Whats impresses lads?

[-Undiscovered]

Please tell my, i need to know what i can do to get the lad i like to make a choice on weather or not he will go out with me, i sent a mate to ask him and he said he will think about it, so, what you lads like? Girls can vote to thanks.

[brandon]

having the looks and the personality.

[Billy♥]

looking good ;) and funny

[!clarissax]

nice breasts, most deny it, but they know its what they think :]]]

[poll]

nice breasts, most deny it, but they know its what they think :]]]

Claz you can read my mind :D

[Scriptermone]

Nice *removed* , huge *removed* , and of course - a good personality :}

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[!clarissax]

Claz you can read my mind :D
im just smart :}}}

[poll]

im just smart :}}}

why do you think i chat to you theres only 1 reason!

[Eamonn]

nice breasts, most deny it, but they know its what they think :]]]
I don't ! They need some breasts :]] nice ones, they need a fine bum!! and obv fit face and they fit bod and personality :]

[!clarissax]

why do you think i chat to you theres only 1 reason!
:rolleyes::P


I don't ! They need some breasts :]] nice ones, they need a fine bum!! and obv fit face and they fit bod and personality :]
lol@youputtinglooksfirstthenpersonalitly:p

[Krypsis]

Good looking, good personality (funny, nice).. umm nice breasts (not like dried prunes pls).. etc.

:D

[paulzzz]

Personality, breasts n skinny is just a bonous. not like rly skinny thoo

[x_HiNdUcAkEz_x]

*removed* , legs, ****, face, how easy they are, then personality.

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[!clarissax]

*removed* , legs, ****, face, how easy they are, then personality.

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pmsl@howeasytheyare

thats just bad soz.

[Benjiz]

good looking, but natural. being caked with make-up aint nice. and personality over most. also a sense of humour.

[poll]

good looking, but natural. being caked with make-up aint nice. and personality over most. also a sense of humour.

I Like your style!

[luke-p]

Personality Then looks for me, You wouldnt go with the fittest girl if she was a compleet ***** would you?

[-Soph-]

A good personality, And looks help

[James!]

I don't look for big breasts as such, like facial features such as the eyes and personality is what I go for.. but a woman who can stand her ground impresses guys.

[FlyingJesus]

Looks come first. Deny it all you like, but in my opinion the guys who say personality is more important on first impressions are probably ugly themselves. For me the face is probably most important as that's what you see the most, nice chest is always a bonus (doesn't have to be big, and small ones are often nicer 'cause they don't flap around) and then y'know, other stuff like not being a whale, no copius amounts of body/facial hair, nice legs are always a good thing (because let's face it, if I'm going to be in between them I don't want them to make me feel sick) and then personality. Soz girls, but that's how it is in the real world.

[Rizla]

Pretty much what FlyingJesus said. If I want to actually get with someone, they have to have a personality, if I just want to do stuff with them, leave out the personality part. I don't like a really small chest though, perky ones are great, big ones are great, too big are not great.

Edit: This forum censor sucks, I can't say b00bs.

[-Undiscovered]

:) Thanks for the advice, i will try and rep as many of you when i can!

[its ree agen !!]

u all say looks but wot if someone is ugly and cant change their looks??

then ther pretty stuffed :(

[FlyingJesus]

Yeah they are as far as I'm concerned. Fair enough they might be lovely people, but that makes them friends. If there's no physical attraction at all then I wouldn't go out with someone, it would be pointless.

[Alterate]

A nice peach behind, personality and look's, you can call me shallow or what you want for saying look's but as FJ ^^ just put if there's no physical attraction, whats the point?

[warn]

Nice looking is kind of pivotal really as thats the only reason a lad will speak to you lol.. in highschool anyway if thats what age your around.
Then he might actually like your personality etc but in highschool everyones shallow and wouldnt care less how nice you are unless your good looking.

[surfer]

Well she has to have a good personality and easy to chat with, She has to be decent looking and she got to be fit. plus other body features are a big plus

[entor M]

Nice looking, and attarciveness are all relative terms. Everyone has there own tastes, what somepeople dislike others like, so wether someone is attractive or not is realy dependant on who you ask "/

[BL!NKEY]

Nice looking, and attarciveness are all relative terms. Everyone has there own tastes, what somepeople dislike others like, so wether someone is attractive or not is realy dependant on who you ask "/

I agree with that but there is not too much wiggle room.

