I feel ashamed.

[Dude_I_Like_You]

Ok, im 15 years old and i havnt 'got off with somone'. Ive been out with a girl in year 8 and all we did was like hug..

Recently ive been wanting a gf and somone likes me who i like. But i dont feel comfortable with the 'getting of bit' ive never done it before but most people my age have. :(

Anyone help? :(

[Nightrose]

its not a race to make out or get off with people, it takes time and i spec ur partner would be as much scared as you, or if they have got of before, let them take lead, it will come to you nautrally, but if u dont feel comfortable with it just hug and wait for the relationship to develpe (sp?) and really if u havnt got off before, u shouldnt worry u would soon get use to it, and if ur partner really does like you it shouldnt matter if u havnt before or unexperirence in making out?geting off what ever u wanna call it,

Go for it,and see how it turns out, u dont always have to make out to prove that you like?love eaxh other just hugging and holding hands etc can show effection for each other

[Dude_I_Like_You]

its not a race to make out or get off with people, it takes time and i spec ur partner would be as much scared as you, or if they have got of before, let them take lead, it will come to you nautrally, but if u dont feel comfortable with it just hug and wait for the relationship to develpe (sp?) and really if u havnt got off before, u shouldnt worry u would soon get use to it, and if ur partner really does like you it shouldnt matter if u havnt before or unexperirence in making out?geting off what ever u wanna call it,

Go for it,and see how it turns out, u dont always have to make out to prove that you like?love eaxh other just hugging and holding hands etc can show effection for each other

Thanks, anyone else got any views?

[liquid]

some people don't like getting off.
you don't have too :)

If you want to though, should wait till you feel ready too and all that stuff

FYI ILU NIXT.

[Dude_I_Like_You]

some people don't like getting off.
you don't have too :)

If you want to though, should wait till you feel ready too and all that shiz.

mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l

[Dan2nd]

mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l

not really would that make her .. 13/14 if that right it should be cool well thats what I think. Also its not a race if it was I'm definetly losing as I'm 17 and havn't even had a proper relationship I just wanna meet the right girl at the right time and fall in lover corny huh?

[liquid]

mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l

2 years is nothing :]

[Dude_I_Like_You]

not really would that make her .. 13/14 if that right it should be cool well thats what I think. Also its not a race if it was I'm definetly losing as I'm 17 and havn't even had a proper relationship I just wanna meet the right girl at the right time and fall in lover corny huh?
lol thats kl fnx

2 years is nothing :]
thats good then [:

[Rizla]

I'm going to ignore the year 8 part, and just say, if you don't do it now, you'll be like the 40 year old virgin, worried when you're older. What's worse, inexperienced year 10 or inexperienced 40 year old? You decide mate.

[Dude_I_Like_You]

I'm going to ignore the year 8 part, and just say, if you don't do it now, you'll be like the 40 year old virgin, worried when you're older. What's worse, inexperienced year 10 or inexperienced 40 year old? You decide mate.

Everyone has their own pace?

[Rizla]

Kind of missed my point...

What I'm saying is, don't worry about it, the more you worry the less likely you are to do anything.

[Hecktix]

I'm going to ignore the year 8 part, and just say, if you don't do it now, you'll be like the 40 year old virgin, worried when you're older. What's worse, inexperienced year 10 or inexperienced 40 year old? You decide mate.

Thats harsh.

You are telling him he HAS to make out with someone NOW. That's not right.

Dude, don't be scared about it happening. It will just kind of happen, and when it happens you will know what to do... no need to have lessons in kissing beforehand.
It will be ok. Don't let it put you off the girl either... But don't let her know... girls can be funny with stuff like that.
Good luck with the girl dude... :)

[benjamin]

lolll i havn't made out/got off with anyone either but tbh, it don't bother me as i prefer hugszz.

but if it bothers you, just go for it?

[Dude_I_Like_You]

I'm not going to argue with you because it's not worth losing my job over someone who makes peopel feel like that.

Good luck with the girl dude... :)

cheers

lolll i havn't made out/got off with anyone either but tbh, it don't bother me as i prefer hugszz.

but if it bothers you, just go for it?
lol i like hugz too =D

[Hecktix]

Hecktix, that's your way of saying "fair enough but I still win" then? Seriously, a "fair enough" would've done the trick. And you can't care about your job that much.

