Dads... why bother?

[simon!]

Ok so basically Im gonna start with this "I hate my father"

I had my iPod on OK and I couldn't hear my mum shouting me, so my dad comes upstairs and bangs on my door and says "Your mums been shouting your name for the past 5 minutes and don't act like you can't hear her" I frickin couldn't!!!

So to take my anger out I smacked the wall repeatedly until my fathers head dissapeared from my mind. I then went downstairs and told him where to go and that my hatred for him will never stop. So he throws his bowl of frickin muesli at me!

Now I'm going to have a huge black mark on my face when I hand my CV in to various shops/garages at Traff Centre!

Anybody else feel their father is like your landlord and not a guy who'll take you to the football games or talk to you about cars and girls? Or for the girls d'you feel he's not bothered about you coming in late from a party or stuff like that?

[Carlos]

I get on well with my parents, never row with them or anything. I guess it's because they let me have my own privacy and don't interfere with my life too much.

[Lindzi]

I don't really have any relationship with my dad (even though we live in the same house...if that makes sense) He's never been there for me and knows nothing about my life I barely ever talk to him.

[exploit]

Sometimes, but he's not that bad that he throws stuff at me :P

[risque]

I don't get on with my dad as much as I'd like to, but yeah - we have a decent relationship. Hope yours gets better?

[simon!]

I don't really have any relationship with my dad (even though we live in the same house...if that makes sense) He's never been there for me and knows nothing about my life I barely ever talk to him.

I can relate to that.

[clarissa !!]

i dont live with my dad

and i barely talk to my stepdad.

[Blinger1]

My dad is awesome i got busted for alchohol but the next day he gave me money :P! We muck around all the time like play fighting nothing serious and joke around alot. Its mainly because my mum lives overseas :(

[Herman]

I don't really have any relationship with my dad (even though we live in the same house...if that makes sense) He's never been there for me and knows nothing about my life I barely ever talk to him.
Unfortunately, me and my dad are like that too. When we walk pass each other, we don't say hi or whatever, we just ignore each other. It's like imagining me/my dad not being there in the first place. But we do get along sometimes, I suppose.

[benjamin]

i just plain and simple dislike my dad for things he has done in the past.

funny how people seem ot fall out with their dad more than their mum.

[:Jamie]

I dislike my dad for breaking the trust i had with him a while ago..never forgive him for what he did.

[sarey]

I dont have a dad, lol.
You're lucky to have one, he may not be the best dad in the world, but you've got one.

[camera]

my father abuses us all, hes a womanizer... everytime he comes home drunk, he'll hit my mum and us... when my mum didnt give him money when he asked for it, he'll hit her again. he brings home women all the time. now theyre divorced and i havent seen him for like almost a decade.

my mum remarried. finally i get fatherly love from my stepfather. he died like 2 years ago, because of cancer

i hate my father. what he did was just horrible.
my stepfather, not my flesh and blood, cares alot bout us.
now that hes gone, ive lost another father. im glad i lost my real father but it sucks to see my stepfather go.

[womanizer]

i dnt like mine.

[shenk.]

I hate my Dad... I punched him in the stomache once... he's stopped coming close to me now. =\

[Tristan]

Ok so basically Im gonna start with this "I hate my father"

I had my iPod on OK and I couldn't hear my mum shouting me, so my dad comes upstairs and bangs on my door and says "Your mums been shouting your name for the past 5 minutes and don't act like you can't hear her" I frickin couldn't!!!

So to take my anger out I smacked the wall repeatedly until my fathers head dissapeared from my mind. I then went downstairs and told him where to go and that my hatred for him will never stop. So he throws his bowl of frickin muesli at me!

Now I'm going to have a huge black mark on my face when I hand my CV in to various shops/garages at Traff Centre!

Anybody else feel their father is like your landlord and not a guy who'll take you to the football games or talk to you about cars and girls? Or for the girls d'you feel he's not bothered about you coming in late from a party or stuff like that?