I dont see how anyone can think

http://www.eudiriaque.com.br/ugly_girl.jpeg

Is more attractive then

http://www.wallpaperseek.com/data/media/10/jessica-alba%20wallpaper008.jpg

For me I would say most important is the face.

[surfer]

I prefer the top one shes better :) :P

[RedStratocas]

Not going to lie, looks come first. But yes, guys are deeper, they wont go out with you JUST for looks either (if they do, you dont want to be with them anyway). 99% of guys will refuse to go out with a girl if they dont laugh or have a sense of humor. So that one is key. If you laugh at a lot of stuff, thats a majplus for you.

[Lindzi]

Tbh I don't see why you put personality in the poll, Won't be shocked if most guys put that just so they don't seem shallow :rolleyes:

[Alterate]

Tbh I don't see why you put personality in the poll, Won't be shocked if most guys put that just so they don't seem shallow :rolleyes:

Yeah bnut that's just people kidding them selves becaus e nobodys going to be impressed by it. staying on topic.. Looks do come first, but I couldn't be with a girl with a crap personality.

[Wig44.]

Flying jesus is basically the same as me, nice face, fit bum and breasts, fit body, not too muchhair, and look, tht what comes first for me. Then comes personality and sense of humour, but if a girl had a rubbish personality or sense of humour I'd dump her in a skip head first kfnx :)

[Lindzi]

Yeah bnut that's just people kidding them selves becaus e nobodys going to be impressed by it. staying on topic.. Looks do come first, but I couldn't be with a girl with a crap personality.

I'm not saying that guys will go with anyone if they're hot its just in all honesty what are you more impressed by? a nice **** or a nice personality? I guess some might choose the personality but if its like first time meeting or something...

[L3aas]

as someone said lookes do come first, i although a great personality it what i love, with a good sense of humour

[^.^]

im seeing personality 18 votes a few liers?

[FlyingJesus]

Flying jesus is basically the same as me, nice face, fit bum and breasts, fit body, not too muchhair

Thanks mate, glad to know you like my bum and breasts ;) and if you're the same, wanna hook up?

[RedStratocas]

Thanks mate, glad to know you like my bum and breasts ;) and if you're the same, wanna hook up?

LOL!!!

[FlyingJesus]

I like my women built like buses tbh

[RedStratocas]

I like my women built like buses tbh

Like buses? You mean you put money in and you get to ride it?

[FlyingJesus]

'Course, I ain't no piggy porker.

[entor M]

;2330287']im seeing personality 18 votes a few liers?
1) i dont give a **** about make-up? If there attracive they dont need it, if they have it, it usealy means there trying to cover up what they look like "/
2)Both too fat and to thin are bad, The averge wieght in most places is overwieght anyway, so that more just on the 2 fat negatives.
3) personaly on the other hand is quite an important one, as well as the only postive aspect there, so obviosly why i myself and id suppose others may choose to pick it "/


Like buses? You mean you put money in and you get to ride it?
LMAO

[FlyingJesus]

The options are pretty crap actually yeah. I put skinny though because that's just how I am.

[entor M]

The options are pretty crap actually yeah. I put skinny though because that's just how I am.
Would you realy want to go out with an anorexic who looks like a stick? o.0
Link to google image search to give you some idea what i mean.
( http://images.google.co.uk/images?q=anorexic&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&sa=N&tab=wi )

[FlyingJesus]

You don't have to be anorexic to be skinny, it just means under the average weight.. I agree that anorexic people look rank really, I just prefer slim girls.

[entor M]

You don't have to be anorexic to be skinny, it just means under the average weight.. I agree that anorexic people look rank really, I just prefer slim girls.
Slim, isnt skinny though, skinny is more the anorexic type look. Slim is pretty much just a heathy weight "/

[Kotu]

I have to be honest, being good looking is a good thing (for any relationship) - but that's nothing without a personality to back them up with. So for me, I'd say personality.

