Yesterday

[immature]

I came out to my first friend.

At first I was really nervous, and didn't know what her reaction was at all. &Like I tried hinting at her, and she didn't get it at all, lmao. So I just plain and bluntly said it in the end. &She said she's happy for me, and like, she wishes she had the courage to do somthing like that. She said if she was bisexual she wouldn't be able to tell someone just like that.

Now my next aim is to tell a few more people.. [:

[Marsquake]

Congrats Ben. :o Goodluck with it all!

[immature]

Congrats Ben. :o Goodluck with it all!
Thanks Craig ;D!

[Nixt]

Well done! And good luck with telling some more people :)

[poll]

Aww glad everythings alright at least it shows shes a really good mate ;]

[Samster]

Well done Ben:)

[immature]

Thanksss, and thanks Garion. Charlee said that most would understand, but idk.

[dirrty]

Congrats <x3

Once you tell your other friends you will know who are true friends and who are not by their reactions. Hope it goes alright :)

[aliveandkicking]

I came out to ma twin that I was bi around June 2006 when I was just about to finish year 8 and we're both in the same class and he's absolutley fine with it although he always goes on about it!

[Marsquake]

I came out to ma twin that I was bi around June 2006 when I was just about to finish year 8 and we're both in the same class and he's absolutley fine with it although he always goes on about it!
That could be just your hormones making you think you're bi. You are only in year 9 and you've knew since year 8?

[immature]

I came out to ma twin that I was bi around June 2006 when I was just about to finish year 8 and we're both in the same class and he's absolutley fine with it although he always goes on about it!
Is this Kieran?

That could be just your hormones making you think you're bi. You are only in year 9 and you've knew since year 8?
&yez, trueee.

[camera]

awh babe, i fink people should accept you for who you are. sooo is she the only person uve told in r/l?

[Ostinato]

Glad everything worked out for you, and good luck with telling other people. You'll be surprised - you most likely expect a lot of people to hate you or something, but the majority of people wont actually care and/or will be happy for you.

[:Jamie]

Glad it worked out well :) Good luck telling more people

[immature]

awh babe, i fink people should accept you for who you are. sooo is she the only person uve told in r/l?
Yehh, I plan to tell more tho.

Glad everything worked out for you, and good luck with telling other people. You'll be surprised - you most likely expect a lot of people to hate you or something, but the majority of people wont actually care and/or will be happy for you.
Yeah, I thought that. But then a few days ago, we found out the Spanish teacher was gay? &Loads of people call him stupid names and stuff, and it really put me off...

Glad it worked out well :) Good luck telling more people
Thanks Jamie [: !!

[:Jamie]

Didn't know you was Bi/Gay :) Im bi

[immature]

Didn't know you was Bi/Gay :) Im bi
Yeah I'm bi. You don't remember me then.. A while back we was PMing each other about stuff, I won't say on here, I dunno if you'd want me too [:

[Ahmed-Paul]

Well done & good luck :D

[immature]

Cheers Paulzzz.

[:Jamie]

:O omg soz i forgot about that PM me coz i forogt what about? kinda do but I have bad memory lol :P but I gtg so i reply later

[immature]

:O omg soz i forgot about that PM me coz i forogt what about? kinda do but I have bad memory lol :P but I gtg so i reply laterLmao, ok ;D

[Eamonn]

Congrats Ben :p

[aliveandkicking]

I've known I was bi since like FOREVER! like 4 years, I knew I liked lads and I really do :D

[immature]

Congrats Ben :p
Thanks Eamonn

I've known I was bi since like FOREVER! like 4 years, I knew I liked lads and I really do :D
&Oooooooooooooooook then :]

[Marsquake]

I've known I was bi since like FOREVER! like 4 years, I knew I liked lads and I really do :D

Thats probs bull****. Your only in year 9 and you've knew for 4 years? :rolleyes: Doubt it.