You are mature...
I don't want to sound rude or horrible but seriously, you declare that you will hate him forever which I seriously doubt when all he did was shout at you.
Jesus try living without your father. :l

[risque]

You are mature...
I don't want to sound rude or horrible but seriously, you declare that you will hate him forever which I seriously doubt when all he did was shout at you.
Jesus try living without your father. :l

Since when did you become an expert on family counselling?
I'd hate my dad forever if he hit my mum and any of my family for that matter. :/

[Tristan]

Since when did you become an expert on family counselling?
I'd hate my dad forever if he hit my mum and any of my family for that matter. :/

Read the first post that I was reffering to and you will see he never said anything about his father hitting his mother? I wasn't reffering to anyone that said that they hate their dad for hitting and other serious things. I don't consider myself to be an expert so try not to be so immature.

[Dan2nd]

My Dad never had a dad when he was 3 his dad died of cancer. This is why I think my dad trys his best to make our family happy. Hes the best dad ever hes buying me my first car he took me to football and I see him as my best mate. He started off as a cashier at our local bank and is now the operations Directer at some merchant bank somewhere which to me shows how much he worked his butt off for us and its because of him I have this nice and comfortable life style . I Love my Mum & Dad and will do forever :)

[hit-by-a-car]

My dad never hits me, hes loving spoils me silly and hes always there for me, like when i was hit by a car just last week he gave me a tablet ran me a bath and fed me chip shop food, ourbond is the strongest ever, just isolate yourself from your parents for a few weeks, hell eventually feel sorry for you. Your bond will grow. :)

[Bef]

My dad treats me like a big mistake that can be got rid of with money. I don't have a dad as far as im concernd anymore.

[:Jamie]

You are mature...
I don't want to sound rude or horrible but seriously, you declare that you will hate him forever which I seriously doubt when all he did was shout at you.
Jesus try living without your father. :l

Maybe theres other reasons why he hates his dad but doesn't want to post them? Think before you post..And you really need to stop calling people immature(People can take this as an insult and being a mod you shud know better)..And saying there mature in a sarcastic way..

[Casanova]

i just plain and simple dislike my dad for things he has done in the past.

funny how people seem ot fall out with their dad more than their mum.

I'm like that with my mum, if she died it wouldn't affect me one bit. I can say that sincerely from how i feel right now. When my mum and dad split up at one point my dad had to MAKE me and my brother see her. Now we plainly don't see her, and my dad and her are going through the courts. GRRR i'm so angry I HATE THE COW! :@

As for Dad's, i love my dad. He is like a dad but still a good friend. I've lived with him for about 6 year's and even though we do argue, i love him of course.

Shame about your dad's :(

[Rizla]

Didn't read past the first page, but personally I think you deserved that bowl of muesli at your face.

[SHEEPY_luvs_u]

my dad shouts at me, big deal. He's still awesome.

[English]

Ok so basically Im gonna start with this "I hate my father"

I had my iPod on OK and I couldn't hear my mum shouting me, so my dad comes upstairs and bangs on my door and says "Your mums been shouting your name for the past 5 minutes and don't act like you can't hear her" I frickin couldn't!!!

So to take my anger out I smacked the wall repeatedly until my fathers head dissapeared from my mind. I then went downstairs and told him where to go and that my hatred for him will never stop. So he throws his bowl of frickin muesli at me!

Now I'm going to have a huge black mark on my face when I hand my CV in to various shops/garages at Traff Centre!

Anybody else feel their father is like your landlord and not a guy who'll take you to the football games or talk to you about cars and girls? Or for the girls d'you feel he's not bothered about you coming in late from a party or stuff like that?
Sometimes parents make mistakes, if you were to calmly point out you had your headphones in instead of being violent to a wall [Urmm whats the point in that?] and being angry at him then he might have apologised and the matter would have been over. But because you couldn't deal with the situation civily and you lost your temper then you pretty much deserved that muesli.