[Bexex]

lol@ those guys that like skinny girls
T_T

[entor M]

lol@ those guys that like skinny girls
T_T
I wouldnt say that fat is any better ( http://images.google.co.uk/images?hl=en&hs=tG1&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&sa=N&resnum=0&q=obese&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&tab=wi )

[Neversoft]

It would have to be Personality for me. I'd like a nice cheerful gal that has the same intrests as me. :P

[sock]

I chose personality, but I know a lot of people out there would want them to flash. not including me -rolls eyes- really!

[Ostinato]

Personality, definetley.

There's no point being with a girl whos absoloutley skinny or fat or wears a ton of make up to hide their ugliness, just for their looks - if there personality is dry as abone.

No matter how good looking a person is, it's their personality which comes down to it in a relationship, as that's what will keep it going in the end.

[Lindzi]

I wouldnt say that fat is any better ( http://images.google.co.uk/images?hl=en&hs=tG1&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&sa=N&resnum=0&q=obese&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&tab=wi )

So by your standards what can a person say they like without you googling it?

[foxyfox00]

Who voted fat PMSL!

Its amazing how many people[guys] voted personality!
People shouldnt be valued by weight. And the google images they are real people with real feelings you know!

[Swastika]

Personally, i like outgoing lasses, like the girl who would dye her hair red or sumit. I just find that cool. :P

Anyway i like:
Little bit of makeup COULD look alrite i s'pose
personality
good sence of humour
nice body with belly button pierced [looks quality :P]
and good in bed pls
ha!

[Soka]

i go by personality AND looks :)
but personality is more important

[Lindzi]

Who voted fat PMSL!

Its amazing how many people[guys] voted personality!
People shouldnt be valued by weight. And the google images they are real people with real feelings you know!

lmao at the fat thing :P
Don't be too shocked not surprised if people are telling porkies :P Like in magazines where theres always the corny guy who values personality lol

[ebay]

i like a gurl who is a bit of a tease wid da guys

[entor M]

So by your standards what can a person say they like without you googling it?
o.0 Anything that doesnt requre an exsample in responce? you can google anything if you feel like it, here ( http://images.google.co.uk/images?q=anything&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&sa=N&tab=wi )

Also im kinda lost as to your point? fat/skinny, nether is healthy, neather in mu opinion is particaly attracive, but attractivness is relative to the percever, so what may be a turn off for me could quite easly be a turn on for others. The pictures are exsamples to give people an idea what exsactly im refering to when useing the words "/

What do my standards have to do with googling it? what standards are you refering to here?

[FlyingJesus]

Seeing as how the average weight is on the rise (and not exactly light to start with), I'd say that many people who are regarded as skinny are actually much healthier than others. And skinny is the same as slim, there are of course extremes but I'd rather not go there (literally). Myself for example, perfectly healthy, weighing in at just over 8 stone which is far less than the average weight for someone my age, I'm skinny.

[Bexex]

Are you short?

[Herman]

I like girls who can make me laugh. I get bored easily if I don't laugh. And of course most importantly her personality. Weight does not matter at all.

[shenk.]

Omg, goth girls with loads of make-up </3 lol.

[PenguinFluid]

Looks come first. Deny it all you like, but in my opinion the guys who say personality is more important on first impressions are probably ugly themselves. For me the face is probably most important as that's what you see the most, nice chest is always a bonus (doesn't have to be big, and small ones are often nicer 'cause they don't flap around) and then y'know, other stuff like not being a whale, no copius amounts of body/facial hair, nice legs are always a good thing (because let's face it, if I'm going to be in between them I don't want them to make me feel sick) and then personality. Soz girls, but that's how it is in the real world.

lmao at that

[Axel]

Nice normal person and someone who looks good.

[MsTanya]

soz yh, but the majority of you who have said personality are lying :| its obviously more on looks, boys are stupid like that

[Axel]

soz yh, but the majority of you who have said personality are lying :| its obviously more on looks, boys are stupid like that

Not me, I hated going out with this girl with a crap personality.

[MsTanya]

so youd go out with a *****r if she made you laugh?

[Axel]

so youd go out with a *****r if she made you laugh?

Well not someone that horrible looking... but if they were'nt exactly pretty either, then ye.

[MsTanya]

you cant be all that nice either then [:

[Axel]

Well I wouldn't want to go out someone who was super ugly...

