Crush xD

[Ca$h]

Ok, so theres this girl i'v had my eye on for a while now. We talk a lot, we hang around with the same people and she has a really nice personality! I was thinking about asking her out, but i'm VERY VERY SHY!!! I'v knew her for a few months now and we have a good laugh together. See, i know that my friend fancies her and that if i ask her out, he might get jelous... But that isn't the problem! I'm scared that if i do ask her out, she will either tell me to get lost or tell me quietly. Either way, I'd prefer it if she said yes xD
So, what i REALLY need is some advice... Should i ask her out? If i did, where, how and when would i do it? :P

[:Hazel]

Just go for it. And don't so it by text or soething weedy, if your gonna do it properly do it face to face. ;)

[Ca$h]

Just go for it. And don't so it by text or soething weedy, if your gonna do it properly do it face to face. ;)

I know, but i'm so scared! What if she says no? I think i need to prepare myself - it will be the first person iv ever asked out :o

[FlyingJesus]

First person I ever asked out rejected me, played the "wouldn't you prefer to stay friends?" line and was going out with my best mate at the time the next week :P Still, wasn't too much of a problem. Just go for it, there's no other good option.

[:Hazel]

I know, but i'm so scared! What if she says no? I think i need to prepare myself - it will be the first person iv ever asked out :o

If you go through life fearing rejection constantly you will get nowhere. ;)

[Ca$h]

First person I ever asked out rejected me, played the "wouldn't you prefer to stay friends?" line and was going out with my best mate at the time the next week :P Still, wasn't too much of a problem. Just go for it, there's no other good option.

Aww xD Thats what i think she might say to me. i just wish i KNEW how she felt... I think im going to have to go for it and find out...


If you go through life fearing rejection constantly you will get nowhere. ;)
i think you are probably right. Im gonna have to go for it! :eusa_wall

[FlyingJesus]

Oh yeah an additional part of the story to ease your worries, we stayed good friends even after me asking her out and such.

[Ca$h]

Oh yeah an additional part of the story to ease your worries, we stayed good friends even after me asking her out and such.

Did you? Thanks, i needed to hear that xD
Its just the awckwardness of it all xD all i do is worry!!!!!:eusa_wall

[RedStratocas]

If she likes you just as a friend, she would say so when you ask her out. Its a bit akward and embarassing if she says that, but it passes pretty quickly if you just accept it. And itll be back to normal after that

[clarissa !!]

just go for it. if she says no, shes says no.. you'll get over it. good luck!

[Ca$h]

:D thanks for all your advice. I'v decided that im going to ask her out on monday, il tell you how i go on. Hold me to it! :eusa_danc

[RareWolf]

sounds like my life but i would be "your friend" this lad who thinks im his m8 lieks the same lass as i do and i would hit him so hard if he asked her out :l

so ye make sure ur friend aint harder den u

[Smile]

tell us the outcome when you finally ask her :]

[Herman]

Sometimes it's best if you just ask. If you don't you will forever wonder whether she likes you or not and regret not asking her. Good luck.

[Carlos]

Feel the fear.. and do it anyway!

[a:p]

If she says no, just laugh. Even pretend that you just did it to see what she'd say.

[Ostinato]

If you go through life fearing rejection constantly you will get nowhere. ;)

That's a phrase I completely agree with and use myself often.

Whats the point in going through life always wondering what the answer to everything is going to be? Well you know what they say - you don't get without asking. Lol.

Basically, your not going to even have a chance of getting with her if you don't just get a hold of yourself and go for it. The worst she can do is say no - and if she does then just say that it's cool and your fine with it, and carry on as friends like before.

Good luck!

[:::DAREDEVIL:::]

You should go or it, Dont be embarresed by rejection or anything, She might like you ;)

[3420]

Aw dude, I'm same I'm very shy aswell x[

[DiscoPat]

on msn, ask her - say i realy love someone...
she will say who who etc and you have u convos in between
making it hard etc and at the end say ugh ok its you.
then ask the ultimate question