Anyway - My Dad although he's not perfect [no dads are "/] he is still an awesome dad who I can joke around with and talk about serious matters, sometimes he is just like 'one of the lads' and pretty much gives me loads of advice and is totally cool with things that may be a problem with other families, what a bloke my Dad is!

[-Justin]

Your all pretty lucky. Ive seen my dad Three times in my whole life. Thats it. He left my family when i was 2 and Ive grown up with only a mother. Shes the best ever as well. But unfortantly im not manly anymore, No father growing up does that to you, Instead of a fatherly "birds and the bees" talk i got a book saying "always use a condom" not a fault on my mom at all. If i lost her Hell i dont know who i could turn to besides my grandfather.

[Tristan]

Maybe theres other reasons why he hates his dad but doesn't want to post them? Think before you post..And you really need to stop calling people immature(People can take this as an insult and being a mod you shud know better)..And saying there mature in a sarcastic way..

I'd hate my dad forever if he hit my mum and any of my family for that matter. :/

Think before you post...

[-Justin]

And you have every right to hate your dad for that.

Remeber though, Hate is a Strong word.

[:Hazel]

I get on OK with both my Parents but I do have petty arguements with them as you do I suppose. :rolleyes:

[Erin]

Its more my mother i dont get on with
My dads cool

[FlyingJesus]

I get on with both my parents really well, and to be honest I think you (thread starter) really overreacted. I don't know what previous tensions you have with your father but him coming in your room to say that your mum's been calling for you is hardly a reason to go schiz at him, let alone say you hate him. Try to understand that being a parent is a lot harder than being the snotty little kid who wants everything his own way.

[Tristan]

And you have every right to hate your dad for that.

Remeber though, Hate is a Strong word.

I was quoting a different post but without the quote tags. :P

FlyingJesus - +Rep.
The thread starter should take a look at mine and Jesus' posts and stop being so immature.

[FlyingJesus]

Can't rep me I'm cautioned, but thanks for the gesture ^_^

[shenk.]

Can't rep me I'm cautioned, but thanks for the gesture ^_^

Oooo, i didn't know that o.o

+Rep

[hit-by-a-car]

i think we are starting to fly off - topic =)

[Charlie]

Well, i do & i don't get on with my dad, sometime i get on with him pretty well and we can talk and have a laugh and then there is other times when he gets really angry and you just really can't talk to him then. He gets really violent then and starts throwing things & stuff.

But, with my mom, i hardly talk to her, i'll have the odd conversation with her, but we kind of stick to our own things whereas my dad would come see me when i was doing my own thing.

That does make sense.

[liquid]

i love my mummy and daddy :)
they're really cool, let me do what i want really.

[edible]

Well, i never used to get on with my dad so much, but sum1 told mi once that dads are only mean cos they love ya and they wanna protect you.
Like Helen said, i love my mum and dad aswell. And im now getting along alot better than I use to with my Dad :]

[sock]

My relationship is great with my dad, He takes me to football games, Gives me support, Gives me things. You should try and sort it out between you two.

[brandon]

I have a firm dad, but a fair one. Yeah we get on well most of the time.

[micky.blue.eyes]

I get on really well with my parents, I love them and I don't think it'll change.

I agree with FlysingJesus's post, but I think your dad overreacted aswell.

[FlyingJesus]

I have a firm dad

rofl soz but it made me chuckle

IT IZ ON TOPIC CUZ IM TLKIN BOUT HIS POST

[summer]

lol @ that ^

erm, i saw my dad for the first time in agesss on the weekend. i had fun, but it didn't seem right ]:

[shenk.]

I have a firm dad

Also Lol@That

erm... So... That was a big discussion on why everyone hates parental figures.

[Haote]

Well...I really never had a father...My mom just met a guy and now I have a little sister. I really like my stepdad. He lets me have friends over, lets me go to movies etc.

[TheLastShadow]

Maybe...you were a mistake?

[Digital]

I don't live with my dad but i still see him all the time since he works down the road from my house, buts hes never been a good dad EVER

[laurenx]

me and my dad get on OK i guess - but there is bad past tbh.

not all fathers are the same.