[Rizla]

I'd do stuff with someone who was fit but had a crap personality, and I'd go out with someone who was ok looking but had a decent personality. Can't be butt ugly though, sorry.

[Lindzi]

I'm confused when you say average do you mean what most peoples size is? (Which is rather large) or healthy weight? :s

[simon!]

It'd have to be personalty for me, obv looks would be a bonus but if your looking for a model with big knockers and a gorgeous bum your just being greedy.

[FlyingJesus]

soz yh, but the majority of you who have said personality are lying :| its obviously more on looks, boys are stupid like that

Girls are just as bad if not worse :P

[Topjak]

It'd have to be personalty for me, obv looks would be a bonus

My thoughts exactly. A girl needs a personality, nobody wants to date a mindless simple plank. Need somebody you can speak to, but of course if theyre good looking, is an added perk.

[FlyingJesus]

Y'see, I'm the opposite of that. I don't think "hey she's a great person, shame she's got a face like Thatcher but I'll go out with her anyway". If she's got a good personality, she's a friend. If she's just got looks, she's a place to keep my phallus warm for a night. If she's got both, then we'll talk about relationships.

[Topjak]

Y'see, I'm the opposite of that. I don't think "hey she's a great person, shame she's got a face like Thatcher but I'll go out with her anyway". If she's got a good personality, she's a friend. If she's just got looks, she's a place to keep my phallus warm for a night. If she's got both, then we'll talk about relationships.

Ha! Are you a 1st or 2nd rate loser?
Just curious

[FlyingJesus]

Ha! Are you a 1st or 2nd rate loser?
Just curious

Sorry, I'm a loser for having a realistic approach to women? I said that I wouldn't date a *****r, and there's a good reason for that. If there is no sexual attraction between two people then there can be no long-lasting relationship. If I meet a girl who's a lovely person but isn't good looking then she can be my friend, but I will never think of her as anything more, because I will not be attracted to her. Similarly, if there's a girl who's obnoxious but gorgeous, she will be in my thoughts on lonely nights but I will likely never get close to her, and because of her being horrible I wouldn't want to.

I don't see how my last post brands me a "loser" of any "rate", as I simply stated that for a girl to have a chance with me she has to be ranking high in the looks department and have a good personality as well. Looks are simply higher in my eyes because you see looks first. You possibly see personality first if you're a net dater, but I'm not.

[Topjak]

Sorry, I'm a loser for having a realistic approach to women? I said that I wouldn't date a *****r, and there's a good reason for that. If there is no sexual attraction between two people then there can be no long-lasting relationship. If I meet a girl who's a lovely person but isn't good looking then she can be my friend, but I will never think of her as anything more, because I will not be attracted to her. Similarly, if there's a girl who's obnoxious but gorgeous, she will be in my thoughts on lonely nights but I will likely never get close to her, and because of her being horrible I wouldn't want to.

I don't see how my last post brands me a "loser" of any "rate", as I simply stated that for a girl to have a chance with me she has to be ranking high in the looks department and have a good personality as well. Looks are simply higher in my eyes because you see looks first. You possibly see personality first if you're a net dater, but I'm not.

Realistic?! Are you kidding?! Not all of us males act like jerks btw. Some of us are still decent, we dont treat women like meat we treat thjem with respect like HUMANS.
To say 'realistic' is an insult to all those who are insecure about themselves!

And to then go on and tell us they need to score high in both for a relationship with you just shows how chauvinistic you truley are.

[FlyingJesus]

Realistic?! Are you kidding?! Not all of us males act like jerks btw. Some of us are still decent, we dont treat women like meat we treat thjem with respect like HUMANS.
To say 'realistic' is an insult to all those who are insecure about themselves!

And to then go on and tell us they need to score high in both for a relationship with you just shows how chauvinistic you truley are.

Yes I'm sexist, I don't deny it. That however has nothing to do with this debate. What you don't seem to get is that an adult, long-term relationship does rely quite largely on sex. I don't know how old you are, but one day it might happen to you, and I'm sure you wouldn't want to do it with someone who looks like she got mistaken for the pig that she is at the local slaughterhouse and got her face even more mashed up.

http://www.artlex.com/ArtLex/uv/images/ugly_guyshead.jpeg
If you met this person and found that they had the most fantastic personality and were a right laugh, would you seriously bang them? I doubt it. You might well be her friend, maybe even a close friend, but you wouldn't want to get involved. I just said all this to a girl friend of mine (not girlfriend, girl friend) and she agrees with me, because she has a brain. I repeat:

If you are not attracted to someone, you cannot have a sexual relationship with them.

