I've fancied this girl for 2 years

[Rob]

Hey,

Ok, well there's this girl I've fancied for about 2 years. I've never asked her out, but we're really good friends. I really really like her but I can't find the words to ask her out. Last time I saw her (About 2 months ago) we went to West Park (A huge park, mostly just trees, grass and stuff) and when she wasn't talking to anyone, she kept coming to me and talking to me. That night I tried to ask her out on MSN, but I couldn't really find the words. I said there's something I have to tell you, then she went offline. Was this a hint or just coincidence?

I really want to ask her out, but I'm scared of rejection and ruining our friendship. What should I say to her?

Thanks,
Rob

[RareWolf]

flirt with her abit and see what she does.. if she gives the right signs go for it

[Vic Vance2]

well sorry to bring up this probability but mayb coz u sed theres summit neeed 2 tell u then mayb she thinks u were gunna say u were gay or summit

[brandon]

well sorry to bring up this probability but mayb coz u sed theres summit neeed 2 tell u then mayb she thinks u were gunna say u were gay or summit
Well if the reasons she went offline was because she thought he was gonna say he's gay then surely that's good signs? That could mean she wanted you too and was dissapointed with the thought of you being gay.

[Rizla]

She probably just got d/ced o.O Why would she think he was gay because he said he had something he needed to tell her?

[OmgAMark]

2 Years?

If you've liked her for that long and wont ask her out... how do you think the relationship will manage?

Also, dont go over msn, thats just depressing for a girl. Ask her in real life... whats the worse that can happen?


You: Hey, do you want to go out with me?

Her: OH GOD NO *kicks shins and pulls down pants exposing your tiny self*

Then everyone points at you and laughs and your parents run away from you and your expelled and a group of hobos hack your arms off....


no its not going to be like that, just get some balls and do it.

[Samster]

It could break up your relationship if she says no,as it will cause resentment

[RyaREXIC]

LOL, you asked her out over msn.. bad move, ask her in real life.

[tailz]

She wants to know that you aren't weak, and you like her alot. ;) As people have said, real life.

[Snape]

Ahhhh "love" =] basically flirt flirt and more flirting, like i always hold a girl from behind by the hips and play with her bra =] [ I'm a very confident 13 year old boy ] Anyhu, if you don;t have the confidence to do this, there is always MSN.... not a hands on approach but it works =] basically just ask her who she likes out of your "gang" thats you go out with, and if she starts doing blushing emos or goes offline, for me this has always been a good sign, and when she says i gtg give her hearts and kisses emos =] always good hope this helps

[Barkseh2131]

As others said just flirt with her and see what she does.

[Tom H]

As others said just flirt with her and see what she does.

Take advice from you? I lol'd :rolleyes:

[yessaJOSH.]

flirt and see how she reacts.

[plastiKKstars]

Hey,

Ok, well there's this girl I've fancied for about 2 years. I've never asked her out, but we're really good friends. I really really like her but I can't find the words to ask her out. Last time I saw her (About 2 months ago) we went to West Park (A huge park, mostly just trees, grass and stuff) and when she wasn't talking to anyone, she kept coming to me and talking to me. That night I tried to ask her out on MSN, but I couldn't really find the words. I said there's something I have to tell you, then she went offline. Was this a hint or just coincidence?

I really want to ask her out, but I'm scared of rejection and ruining our friendship. What should I say to her?

Thanks,
Rob

aha, do you go to west park the school?
my friend goes there :]

[DJ_CJ]

dont flirt, talk to her and try and find out what she thinks off you, then flirt a lil bit, two years is quite along time so she might just think of you as a friend.
if you really want to ask her out just ask her, dont worry about what you say if she wants to go out with you she will say yes.
or wait untill you know she has no credit on her mobile and text her asking her out coz then she wont be able to reply straight away and it will give her time to think and they always say yes. well they do when i do it lol.
And if she does say no you will find out how much of a friend she thinks you are ;)

[Andeeh]

Like The Above. Talk To Her. But Try And Avoid Asking Her Out In The "Online" World. I Know Its Hard But Try And Get Confident. So What If She Says No. If You Have Been Mates For 2 Years Im Sure She Will Still Want To Be Mates With You :D

[Rix]

Yeah if u have been friends for that long i'm guessing it would be a strong relationship and therefore if she does say no it might be awkward for like a day or so but it should go back to normal

i had a chick who was my best mates for 6 months then one day she told she me liked me i liked her back and then for some unknown reason a week later she broke up with me we are friends but not really good ones anymore
yeah it sucks but if they can't deal with things like that are they really good friends?

[DJCurto]

i wouldnt ask her out if i was you cos i was really good mates with this girl & i asked her out on this school trip & she sed no & she started being mean to me at school & stuff but shes starting to stop but i dunno u could be lucky