trouble with crush

[wooly30]

there is this lad at school that i really like. we are very close m8s. he knows i like him but previous times when ive asked hes said no. i really like him [ i think i LOVE him ]. im worried that if i asked him out again 4 a 3rd time he will turn me down and it might ruin our freindship. the thing is i know he likes 1 of my best m8s [ been out 5 times, sheesh ]. please help.

[@K]

If it were me I would persist with asking the peson out, but that's just me, however, it must be very irritating for that person and yes it will prbable ruin your friendship with the boy, and I beleive that you'd rather be friends than not be friends with him, so leave it at that.

[HUGECOOL]

I think the only 'trouble' with the crush here is you, dearie. You're being too persistant. You're trying to force a guy into liking you even though he has no interest whatsoever in you. Accept the fact that you and him won't be dating any time soon. If he's interested, he'll show signs. Obviously he isn't since you said he likes one of your friends.

[Rizla]

Just stay mates with him until he begins to like you.

[foxyfox00]

If you try to force a relationship he will just push you away futher. Just tell him you have feelings for him and leave it at that. At least its off your chest and he can decide if he wants to take it futher

[Rizla]

I think he may already know since she's asked him out twice already ;)