[Axel]

Sorry Topjak, but Jesus got it in one.

[Fomas]

For me a girl has to be good looking, curvy (No skinny please)
And has to have an amazing perosonality, really bubbly and adventurous, and a girl who is themself no matter who they are with.

So dont change for anyone.
And jesus has got a good point i couldnt go out with someone really bad looking, but looks arent everything me and my gf arent going great and she is stunning.

[FlyingJesus]

For me a girl has to be good looking, curvy (No skinny please)
And has to have an amazing perosonality, really bubbly and adventurous, and a girl who is themself no matter who they are with.

So dont change for anyone.
And jesus has got a good point i couldnt go out with someone really bad looking, but looks arent everything me and my gf arent going great and she is stunning.

wots her numba m8?

[Topjak]

Yes I'm sexist, I don't deny it. That however has nothing to do with this debate. What you don't seem to get is that an adult, long-term relationship does rely quite largely on sex. I don't know how old you are, but one day it might happen to you, and I'm sure you wouldn't want to do it with someone who looks like she got mistaken for the pig that she is at the local slaughterhouse and got her face even more mashed up.

http://www.artlex.com/ArtLex/uv/images/ugly_guyshead.jpeg
If you met this person and found that they had the most fantastic personality and were a right laugh, would you seriously bang them? I doubt it. You might well be her friend, maybe even a close friend, but you wouldn't want to get involved. I just said all this to a girl friend of mine (not girlfriend, girl friend) and she agrees with me, because she has a brain. I repeat:

If you are not attracted to someone, you cannot have a sexual relationship with them.


WRONG

What you're describing is a LUSTFUL realtionship, i however am talking about LOVE. Basing love on looks is not possible, you need a connection with that person not just an attaction, this can be built up over years and years, to say that I personally wouldnt 'bang' (which btw is a poor word to use from you 6 year old vocabulary) doenst mean nobody would, dont get me wrong there are obviously people out there i won't be attracted to thats human nature, but to say they have to be good looking or they can get lost is absurd! No healthy relationship can be based on looks FACT a helathy relationship can be built on personality, i know this as i'm no Brad Pitt, i know this, yet i've known many people over the years who have found me attractive BECAUSE OF MY PERSONALITY, example one: Check my thread in other pictures, its of a girl ho used to have a huge crush on me, she isnt the best lookign girl on earth, but niether is she ugly and she has never been single for the 5 years i've known her, thats because she has a great sense of humour and bubbly attitude and great personality.

I say to you, bring me a relationship that has lasted 4 years based on lust?

PS: I'm also 16, and i would so bang the bird in that pic. Shes hawt *drools*

[Fomas]

wots her numba m8?

Rofl bugger off

[BL!NKEY]

I don't see how everyone can put personality as first.

I know people have different opinions but your first impression is usually looks.

I would prefer a slim girl over an average girl. I would even prefer a really skinny girl over a fat girl. That is just me, not saying that is what everyone should think.

Personality is great and needed for a relationship.

But if a smoking hot girl had no personality, they would appeal to me way more then a ugly girl who is nice and fun to be around.

I know it makes boys look bad but It is what i feel.

Humans are genetically inclined to go for the fittest girl so their children will live and have a higher chance of passing on the genes. That is how the universe works. Looks have to do with health. If a girl eats McDonalds all the time and doesn't take care of the acne on her face then she is less attractive.


PS: I'm also 16, and i would so bang the bird in that pic. Shes hawt *drools*

If your standards are that low then I can see why you think the way you do.

[Topjak]

Humans are genetically inclined to go for the fittest girl so their children will live and have a higher chance of passing on the genes. That is how the universe works. Looks have to do with health. If a girl eats McDonalds all the time and doesn't take care of the acne on her face then she is less attractive.

