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-Xperience
03-10-2006, 06:02 PM
I need help, im in Yr10 and still havent been with anyone. Not being big headed but im not exactly the most unattractive boy in the school and it seems as if the others have be en with people. I told my friends that i had been with someone just to get rid of the embarresment(sp?). A lot has happened to me this year in term of family but i really just want to get this over my head :( Please help Matt..

Ostinato
03-10-2006, 06:17 PM
Well, have you actually asked anyone out or approachaed a relationship yourself?

If not, you can't just expect all the girls to come to you - you need to meet them half way. Their probably just as embaressed and stuff as you, and their hardly just going to ask you out on a date if you don't make an incline your interested.

Start developing friendships with more females, and maybe initiate a bit of flirting then see how thing's go. If you find a girl who you have feelings for, then ask her out on a date or something.

Don't worry though mate - your still young and have a lot of time to find that special girl - don't just go with someone because you feel pressurised to do so. :]

luke-p
03-10-2006, 06:18 PM
Well the right person hasent came along yet, Just wait till they do I waited for the right one and im glad I did :)

Fomas
03-10-2006, 06:20 PM
I didnt date anyone till half way through year 11.
Dont rush things,

-Xperience
03-10-2006, 06:32 PM
I really loved this girl, she used to go out with my best mate but thwen split up and went out with me. We were going to Austria and verything together but she started doing stuff agen with her ex, while she was going out with me. But i still love her and she still has strong feelings for me. I do approach half way but nothing seems to develop from there. :(

Azza
03-10-2006, 07:38 PM
Relationships aren't everything. Just cause lot of ppl having um dont mean you have to. like Ostinato said you needa talk to them and that.



I really loved this girl, she used to go out with my best mate but thwen split up and went out with me. We were going to Austria and verything together but she started doing stuff agen with her ex, while she was going out with me. But i still love her and she still has strong feelings for me. I do approach half way but nothing seems to develop from there. :(

If not developes it isnt really worth it? ^^ Love or not cheating is a horrible thing and know really is worth it and deserves to be dumped or given 2nd chance ^^ 2nd chances are hard to pick up from but can work other hand ending it wil ltake time to recover and what not but you get over it.

united-champ
03-10-2006, 08:02 PM
If some1 asks you out or you ask sum1 out make sure there not desprete..
there kool
They got a little Intelligence..
Pretty
no disturbing aqful habbits
Althouhg..
If family issues are bothering you a relationship can make ship sail perfect.. i guess..

BUt i dont know
just wait
ull find one ;)

Theres Plenty more fish in da sea

Bef
04-10-2006, 04:34 PM
When you say "been with" do you mean kiss, sex or relationship?

-Xperience
04-10-2006, 06:50 PM
Kiss..:(

Rizla
04-10-2006, 07:48 PM
BUt i dont knowYou're not wrong there.

Don't worry about it mate, some people are late bloomers :p Pretty much what Ostinatio said, flirt a bit, or maybe ask a girl mate to get someone for you, and you get someone for her.

Swastika
04-10-2006, 08:01 PM
You're not wrong there.

Don't worry about it mate, some people are late bloomers :p Pretty much what Ostinatio said, flirt a bit, or maybe ask a girl mate to get someone for you, and you get someone for her.
Dont listen to Ryan, hes never right. :)

Rizla
04-10-2006, 08:04 PM
I think all that smog is getting to you ;) I do that all the time with my girl mates :p

kreechin
04-10-2006, 08:28 PM
Well the right person hasent came along yet, Just wait till they do I waited for the right one and im glad I did :)


Wait to long and you'll be the 40 yr old virgin hah :P x

foxyfox00
09-10-2006, 03:54 PM
Wait to long and you'll be the 40 yr old virgin hah x
I love that movie!

You'll find someone who likes you. Try and meet new people and go places you dont usually. Ask friends if they know anyone looking to date, And.....
follow your heart.

Good Luck

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