Bullying.

[-Xperience]

Ive been bullied ever since ive started school and it still hasnt stopped. It's always about the same thing time after time, people thinking im gay. Ive nothing about gay people but i dont see why i should get bullied for it when im not. :(
I used to have quite a high voice but recently its got deeper, i dont know if that was mainly because of it but i dont know.

Any advice for me? :(

Thanks Matt.

[Albion]

Prove them wrong, get a girlfriend and maybe they will stop? Or just ignore them. Maybe give em a punch or two, thatll stop em.

[Nemo]

ignore em...but actually dont listen 2 me i still get bullied and have been since like year 3 :l

[-Xperience]

Punch or 2? One of the hardet people in the school, i doubt it very much :( Ive had a couple of girlfriends but the perosn that i actually loved, lied and moved schools.

Minime - Same as you, been bullied since year 3 too :(

[GoldenMerc]

This is what i'd say,Stick up for your self,even if you get the you know what beaten out of you,you have done well.You have stuck up for your self which means the'l be like i dont want to go near him because he will hit me and they will bully someone else.

[Rizla]

I hate that. "They're lyk da hardest kids in my school!!" And? Hit them!

[Ostinato]

No, you shouldn't need to get a girlfriend to prove a point, nor should you need to fight back.

It's good you've realised this is a problem and your wanting help, and your right - because it's completely out of order and unfair for anyone. At the end of the day, (even though your not) your sexuality is nothing to do with them anyway, and they have no right to try and bully you because they are so naive they need to judge people into stereotypical categories.

Think about it dude - it's obvious your better than them. They are obviously so insecure and have their own problems that they need to try and use you to deal with them, but you need to put a stop to it.

I strongly recommend you tell a teacher or parent, or a close adult you can trust about this. Just tell them the same as what you told us, and that you want a stop to it, and trust me, it really is much easier than you think. I understand you may be worried that it will get worse or something, but the majority of the time it doesn't, and if anything does continue then once again, just tell someone.

Your better than these people though, but don't stand for it.

[Albion]

get a picture of him in a dress and put it all over school

[Rizla]

Some good advice there, Lemon ;)

[Kpod]

I wont ingnore it, and i wont tell your teachers as it'll onlym ake it worse and there'll do nothing probs like my school.

You can either:

Forbid to go back or you can ofcause, get a date or again you can go for him/her and attack. - However this gets you into trouble then, even tho the teachers know there the ones to blame etc.

In other news, good luck.

[lust]

get a picture of him in a dress and put it all over school
and where do you suggest he finds that?

and to keep this on topic; i agree with ostinato, tell someone.

[Brody]

say u have a older brother and he will beat them up if they start doing it agen?

[Dan2nd]

When they're being mean one day just walk over and say "why are you doing this?" I bet they won't have an answer and will look stoooopid ! or you could tell your friends about it they will prob back you up and stick up for you :) but never get into any fights because once my mate was getting pushed around at the park and he pulled out a blade so all the bullys ran off this seemed good at the time but the next day the bullys were back but this time with friends and trust me it wasn't pretty!

[Rizla]

If you hit them, they will stop! Stick up for yourself.

[-Xperience]

Thanks for the help ive taken things into consideration. Especiialy a big thank you to ostinato. You have helped me loads! :)

Why fight back it make me no more than a bully? :s

Tanks again Matt :)

[Ostinato]

Thanks for the help ive taken things into consideration. Especiialy a big thank you to ostinato. You have helped me loads! :)

Why fight back it make me no more than a bully? :s

Tanks again Matt :)

No problem - and exactly. If you fight them back, it makes you just as bad and then you won't be able to get any help on the situation. Some people would call it 'self defence', but the only self defence I recommend you take, is by getting it sorted by telling someone.

[Rizla]

Forget it, you'll still get bullied if you tell someone, make your own mind up.