Personally i'd go for the girl who could eat a 3 big macs than a calorie counter.
The only time i'd ever want to watch what i'll eat is when i'm cooking it

PS. I know i cut out 90% of your post buts its 11pm i really cnat be bothered to slice up everyones posts.

[Fomas]

Personally i'd go for the girl who could eat a 3 big macs than a calorie counter.
The only time i'd ever want to watch what i'll eat is when i'm cooking it

Yeh but thats your popinion.
I admit I prefer a girl who looks after her self.

I dont like un healthy people, i think its a waste of a life.

[Topjak]

Yeh but thats your popinion.
I admit I prefer a girl who looks after her self.

I dont like un healthy people, i think its a waste of a life.


Waste of a life? OK so the obese are a bit too much and admitadley i wouldnt date a girl the size of a russian tank, but a waste of a life? Ouch. Im no where near healthy so that hit kinda hard! :(

[BL!NKEY]

Personally i'd go for the girl who could eat a 3 big macs than a calorie counter.
The only time i'd ever want to watch what i'll eat is when i'm cooking it


I dont find that hard to believe comming from the person who would like to bang...


http://www.artlex.com/ArtLex/uv/images/ugly_guyshead.jpeg

and I dont see why the other person thinks obease people are a waste of life.

Some of them are born like it and cant do much about it.

We are talking about stuff that impresses boys not why fat people dont derserve to live.

[Topjak]

I dont find that hard to believe comming from the person who would like to bang...



HAHA! Touche man. That was good. Harsh but good.


and I dont see why the other person thinks obease people are a waste of life.

Some of them are born like it and cant do much about it.

We are talking about stuff that impresses boys not why fat people dont derserve to live.

I lol'd

[entor M]

Realistic?! Are you kidding?! Not all of us males act like jerks btw. Some of us are still decent, we dont treat women like meat we treat thjem with respect like HUMANS.
To say 'realistic' is an insult to all those who are insecure about themselves!

And to then go on and tell us they need to score high in both for a relationship with you just shows how chauvinistic you truley are.
o.0 Yes, Relationships obviosly work best between people who find each other repulcive and hate each others guts, I can definilty see how realistic you are...

Unluckly we live in somthing called reality, And flyingjesus is makeing a very true claim, people tend to fall in love with people they find both attractive and like personalty wize.

The factor you seem to be missing is the relativity of attracivness. What one person sees as ugly another person can see a beauty. Just becuse you think someones girlfriend is ugly, doesnt mean they dont cair about looks, it just means they probably dont have the same opinion as you, and do in fact find them attracive "/


WRONG

What you're describing is a LUSTFUL realtionship, i however am talking about LOVE. Basing love on looks is not possible,
Well the species as have most other species have been survive exsacty BECUSE of judging that for millions of years now, so learn your facts mate.
What is deemed attrracive comes from how we select a sutable mate, We select (even if non consuily) based on a number of factors all attrubuted to be attractive since that will produce better ospring, and hence futher your genetics... its how eveolition works and we came from a bactera to where we are now, i realy dont think you can attack this basis...



you need a connection with that person not just an attaction, this can be built up over years and years, to say that I personally wouldnt 'bang' (which btw is a poor word to use from you 6 year old vocabulary) doenst mean nobody would, dont get me wrong there are obviously people out there i won't be attracted to thats human nature, but to say they have to be good looking or they can get lost is absurd!
Good looking = relative. Your not some super powered immortal being, you dont personaly get to define the world for all existing humans, A person can be but ugly to you, and the definition of beuety to someone else...



No healthy relationship can be based on looks FACT a helathy relationship can be built on personality, i know this as i'm no Brad Pitt, i know this, yet i've known many people over the years who have found me attractive BECAUSE OF MY PERSONALITY, example one: Check my thread in other pictures, its of a girl ho used to have a huge crush on me, she isnt the best lookign girl on earth, but niether is she ugly and she has never been single for the 5 years i've known her, thats because she has a great sense of humour and bubbly attitude and great personality.
Obviosly personality is a factor, and is PART of what can make someone attractive, Phiscal attraciveness is still important though on top of this, Saying its just the one factor is compleaty untrue "/




I say to you, bring me a relationship that has lasted 4 years based on lust?

And i take it youve had your girlfriend since you were 12 then? or was that last comment just a hot steaming pile of bull?

