Arrrhhhh!!!! Help in love!

[zoey101]

Hi,

I am here making this thread because im as shy as a pig farting (sorrry)

Right,

So I like this girl in my music class at college and i don't know what to do I like her and all but its just hard speeking to her I do this

Alright..
She gose Yes

I go..."Think to self what to say"


I just don't know what to do Its like a stuiped random guy like me coming over saying "go out with me" Then the disapoinment comes.. she will be like I will think about it I will think to my self " I just had to do it, Come over and bee a ****** ( never ask her)

What do I DO??

please help me I really like the girl

Thank you
Nick

[DiscoPat]

Mate, what you need to do is at lunch time or whatever say to her e.g. 'Katherine have you got a spear sec I need to talk to you bout something'
then say like; first of all promise me that this will stay between us... shes say yeah ok then you say in the last few weeks I feel something for you etc etc...

thats what im planning on doing mate im kinda in the same sucuation but think bout it what have we got to lose? I mean think bout it whats the worst that can happen?

[zoey101]

no no no no that is sweet and all but its jsut im shy

[zoey101]

anymore takers on this puzzal!

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[zoey101]

still need help!

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[Jamus_Solari]

Drug her.

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[shenk.]

Do what I do:

Get them drunk and totally like come onto them ;D if they stay with you SCORE! Lmao.

[zoey101]

*REMOVED* i want better ansers?

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[dirrty]

Sure its lust not love?
Anyway, what ever advice people give you, you will just say no im too shy. You have to start somewhere otherwise you will always be shy. Just go up to her and talk to her or on msn.

[zoey101]

havn't got her add,

And thank you for a senable anwser

[dirrty]

No problem :)

Ask her for her msn or mobile number.

[zoey101]

but what to say

Me " hey sexy whats your number" lol
Her "Slaps"

Give me a discent convo to work on man! lol

[dirrty]

Say something like
"Hey [NAME], whats your msn so i can add you. I need more contacts so im adding people from school" or something like that. I doubt she will say no aslong as you dont say it in a negative way.

[zoey101]

Thanks mate much a presated!

[-Undiscovered]

got same problem just try and talk about music to her - seeing shes in your music group

[zoey101]

arh I will try it I dont think she likes e thoe :(

[zoey101]

arhhh god this is to wierd bumped into her like 2hours before end of the day... I don't think she likes me in "that" way

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[shenk.]

Find out what she dose on the weekends... If she has any contacts with your friends etc so you can spend more time together - See how it turns out ;]

[zoey101]

hmm i live about 25 miles away from here :| haveto go on the blody bus :| but if its for her :D

[shenk.]

hmm i live about 25 miles away from here :| haveto go on the blody bus :| but if its for her :D

25miles? take that as an exageration lol... Girl I go out with lives... 7miles away... little more about 7.3miles away by car... Dosen't stop me seeing her like once a day xD

[foxyfox00]

Ahhhhh music class has so many hot guys . . . . .

On topic ask her to here a piece of music your working on, or ask for help with a theory assignment. Talk about bands.

:o just wondering what what do you play?

[zoey101]

Keyboard and gature sorry if the spellings wrong

[DiscoPat]

Ask her if she needs help with her studys or ask for help from her and the rest would come e.g. she would answer your question and you say can I have you msn or something so we can help each other out? then shes gonna say yeh ok then you do the move.

[zoey101]

Ask her if she needs help with her studys or ask for help from her and the rest would come e.g. she would answer your question and you say can I have you msn or something so we can help each other out? then shes gonna say yeh ok then you do the move.
Thanks to everyone who helpd me

[Ostinato]

First of all, I'd just like to say - you have some sort of attitude problem and you need to get it under control if you expect people on here to give you advice. People will help you as they wish, but it's out of order for you to demand 'better advice'. If your not happy with someones advice, then fair enough - don't take it - but don't be rude about it.

Now. If your really 'in love' with her - you wouldn't find it so hard to strike up a conversation with her. By the seems of it, you've never really even spoken to her so I fail to understand how you can love her as you don't actually now a lot about her.

I think you should just go over to her in college, and maybe talk about something that happened - a party or something, or even just something about the music lesson and take it from there. Don't just go barging over and ask for a date, maybe ask her out for a coffee to get to know her more, or ask for her mobile number or messenger - that way you can chat to her a bit first and get to know each other, then arrange your first date.

[zoey101]

First of all, I'd just like to say - you have some sort of attitude problem and you need to get it under control if you expect people on here to give you advice. People will help you as they wish, but it's out of order for you to demand 'better advice'. If your not happy with someones advice, then fair enough - don't take it - but don't be rude about it.

Now. If your really 'in love' with her - you wouldn't find it so hard to strike up a conversation with her. By the seems of it, you've never really even spoken to her so I fail to understand how you can love her as you don't actually now a lot about her.

I think you should just go over to her in college, and maybe talk about something that happened - a party or something, or even just something about the music lesson and take it from there. Don't just go barging over and ask for a date, maybe ask her out for a coffee to get to know her more, or ask for her mobile number or messenger - that way you can chat to her a bit first and get to know each other, then arrange your first date.
Star man Thank you.. It worked well with me and that... Your a good help..
But I did make my self a fool in music becasue I can't play well..so i give up on myself after time but thank you

[sl4rt]

sit her on a hill with a picnic rug on the grass was the sunrise/set hug then kiss then anything else she wants to do

:p

[help23]

try and get into a conversation with her and 1 other person then build up a friendship like that and work towards talking to her on her own

[Anub'Rekhan]

Sure its lust not love?
Anyway, what ever advice people give you, you will just say no im too shy. You have to start somewhere otherwise you will always be shy. Just go up to her and talk to her or on msn.
If MSN hadn't been created, I'd have never said hi to my girlfriend.

[Andy?]

Don't ask her out yet. If you're shy you might ***** up your words and she could say no for that lol.. or you could just be so shy you'd just walk away. Talk to her a lot, see what she likes etc, then when you're a little bit more confident go for it.

[louder]

If MSN hadn't been created, I'd have never said hi to my girlfriend.

Yeah, I wouldn't be with mine if it wasn't for MSN. What a great invention [:


Anyway, I'm really shy too, I know how you feel but what you have to think is "If I don't just go for it I may not have the oppertunity again, The worst that can happen is I get rejected." Sure it may knock your confidence a little but don't let a no keep you down.
If you look confident she's more likely to say yes, Just walk with her in the hall one time and have a long talk with her, then, while your standing outside her lesson, tell her how you feel.

EDIT: Sorry if it's not very good advice, I'm not good with girls as I don't change how I act around them, i'm completely myself and if they don't like me, tough.

[zoey101]

couple of months on and I did it i got her msn :D now what to speck about, and she found out that i fancyed her:P

[[WF][10] Col.TheNick]

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