Mother Problems.. Advice Please.

[Rizla]

Crack her in the mouth.

[Sentrax]

So I'm really worried at this point, my Mum has been ignoring me completely for the last few days. Even when people are here, she pretends I don't exist. She blanks me out of everything.

I don't know what I've done, but it got as bad as this:

I had finished my coursework foe english yesterday, and I took it to living room to show her, she wouldn't take it out of my hand, so I placed it on her lap.
Then she looked at it and said 'where did this come from?' and then tore it up and put it in the bin, without even looking at it.
I don't know if she knew what it was, but now I'm in trouble at school for not handing the coursework in. And all because of that.

I can't ask her what I've done because she doesn't reply to anything. Can anyone tell me what to do?
Thanks.

[:Hazel]

The ony way of sorting this out is communication I m afraid. Sit her down and TRY and talk. Explain how you are feeling and that you are confused at her behaviour. Hoefully you will get some answers.

[Sentrax]

The ony way of sorting this out is communication I m afraid. Sit her down and TRY and talk. Explain how you are feeling and that you are confused at her behaviour. Hoefully you will get some answers.

Yeah, hopefully.
It's messing up my head, I'm getting really frustrated when she just smirks when I'm trying to talk to her.
Thanks for the advice.

[Herman]

My mother does that sometimes, but she doesn't ignore me for days. I suggest you wait for the right time to atleast try to talk to her, like when she's sitting down or whatever. Try and talk to her and ask her what's wrong, if she tries to stand up and go away you have no choice but to stop her. Good luck.

[:Jamie]

Do it back to her and see how she feels lol

[Swastika]

Go live with another relative, she'll soon want you back.
I did, it worked :)

[Eamonn]

Your mother is so immature, great example she is setting for you :) I am so glad my parents act like adults.

[majesticdragon]

I say have a word with your dad or close relative and get them to ask her, All I can think of.

[sl4rt is banned]

Silly answer: She on her Period

Positive comment: talk to a cose relative or move in with someone like someone said

[StripedTiger]

*LOL at last comment*


she sounds like a bigger child then you.

what i would do is somehow lock her in a room, you keep the key or stay next to door, and just talk to her or talk at her.

even if she blanks you carry on talking.

At first ask her what you done etc, if she doesnt reply just start talking bout general stuff like "oh in maths today blah blah blah" as if she is tlaking back at you and showing some kind of interest.

if she still blanks, ask agaain what you have done. Then start talking away again. If you start losing stuff to talk aboutt alk about how you see your mother.

Say stuff like "my mother was my hero when i was little. she was there for me day after day and i realise i never once said thank you" you know the tear jerking stuff.

then start saying "i wonder what i ever done wrong to upset her so much" etccccccc

[:::DAREDEVIL:::]

My mom can be that way, Try talking to her and try getting her attention somehow.

[NightSlayer]

Have a chat. See whats upsetting her.

[Dan2nd]

This actually made me feel quite sad for you any mother who acts like this is really cruel if my mum was like this with me I would fell really sad and alone because I'm quite a mummys boy ( don't laugh :p) is there someone at school you can talk to? at mine there were people called mentors who were basically sixth formers who were trained to talk to young people who had problems like this or maybe a school counselor?

[alexxxxx]

I'd just say, if it's bothering you too much, just go off to somebody's house all time and ignore her, she'll crack.

[-Dispute]

Have you got a dad, or anyone live with you, you could ask if its just you shes weird with.