What could I do?

[Machine Head]

Okay, me and Rachel have been going out since Sunday. All of my friends keep telling me to hug her or kiss her or something, but I'm afraid she won't want to do it.

I've seen loads of couples in my school hug/kiss eachother when they see eachother, but I can't see why we don't do it?

We don't really see eachother that often, she's only in my Maths and Science classes, and I sometimes bump into her at break - but I don't normally, like, stick close to her? (if you know what I mean)

[Heinous]

Your ages?

[Machine Head]

Your ages?

We're both 13.

[ebay]

it wont last!

[Heinous]

We're both 13.
Wow. Just hug her, God, no big deal. Kiss only if you want to, etc etc.

But ^ is right, it won't last, sorry.

*leaves thread slowly...*

[aliveandkicking]

Exscuse me what right do you have to say that their relationship wont last? My sister has been going out with her boyfriend since the middle of year 8 (February 2002) and is still with him. I know alot of people who have been going out even in year 7 and still together now there 18. So you cannot say at all that it wont last, how the hell do you know it wont?

[sock]

well, do you really THAT MUCH love her? If not, it will not last, but if you do, go ahead do whatever.

[-Undiscovered]

Once your more confident with each other you will kiss and hug, try hugging her, she probaly feels the same way, and yes it could last if you make it, dont listen to whoever says it wont.

[Markness.]

Just Casually Hug Her And If She Pulls Away, Make A Joke Of It And Laugh It Off, If She Dosent Ask If You Can Have A Kiss =] Take It From There

I Had The Nervous Problem Too LOL, Tis Just An Age Thing, Im Also 13 =]

Tried & Tested Routine: 3/5 Girls Sed Yes =]

[Lindzi]

I don't see why she wouldn't want to at least hug her boyfriend :s

[:Hazel]

Don't be pressured into anything, I have a 13 year old brother and if I told him what to do he would tell me where to go! Take things slowly and one step at a time. Then do what you feel is right as and when you both feel comfortable.

[Ostinato]

Dude, she's your girlfriend - why wouldn't she want to kiss/hug you?!

The only way your going to really find out whether she wants to or not, is obviously asking the lady in question herself. We can all sit here and predict whether or not shes going to want to or not, but at the end of the day none of us actually knows for sure.

Just say to her in a text or something about everyone saying about it, and ask her what she think's of it. If she doesn't wanna do it, then don't read too much into it. I know people who are 16 and have been in a relationship for just under a year, and they've done everything together, but prefer not to kiss in school. Some people just don't like the whole publicity at school thing, which is fair enough.

At the end of the day, it's really done to whether or not you both want to. If you do then just go for it and don't worry about other people, but if either of you are having doubts, then it's no big deal - just don't do it! :)

[cocaine]

Just casually act normal and slip a litle kiss or something ;)

[Rizla]

She's your bird, of course she wants it.

[James.Easy]

Just hug her say hi, when you get more comfortable with her, your hugs get a bit more fun. Hand + Bum = Great Hug :P

[Cheep]

Just Casually Hug Her And If She Pulls Away, Make A Joke Of It And Laugh It Off, If She Dosent Ask If You Can Have A Kiss =] Take It From There

I Had The Nervous Problem Too LOL, Tis Just An Age Thing, Im Also 13 =]

Tried & Tested Routine: 3/5 Girls Sed Yes =]

She'll also be impressed if you don't rape her like you do your shift key!