[artistjay]

lol why do ppl lie

[majesticdragon]

How is it a lie you can be what 13 in year 9

it's posssible to no when you were 9 he could just be very mature :P

[laurenx]

Well done Benji <333

[liquid]

aww well done benny :)

[foxyfox00]

Thats really good for you. Alot of people will be accepting I think, if not then they arent worth knowing. Good luck with telling your other friends <3

[Crowquill]

That's really good well done, i've just started coming out. It's spreading through the school like wild fire. Everyday more and more people find out, but noone has been mean to me about it yet which is good.

Congratulations and I hope everyone else finds it just as easy, but remember don't say it until you're very sure you're definetly gay/lesbian.

[Eamonn]

How is it a lie you can be what 13 in year 9

it's posssible to no when you were 9 he could just be very mature :P
You can see how more farfetched it sounds if you think of them as just Year 5's.

[benjamin]

That's really good well done, i've just started coming out. It's spreading through the school like wild fire. Everyday more and more people find out, but noone has been mean to me about it yet which is good.

Congratulations and I hope everyone else finds it just as easy, but remember don't say it until you're very sure you're definetly gay/lesbian.
Thanks :]]
&Wd aswell.

[aliveandkicking]

To be totally honest, I have to say, I think I am quite mature for my age. Alot of lads in my year tend to have really high voices and act very immature, say petty things and like annoy people alot, like tap them and look away. In class, I tend to just sit there really, alot of my friends have left my school now, so i'm like on my own now sadly :(

So, in class i'm very quiet but I can see why people in my year are immature, due to the fact that we're only 13/14, also, I feel quite embarresed because i'm one of the few with my voice broke and i'm the ONLY one in my year with really hairy legs!

[Marsquake]

To be totally honest, I have to say, I think I am quite mature for my age. Alot of lads in my year tend to have really high voices and act very immature, say petty things and like annoy people alot, like tap them and look away. In class, I tend to just sit there really, alot of my friends have left my school now, so i'm like on my own now sadly :(

So, in class i'm very quiet but I can see why people in my year are immature, due to the fact that we're only 13/14, also, I feel quite embarresed because i'm one of the few with my voice broke and i'm the ONLY one in my year with really hairy legs!

Don't be embarred that your voice has broke etc. Be happy.

[sim]

Wtg, good luck with everyone else.
Im having probs with it atm. (read my thread) I need advice.

[Nether$]

are you a boy or girl?

your brave and im glad it worked out fine for you, even though im sure everyone knows i am already, and they would be ok about it if i told them i would never be able to, it takes a lot of guts. good 4 u :P

[benjamin]

Wtg, good luck with everyone else.
Im having probs with it atm. (read my thread) I need advice.
ok

are you a boy or girl?

your brave and im glad it worked out fine for you, even though im sure everyone knows i am already, and they would be ok about it if i told them i would never be able to, it takes a lot of guts. good 4 u :P
&A boy, it says that in my profile ;p &thankss

[summer]

Good luck Ben :]

[risque]

congratss xo
I came out to 2 girls I've known since I was 5 the other night ;| it was surprisingly okay. :] Good luck on telling more peoplee. x

[benjamin]

congratss xo
I came out to 2 girls I've known since I was 5 the other night ;| it was surprisingly okay. :] Good luck on telling more peoplee. x
I think telling girls is a lot easier than telling boys tbh.. Not sure why like boys might change the way they act with you and stuff. Glad it went ok for you aswell :]

[uh huh her]

well done ben <3
& im thinking of telling my mum tonight, cos the rest of my family are out. but i dno wth to say.