[Fomas]

and I dont see why the other person thinks obease people are a waste of life.

Some of them are born like it and cant do much about it.

We are talking about stuff that impresses boys not why fat people dont derserve to live.

I mean, I think its pointless not being in control of your own body.
I mean if its an illness or something like that im not gonna have a go at them.

And i didnt say fat anyway, i said people that dont look after themselves.
I mean looks or w.e
And they complain when they get no one.
There own fault.
Not ours,

[Topjak]

o.0 Yes, Relationships obviosly work best between people who find each other repulcive and hate each others guts, I can definilty see how realistic you are...

Unluckly we live in somthing called reality, And flyingjesus is makeing a very true claim, people tend to fall in love with people they find both attractive and like personalty wize.

The factor you seem to be missing is the relativity of attracivness. What one person sees as ugly another person can see a beauty. Just becuse you think someones girlfriend is ugly, doesnt mean they dont cair about looks, it just means they probably dont have the same opinion as you, and do in fact find them attracive "/


Well the species as have most other species have been survive exsacty BECUSE of judging that for millions of years now, so learn your facts mate.
What is deemed attrracive comes from how we select a sutable mate, We select (even if non consuily) based on a number of factors all attrubuted to be attractive since that will produce better ospring, and hence futher your genetics... its how eveolition works and we came from a bactera to where we are now, i realy dont think you can attack this basis...


Good looking = relative. Your not some super powered immortal being, you dont personaly get to define the world for all existing humans, A person can be but ugly to you, and the definition of beuety to someone else...


Obviosly personality is a factor, and is PART of what can make someone attractive, Phiscal attraciveness is still important though on top of this, Saying its just the one factor is compleaty untrue "/


And i take it youve had your girlfriend since you were 12 then? or was that last comment just a hot steaming pile of bull?

Ok last post before i hit pillow.

First off dont join the thread and getall mucho and policman on us. This is a DEBATE not an argument, to start throwing some os those phrases was unnecessary now chill.

Now lets me see if i have energy to cut this down *sigh*

At no point did i say rekationship work between those who hate each other, in fact i said the opposite so quit talking out you secondary mouth (Good filter avoiding huh?)
And yes there are points of Jesus' that are valid but i also disagree with others. You have me on the point that beauty differs between different people so thats 1 point you.
For you to say im arrogant to define everything by MY ideas is just a downright sucker punch. No need for it and ill address it no further.
I also agree with the factors part, but in my reality, as i am clearly not in yours is that personality is a larger factor than looks.
I also never said that i am in a 4 year relationship, i had previously stated my friend hasnt been single in the 5 years ive known her can you put 2 and 2 together or do you still need help?

:)

[FlyingJesus]

WRONG

No I'm not.


What you're describing is a LUSTFUL realtionship, i however am talking about LOVE. Basing love on looks is not possible, you need a connection with that person not just an attaction, this can be built up over years and years,

So if you're in a relationship with someone who you fancy, it can only be lust? I think you need to rethink your definitions, and also reread what I posted: I never claimed that relationships went by looks alone.


to say that I personally wouldnt 'bang' (which btw is a poor word to use from you 6 year old vocabulary)

There's a filter on here, hence the "6 year old vocabulary".



doenst mean nobody would, dont get me wrong there are obviously people out there i won't be attracted to thats human nature, but to say they have to be good looking or they can get lost is absurd!

No it isn't. I have very high standards.


No healthy relationship can be based on looks

Yes it can. Lust can grow into love, just like love can dissolve into lust.


FACT a helathy relationship can be built on personality,

Yes it CAN, but not just personality, which is what I've been getting at.


i know this as i'm no Brad Pitt, i know this, yet i've known many people over the years who have found me attractive BECAUSE OF MY PERSONALITY,

Fair enough, I never claimed that personality had no part in it (in fact I've been saying that you need both) but these people will have also had some physical attraction to you. You don't have to be the best looking guy to be seen as attractive to others, but if they liked your personality and not your looks at all you'd still just be a friend.


example one: Check my thread in other pictures, its of a girl ho used to have a huge crush on me,

Don't call them ho's mate, that's not very nice.


she isnt the best lookign girl on earth, but niether is she ugly and she has never been single for the 5 years i've known her, thats because she has a great sense of humour and bubbly attitude and great personality.

