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[MusicPalace]

I'm christian, and i'm worried that my being bisexual is against my religion. Does anyone know if it is?

[English]

Yes it is against Christianity.

[MusicPalace]

Oh god...what do i do?

[RedStratocas]

Oh god...what do i do?

...not be? I dont know how anything else could help. You could go to church and confess and stuff I guess. But I think all they really care about is if you actually are in a working gay relationship, if you can control it, they probably dont care. So as long as you dont act on it, they probably wouldnt care.

[wildwinter]

Sod religion Be yourself :l

[MusicPalace]

religion is important to me though, but i am who i am and i don't know what to do!

[Carlos]

God loves you the way you are, you should know that.

Just be yourself and always remember he loves you. It doesn't say anywhere in the bible that being bi/gay is wrong, because God loves you the way you are.

[MusicPalace]

thanks those are some very reassuring words, but what do i do about the people at my church still?

[mmhmm.]

thanks those are some very reassuring words, but what do i do about the people at my church still?
i s'pose you'll have to hide it from them. i have a feeling they wont accept you like that. they may pretend to, but they wont really. i gather from the news that the church feels very strongly about this. so best to keep it from them i think.

[-Wolverine]

If your bisexual and religion is very important to you, just try being with girls then (if your a guy?) so you'll feel like your normal.

[Nether$]

It is more against catholic then it is christian, but religion has been changed so much you know...

just think about the changes from cathoasisom (sp i know lol)
to christianity.

i think if yuor gay and its love over lust youll be alright, God knows all, so God knows how you feel, and you diddnt choose to feel this way

[MusicPalace]

i guess, but my dad did use to b catholic til he switched to christianity...tht could b bad when it comes to telling him.

[kreechin]

Ok so scene as your a religious person i'll put it this way.
God made you that way. That's who he wanted you to be...so be youself.

[MusicPalace]

yes, maybe there is nothing to worry about after all.

[Crowquill]

I'm christian, and i'm worried that my being bisexual is against my religion. Does anyone know if it is?

If you call your self Christian you should be fully aware of the answer. I'm under no religion and even I know the answer to this, I suggest you commit your self to Christianity abit more, before you say you're a Christian.

[MusicPalace]

pssht...they don't go out and say that it is against religion to not be straight lol.

[foxyfox00]

I dont believe in God, nor am I a christian or catholic but god made Adam and Eve. It is implied though out the bible that a man and woman is what god created to be together, thats why there is the sacrament of holy matromony, so they can be joined as man and wife.
Your church might accept you for being bi-sexual but it depends on the community. If you really belive in God then you should know that chruch isnt the be all and end all you can pray to god where ever you are. A church isnt a building its the community and followers.

[clarissa !!]

be yourself.

[MusicPalace]

ok guys thank you so muuch. i feel better

[Nether$]

Think about it, its all natral, there has to be somthing that tells a guy to like a girl, and a girl to like a guy. Wether its hormones when you arnt even born, or genetic, its there. Also if it is down to hormones when you are a featus (sp) then that might explain why some gay/ lesbian people are 'Buch/fem' anyway, what i am getting to, is mabey the thing -what ever it is- that makes a guy like a girl and girl like a guy kind of....
'went wrong' and you know made a guy like a guy and girl like a girl.
this is just one theory, and it is the one i think is right, it doesnt sound right when i explain it lol but anyway.
aslo a finnish study found out -by cutting up the brains of dead people-that a certan part of a str8 persons brain is different from a gay persons brain, ill try to find a link to a site or somthin...

[MusicPalace]

thats odd. But maybe true cause it is thinking differently about people. One guy could c another and go oh just another guy...a gay guy might see that same guy and b like wow hes hot! Deffinatly...a good theory tablo. :)

[Eamonn]

I dont believe in God, nor am I a christian or catholic but god made Adam and Eve. It is implied though out the bible that a man and woman is what god created to be together, thats why there is the sacrament of holy matromony, so they can be joined as man and wife.
Your church might accept you for being bi-sexual but it depends on the community. If you really belive in God then you should know that chruch isnt the be all and end all you can pray to god where ever you are. A church isnt a building its the community and followers.
LOL you contradicted yourself big time as you said


I dont believe in God
then you said

but god made Adam and Eve

and to the thread starter, if you are a Christian you should know that its basic knowledge generally and I am a Christian but I don't go by the bible completely like some stuff I disagree with but then again I am not gay so I can't help you alot.

[Nether$]

Lol i think its hypertheatacal

[MusicPalace]

hyper what? Lol. Thanks everyone i got the help i need now. Threads done i guess then. Mods can close now pleaSE?

[Undesirable]

I don't see what it's against Christianity, they give it all "god created the earth and everything in it" So, if he was so against it, he wouldn't have created people who like the same gender, simple as!

[MusicPalace]

omg that is really smart thinking!!! + rep :D

[sim]

Ok first off.
1) Catholisism is part of Christianity, there are not toally seperate.
2) God will love you whoever you are. He created you. Why would he create 'bad' people?
3) The Catholic church (which is the most orthadox of most christian denominations), states that you can be Homosexual/Bisexual but
'A man should not lie with a man as he does a women'
Therefore you are called to Chastity by God meaning the Catholic church basically does not agree with Gay sexual relationships (sex).

However most other Christian denominations tend to be a bit more liberal and although they do not allow civil partnerships IN the church, they don't mind if you have gay sexual relationships.

God loves you for who you are and your religion is a way of expressing your love for God. Your religion should be personal and not dogmatic.


Goood Luck, I know what your going through...


Simeon

[MusicPalace]

thanks simeon. I don't mean to sound gross or anything but i have had some "sexual relations" with the same gender. I've done wrong already. :(

[kasi]

God loves you the way you are, you should know that.

Just be yourself and always remember he loves you. It doesn't say anywhere in the bible that being bi/gay is wrong, because God loves you the way you are.

ok im not against gays or anything but carlos it does say in the bible that being gay is wrong.

“If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.”

[English]

Exactly Kassie, it does say it and as I said being bisexual is against Christianity.


Originally Posted by Leviticus 20:13
“If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.”
It's against Christianity - not just Catholics "/
I think it's the fact of God was for pro-creation or sodomy, or either of the 2.

[MusicPalace]

i am pretty confused now. :P

[English]

i am pretty confused now. :P
Well basically it is against Christianity and alot of the people that posted were wrong, end of!;)

[MusicPalace]

well err ok thanks then. :P

[boyslikegirls]

in my opinion its your religon.
if you belive that its right, it shouldn't matter.

[MusicPalace]

well i guess, but like i said religion is important to me.