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Re-Call
16-10-2006, 07:49 PM
Hey, I normally keep quite about my personal life but time ahs come to let it out . . .

1, I'm so lazy
2, I hardly socialise [except work]
3, My Hair needs a change [had it since i was a wee youngan!]

Main points really i said nothing major.
[points reviewed]
1, I'm lazy... I don't make ANY attempt to tidy up the house, I rarely go out with friends only on staff night outs
2, I hardly socialise... Like the 1st point i rarely go out only with friends from work on an odd saturday into town and staff nights out so i need to bump up my attitude towards other people and become more confident in what i say.
3, My hair!... What can i say im 19 yrs old and have the same hair style/cut since i was a wee youngan![Lightish brown hair & thin], I need a change but since this is my 1st time it's hard for me to change as im in my "Comfort zone" and can't bare of thinking of changing. I put my hair up on nights out but i'd love to gear myself up to do it everyday [there goes point 1 again, Lazyness]

I need people to look at my situations ^ and tell me what do i need to do?
Im stuck! i need motivating

Thx
Re-Call

sarey
16-10-2006, 08:23 PM
Okay, firstly, laziness.
Common too.

Well, try and make an effert to at least clean the dishes/dry up each day, and then hoover the house, and then duster the house a bit.
Then each day, do some exercises so it keeps you active, walk around alot, go out just if its to go around the area, but keep active.

Second... if you want to socialize more, join a club, call some of your friends from work and ask if they want to go to town or something if any are available too. If that doesnt work, as i said, join a club and socialize, even make some new pals.

Now, im attatched to my hair and ive had it since i was 9, but just think, new style, would be pretty cool huh? Try new things, do new things, chang your style, go for it. Just have a trim or something if its that bad, make it the way YOU want it.

So, thats all i can advice at the moment, just go for it though, it wont be a regret! :D

Swastika
16-10-2006, 08:50 PM
Hey, I normally keep quite about my personal life but time ahs come to let it out . . .

1, I'm so lazy
2, I hardly socialise [except work]
3, My Hair needs a change [had it since i was a wee youngan!]

Main points really i said nothing major.
[points reviewed]
1, I'm lazy... I don't make ANY attempt to tidy up the house, I rarely go out with friends only on staff night outs
2, I hardly socialise... Like the 1st point i rarely go out only with friends from work on an odd saturday into town and staff nights out so i need to bump up my attitude towards other people and become more confident in what i say.
3, My hair!... What can i say im 19 yrs old and have the same hair style/cut since i was a wee youngan![Lightish brown hair & thin], I need a change but since this is my 1st time it's hard for me to change as im in my "Comfort zone" and can't bare of thinking of changing. I put my hair up on nights out but i'd love to gear myself up to do it everyday [there goes point 1 again, Lazyness]

I need people to look at my situations ^ and tell me what do i need to do?
Im stuck! i need motivating

Thx
Re-Call
Seriously, why post this on a forum? If its your problems, you should be sorting them out and trying to think what to do BY YOURSELF. Soon as you want to tell somebody about something like this, try asking yourself not a forum full of teenagers first.
I know this section is for this sort of thing, but some posts are absolutley ridicously pathetic.

sarey
16-10-2006, 08:51 PM
Seriously, why post this on a forum? If its your problems, you should be sorting them out and trying to think what to do BY YOURSELF. Soon as you want to tell somebody about something like this, try asking yourself not a forum full of teenagers first.
I know this section is for this sort of thing, but some posts are absolutley ridicously pathetic.


Maybe he wanted input ideas from teenagers?

Charlie
17-10-2006, 10:08 AM
Seriously, why post this on a forum? If its your problems, you should be sorting them out and trying to think what to do BY YOURSELF. Soon as you want to tell somebody about something like this, try asking yourself not a forum full of teenagers first.
I know this section is for this sort of thing, but some posts are absolutley ridicously pathetic.

If you've not got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. The guy is asking for some advice, and all you do it say something stupid, if you aren't going to give advice, don't post! He is probably posting here because he can't think of anything his self as he has already tried, and now he's asking for some help.

Anyway, as for the lazy thing, what Sarah said it a good idea, do little things/chores each day to keep yourself active, go for a little bit of excerise, maybe join a gym to get yourself active, this could also improve your social life too. As for, social life, try talking to work mates more maybe, you could be invited out more with them, and you could meet new people as well, just put yourself out there, you'll get some new friends, and it'll improve your social life.

As for the haircut thing, maybe look at some nice styles, and see what you like, maybe go the hairdressers & explain the problem, they might have some ideas for you.

Starburst..x
17-10-2006, 03:59 PM
Seriously, why post this on a forum? If its your problems, you should be sorting them out and trying to think what to do BY YOURSELF. Soon as you want to tell somebody about something like this, try asking yourself not a forum full of teenagers first.
I know this section is for this sort of thing, but some posts are absolutley ridicously pathetic.
Firstly when you say "but some points are absolutely ridicously pathetic" apart from being harsh and rude, maybe you should look at your points first before you give your opinion on others?
Someone has asked for help, it might seem stupid to you but to the person that is needing it, it can be important, so maybe next time keep your thoughts to yourself!?.

Swastika
17-10-2006, 04:13 PM
Firstly when you say "but some points are absolutely ridicously pathetic" apart from being harsh and rude, maybe you should look at your points first before you give your opinion on others?
Someone has asked for help, it might seem stupid to you but to the person that is needing it, it can be important, so maybe next time keep your thoughts to yourself!?.
I said posts, not points.
And if i have something to say, i will say it thanks.

Shatter(1)
17-10-2006, 05:03 PM
im also lazy. id be happy left at my computer all day and night.

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