You really don't get what I'm on about.


I say to you, bring me a relationship that has lasted 4 years based on lust?

I say to you, bring me a relationship that has lasted 4 years with no lust whatsoever.


PS: I'm also 16, and i would so bang the bird in that pic. Shes hawt *drools*

Each to their own.



First off dont join the thread and getall mucho and policman on us. This is a DEBATE not an argument, to start throwing some os those phrases was unnecessary now chill.

Ha! Are you a 1st or 2nd rate loser?

Soz m8, contradiction

[entor M]

Ok last post before i hit pillow.

First off dont join the thread and getall mucho and policman on us. This is a DEBATE not an argument, to start throwing some os those phrases was unnecessary now chill.

Now lets me see if i have energy to cut this down *sigh*

mucho? policeman? o.0 i think i can probably conclude here you need sleep more than you think you do...


At no point did i say rekationship work between those who hate each other, in fact i said the opposite so quit talking out you secondary mouth
No, but you said exsactly the same thing about attractiveness. i then enphised the exsample to get the point accross that id to people dont like each other it wont work...This applys directly to phisical attraction as well.


And yes there are points of Jesus' that are valid but i also disagree with others. You have me on the point that beauty differs between different people so thats 1 point you.
For you to say im arrogant to define everything by MY ideas is just a downright sucker punch. No need for it and ill address it no further.
Nice fallisy to throw in there, the fact it implys your arrigant obviosly means the point made is false "/ The arguments still just as valid wether its targeted at you or not.

I also agree with the factors part, but in my reality, as i am clearly not in yours is that personality is a larger factor than looks.
Heres again an issuse with attractivness. Since in accordance with its relativity, You will find them attractive, dispite whether you did or did not at first. If someone is friendly your mind will like them more, and hence pick up on things you find attracive about them, if not, its the oppsit "/
To go with that, due to the way where wired up, simple facal exspressions also make a massive differnce in how attractive people seem, people that smile alot, even if not steriotypicaly beutiful will get alot more attention than those who dont, and it is an issue of attractivness "/


I also never said that i am in a 4 year relationship, i had previously stated my friend hasnt been single in the 5 years ive known her can you put 2 and 2 together or do you still need help?
:)
You start by trying to make out im useing adhomin falisys, the you end by doing exsactly that...
You asked for a 4 year exsample of a lust based relationship? you dont have exsperince of a 4 year love based relationship to back your first clame up with.
Lust and love are easly confused, since your not phycic you cant know for sure about there relationship "/

Anyway, your arguments even more flawed than it started with. No one. No one AT ALL. Has claimed you can have a proper relationship based on love. Theyve claimed Love is caused by BOTH personality AND attractivness in the phiscial sence. Not just by personality, as you seem to be overarchingly claiming it is.
Hell its not even a relationship in that sence withoiut love, so your lust based one contradicts itself before it starts.. Maybe you should start with adding 1 and 1 together?

[simon!]

I personally wouldnt 'bang' (which btw is a poor word to use from you 6 year old vocabulary)

PS: I'm also 16, and i would so bang the bird in that pic. Shes hawt *drools*

1. 'Bang' when used by 6 year olds is when a firework goes off, what 6 year olds have you met that use the word 'bang' as a sexual term?
2. Why disagree with the word THEN use the darn thing so immaturely?
3. Your future relationships will be extremely strained if you wish to have relations with a picture of various different body parts put together!

[FlyingJesus]

If he still doesn't get what I'm on about I think he should be sanctioned.

[clar_xo]

soz yh, but the majority of you who have said personality are lying :| its obviously more on looks, boys are stupid like that
so you're telling me you'd go out with a nice boy even if he was fat, spotty and smelly?

[Lindzi]

so you're telling me you'd go out with a nice boy even if he was fat, spotty and smelly?

He sounds sexy :P

[Sazzle]

He sounds sexy :P
oi, im having him

[MsTanya]

so you're telling me you'd go out with a nice boy even if he was fat, spotty and smelly?
erm what? i was saying that its more on looks not personalitly..

[YellowParasol]

Looks and the other certain features aswell ;)