack them.

mmhmm.
29-10-2006, 02:34 AM
no, but i wish i was bullied by this forum =[

summer
29-10-2006, 02:35 AM
i never have im a bully and not proud of it ive been kciked out of the school loadsa times i just cant stand goths that smell with a greaseball of hair
you're a fool.

Leuven
29-10-2006, 08:09 AM
I have never been bullied.
I used to bully and am now a good friend with the guys I used to bully.
I want to say that If there are any bullies here, Stop it, Its not cool and will only make you enemies and get you into lots of trouble.

DuHast
29-10-2006, 09:11 AM
I get bullied all the time but it doesn't really bother me. They think because I like computers and death metal that they will hit me and change me but I won't...

Tink
29-10-2006, 09:16 AM
I Got Bullied By These Girls Who I Used To Be M8z With But Now They Don't
Seem To Do It If They Do I Will Think Of Something To Do :'( :(

Pelfe
29-10-2006, 09:17 AM
I do get bullied, but its not as bad as it used to be.
I've lived with bullying since the age of 3 and its shred my confidence into pieces. I have no confidence what so ever but I know, slowly, with the help of some much needed friends. I'll be able to regain that :] x
NEVER give up

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