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[Rizla]

Darling? Ok then...

Anyway, I can't be bothered arguing with you, I'm off to do something else ;)

[Dude_I_Like_You]

o-k.....

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[Ry]

I remember i was 14 when i "got off with someone" and i lied about it, and said i'd done it before. How typical lol, i think if its the right person, and the right time, and your really ready, then it will just sort of happen its self, don't push yourself, i think the reason i was quite nervous about it is because, it was with someone i didnt really fancy, and it was peer pressure, and the fact that it was a girl, and im actually gay, But anyway, Don't rush it, talk to her about it perhaps, Just do what you thinks right :]

My, such a long time since i was 14, i can barely remember, lmao

[uber]

Take time.
Or just ask her if she wants to.

[GoldenMerc]

You shoulnt be ashamed some people i know havent even touched a girl,And im in year 10.Maybe alot of people "get off" at 10 or what not but it isnt a race.Tbh i'd rather get of with the girl of my dreams than scrable for a ugly girl in a year when ever one else is.Although i did get of at a young age.
Hope it helps :D

[Tiuhdur]

i am 13 and i "got off" wen i was 13 lol in year 8 (in year 9 now) but it came naturally i was a bit scared at first but we done it easy it comes naturally

[brapbrap]

mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l



2 years is nothing


Yeah, when a couple are 35 and 37, 14 and 12 (Right?) is kinda weird because she isnt really fully gorwn up (E.g Menstruation) some girls start early, but shes not even a teenager and its kinda perverted, just wait like a year, or maybe less.

[Eamonn]

not really would that make her .. 13/14 if that right it should be cool well thats what I think. Also its not a race if it was I'm definetly losing as I'm 17 and havn't even had a proper relationship I just wanna meet the right girl at the right time and fall in lover corny huh?
No that would make her 12/13 and I am going to tell you as it goes, you go out with year eight and you are most likely going to get stick for it.

[cocaine]

Ok, im 15 years old and i havnt 'got off with somone'. Ive been out with a girl in year 8 and all we did was like hug..

Recently ive been wanting a gf and somone likes me who i like. But i dont feel comfortable with the 'getting of bit' ive never done it before but most people my age have. :(

Anyone help? :(

Lol mate, feel my pain.

I havent even hugged anyone yet :rolleyes:

[Mentor]

*slighty offtopic* these topics are realy confuseing since theres a load of constant slang words used, and everyone seems to be useing them differntly? getting off now means makeing out, judgeing from this thread? while normaly in my exsperince its used to mean haveing an ******, or an exstention to meaning sex o.0 (hence leading to its secondry usage, stealing UrbanD's Def "louis really gets off on adding definitions to the Urban Dictionary.")

(yes ive had to resort to that to try and follow what the hell people are on about when useing these words half the time "/ )

[laurenx]

wooops.

Double post sorry !

[laurenx]

Lol mate, feel my pain.

I havent even hugged anyone yet :rolleyes:

aw, bless <3

I wouldn't worry to much, just wait && you'll find 'the-one'. Try and mix with girls you don't really seem to notice.
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[Carlos]

Lol mate, feel my pain.

I havent even hugged anyone yet :rolleyes:

I'd hug ya :p

[Starburst..x]

I would'nt worry about it, wouldn't you rather make out with someone you really like, than someone your not too keen on.
Just wait for that special someone

[Casanova]

Well, whatcha do is close you're eyes tilt your head and try to forget it's happening.
Just move your tongue and let your partner take the lead and do NOT slever, clam up and not move or keep your eyes open!

it should just happen.

[:Hazel]

Don't just get off with someone cause everyone else has. If you end up kissing a
fish you will regret it. Wait till you meet someone you like then everything will flow. ;)

[cocaine]

I'd hug ya :p

Err, :s


aw, bless <3

Dnt you bless me :(

your younger.

aw bless.

[hit-by-a-car]

:o do it, it feels good i guess, how should i know im 11.... strange ehy. Some kids love ..... coff the internet dont they...

anyway i suspect youll be fine. Go with the flow, dont like her get rid of her and make out in fifty years time when your old and rotting.

[Shatter]

Err, :s



Dnt you bless me :(

your younger.

aw bless.

LOL. And go with the flow. lol