[Nether$]

Some of my friends in primary school knew, well the whole 2 classes in my year, i think they might have thought it i was doing it for attention.
thank god the ones that go to my secondary school diddnt tell anyone :S

lol im in year 11 and im going 2 collage next year, if i go to one far from where i live i might be able to come out there, and keep home and school far apart :P but i live in the middle of a rubbish part of london, 10 miles of ghetto all arround lol (jk) but no seriously if a gay person walked through them areas...

well im sure you have seen fly kicks on happy slap tv on phones well thats kinda what happens

[benjamin]

well done ben <3
& im thinking of telling my mum tonight, cos the rest of my family are out. but i dno wth to say.
my mum found out ;_; i really hated that. i just didnt want heer to be the first to know. she was cleaning the pc room once, and i had a letter from kim [Kimmeh on Habbo, left ages ago tho.] and it said about me and jamie ;_; and she saw it. but tbh i think mums ar okay with it. i knew my mum would be as like her 2 best mates are gay..

buut good luck amii! <3


Some of my friends in primary school knew, well the whole 2 classes in my year, i think they might have thought it i was doing it for attention.
thank god the ones that go to my secondary school diddnt tell anyone :S

lol im in year 11 and im going 2 collage next year, if i go to one far from where i live i might be able to come out there, and keep home and school far apart but i live in the middle of a rubbish part of london, 10 miles of ghetto all arround lol (jk) but no seriously if a gay person walked through them areas...

well im sure you have seen fly kicks on happy slap tv on phones well thats kinda what happens
yeah, i know what you mean dude.. some parts of oxford are like it a lot too. but i hope everything goes ok :]

[risque]

I think telling girls is a lot easier than telling boys tbh.. Not sure why like boys might change the way they act with you and stuff. Glad it went ok for you aswell :]

loll, tell me about it.
the boy's i know are really boystrous, and into girls so yh...
gdluck again.

[benjamin]

loll, tell me about it.
the boy's i know are really boystrous, and into girls so yh...
gdluck again.
yeah. it takes longer for boys to mature in that sort of way imo. how old are you? i can't remember if you'ree my age or not ;p

[risque]

yeah. it takes longer for boys to mature in that sort of way imo. how old are you? i can't remember if you'ree my age or not ;p

just turned 15 ;p

[Nether$]

Its better your family find out before they stumble accross your internet history :P

[benjamin]

just turned 15 ;p
oh cool, same as me ;D


Its better your family find out before they stumble accross your internet history :P
no, really, i'd like die if tehy saw my internet history/chat logs ;_;

[Nether$]

no, really, i'd like die if tehy saw my internet history/chat logs ;_;

lol just deleting your history isnt enough, you also have to delete the back of your computer. this is just one hsitory folder where everythong is stored and it isnt even a "back of the computer" folder

*win xp*

c:\documents and settings\[username]\local settings
c:\documents and settings\[username]\local settings\temp

look at the files in there and in the sub folders

note: most folders in there are hidden so you need to change your settings to show hidden and system folders

[benjamin]

lol just deleting your history isnt enough, you also have to delete the back of your computer. this is just one hsitory folder where everythong is stored and it isnt even a "back of the computer" folder

*win xp*

c:\documents and settings\[username]\local settings
c:\documents and settings\[username]\local settings\temp

look at the files in there and in the sub folders

note: most folders in there are hidden so you need to change your settings to show hidden and system folders
It doesn't worry me too much, as tbh.. I don't have much there at all except chat logs. &My mum respects my privacy, and it's like my own pc, she only uses it like once a month to check her email from work.

Butt thanks ;p

[Eamonn]

To be totally honest, I have to say, I think I am quite mature for my age. Alot of lads in my year tend to have really high voices and act very immature, say petty things and like annoy people alot, like tap them and look away. In class, I tend to just sit there really, alot of my friends have left my school now, so i'm like on my own now sadly :(

So, in class i'm very quiet but I can see why people in my year are immature, due to the fact that we're only 13/14, also, I feel quite embarresed because i'm one of the few with my voice broke and i'm the ONLY one in my year with really hairy legs!
LOL your year is really undeveloped then and good luck to those people who said they are thinking about coming out.

[Nether$]

Ha im bored so im posting...

born or chose?
run in familys? if yes is this because genetic or uprbinging?
what do you think?

[benjamin]

Ha im bored so im posting...

born or chose?
run in familys? if yes is this because genetic or uprbinging?
what do you think?
I was actually thinking about this a lot erliar today before I wwent to hospital. I'm about to make a thread on it so keep an eye out ;p