Two faced attitude problems.

[Smile]

K.
In Primary school, Me, Miki, Tara & Madison used to be besties. Me and Tara were in the same class, Miki and Madison in the other. So we always had someone etc.

Then at the start of Highschool, Madison went to another high, while Me, Miki & Tara went to the same high.

Everything changed. They started ditching me and having sleepovers and not inviting me.. or teasing and annoying me about not going to soccer training (i had real reasons) they started ganging up on me about what i ate, and everything, and saying You're so lazy and all this junk, cos i wouldnt ride my bike to school. (girls arent supposed to ride bikes to school>_>)

In Primary, we didn't care what we ate, and now since Tara's been hanging out with Superfreak Health freak Miki, she's turned on me. Even at playtimes, they would check on me, and everything. They always bagged me out.

But then, when Tara hasn't got Miki around or something, or if im chatting to her online, She acts all nice and stuff. Miki just hates me full stop. >_>
But the fact that she treats me like dirt when she has Miki by her side, is wrong. ;l

They're ignoring me at the moment, but i have found some new friends, but they sit at the same seat they do. But the fact is, that they have time to bag me out, but not be my friend. =/

Uh. What should i do?

[brandon]

Forget about them, they are not true friends, go find some other friends that like you for who you are.

[::d4nnyt::]

I suggest if you decide to get friends don't get interent friends; they are the worst of all.

[Crimson]

Saying "Forget about them" is easy to say. I know its the best thing to do but it is hard, isn't it? It is obvious they arn't true friends but your just going to have to go through the hard work of forgetting about them! In primary school it is so easy to make more friends. Get a bunch of friends who really like you for who you are. It might be harder now your at highschool, for me it it would be, depending on the type of person you are. Its going to take work but you'll get there!

[Starburst..x]

I hate that, I've been in that situation a few times, really the best thing to do is try going around with some other people you know, and gradually stop hanging around with the girls that are being two-faced, their not true friends, I know its easy said than done, but it will make you feel happier!

[foxyfox00]

I'd just start hanging out with them less. But dont rules out being friends all together it could be a stage. Just get on with life and enjoy it with your new friends

[rosiemin]

do tht thing in mean girls make her eat tht bars of fat lol
nd tell her i dont need to get a ride form a bike i leave da lad to do tht haaha

[Ostinato]

K.
In Primary school, Me, Miki, Tara & Madison used to be besties. Me and Tara were in the same class, Miki and Madison in the other. So we always had someone etc.

Then at the start of Highschool, Madison went to another high, while Me, Miki & Tara went to the same high.

Everything changed. They started ditching me and having sleepovers and not inviting me.. or teasing and annoying me about not going to soccer training (i had real reasons) they started ganging up on me about what i ate, and everything, and saying You're so lazy and all this junk, cos i wouldnt ride my bike to school. (girls arent supposed to ride bikes to school>_>)

In Primary, we didn't care what we ate, and now since Tara's been hanging out with Superfreak Health freak Miki, she's turned on me. Even at playtimes, they would check on me, and everything. They always bagged me out.

But then, when Tara hasn't got Miki around or something, or if im chatting to her online, She acts all nice and stuff. Miki just hates me full stop. >_>
But the fact that she treats me like dirt when she has Miki by her side, is wrong. ;l

They're ignoring me at the moment, but i have found some new friends, but they sit at the same seat they do. But the fact is, that they have time to bag me out, but not be my friend. =/

Uh. What should i do?

First of all, are they your friends or your mother? :S

To be honest with you, it's none of my friends business whether or not I wanna ride a bike, and what I eat doesn't concern them. Similarly, I don't ask them for a full list of everything they ate in the past week...

It's quite clear this Tara girl thinks she can have it all ways. When shes with this other girl she obviously tries to impress her, and that means putting you down, then when shes not there she thinks she can just rely on you. Well, don't be a mug - and don't stand for it.

You've made a good start by getting some new friends, but if you want to try and give your friendship with them one last go, then you should just bring it up. Tell them at times your feeling left out and you think that things have changed, and your not willing ti put up with their rudeness and their attitude towards you anymore. If they say fair enough and are willing to give it another go - then good, but if their stubborn and are gonna try and act as though they don't need you, then just walk away from them.

It's clear your better than them as a person anyway, as they seem to need to bring other people down to make them feel good or something... I say you just stick with your new bunch of friends if the above fails, and like at lunch or whatever just don't take notice of them! :]

[Smile]

they are my friends lolll
thankyou for your great advice ostinato :)

i'll try