[Axel]

I think it's stupid that you start hitting stuff just because you got told that you were ignoring your mum? And then insulting your dad. I think it's practically your fault..

[Danzilla]

Iv never got on with my step dad and for my real dad... Well i never seen him in my hole life, He ran away before i was born. But to my step dad, Some times he was ok. Only once did he take me to a football match and he allways gave me advice but becsue he was my sisters realy dad he liked her more and if i was doing somthing and she wanted to do it he would just hit and untill i let her do it, Once he picked me up by the neck and chucked my across the hall. I dont live with him only my mum and sisters and i dont really care. Dont think your self to hard done by. :)

[GommeInc]

Ok so basically Im gonna start with this "I hate my father"

I had my iPod on OK and I couldn't hear my mum shouting me, so my dad comes upstairs and bangs on my door and says "Your mums been shouting your name for the past 5 minutes and don't act like you can't hear her" I frickin couldn't!!!

So to take my anger out I smacked the wall repeatedly until my fathers head dissapeared from my mind. I then went downstairs and told him where to go and that my hatred for him will never stop. So he throws his bowl of frickin muesli at me!

Now I'm going to have a huge black mark on my face when I hand my CV in to various shops/garages at Traff Centre!

Anybody else feel their father is like your landlord and not a guy who'll take you to the football games or talk to you about cars and girls? Or for the girls d'you feel he's not bothered about you coming in late from a party or stuff like that?
I love my father, because no matter what he says in a negative tone to me, I never take it to heart and I know he still loves me.

You're a typical teenager who obviously finds that their father is always on their back. Get real, see the bigger picture. Why could you not of just said to him that you were listening to your iPod? If he didn't believe you then repeat what you said and show him that your iPod was in your ear. I don't see why banging on the wall could solve anything...

Can you tell me a story of a few things you've done with your father or just tell me a short story of your father, and see if we can pick out the problem :)

[:alexxTURNER]

Ok so basically Im gonna start with this "I hate my father"

I had my iPod on OK and I couldn't hear my mum shouting me, so my dad comes upstairs and bangs on my door and says "Your mums been shouting your name for the past 5 minutes and don't act like you can't hear her" I frickin couldn't!!!

So to take my anger out I smacked the wall repeatedly until my fathers head dissapeared from my mind. I then went downstairs and told him where to go and that my hatred for him will never stop. So he throws his bowl of frickin muesli at me!

Now I'm going to have a huge black mark on my face when I hand my CV in to various shops/garages at Traff Centre!

Anybody else feel their father is like your landlord and not a guy who'll take you to the football games or talk to you about cars and girls? Or for the girls d'you feel he's not bothered about you coming in late from a party or stuff like that?

You deserve the muesli. Instead of being a spoilt little brat and hitting the wall and telling him that you hate him. You should of explained that you were listening to your Ipod and that you never heard her. I also agree with FlyingJesus it's a lot harder being a parent than being the spoilt brat who goes crazy after his father shouted at him.

[MusicPalace]

well i am a girl, but i can say i do strongly dislike my dad. My dad is a computer addict, annoys me all the time, and he gets way to angry for little things.

Example: Mom-"Joe dinners ready" Dad-"Hang on" Sit at the table until we're half way through. Mom-"Joe get off the computer and come have dinner with us." Dad-"I'm too busy!"

Example 2: Dad *poke poke poke* Me-"Dad stop please." Dad *poke poke poke* Me-"DAD STOP!" Dad *poke poke poke* Me *walks away* Dad *follows* the whole process repeats over and over again.

Example 3: Me hitting my toe on the table behind me, pushing it into the wall with a low bang. Dad thought i was angrily pushing the table when i just wanted to get it out of my way. Dad "GO TO YOUR ROOM NOW!" me-"Dad i didn't do it on purpose, i was trying to get it out of my way!" Dad "YOUR GROUNDED FOR A WEEK GO TO YOUR ROOM NOW!"

And i'm not lieing about those examples, they've happened and something similar is most likely to happen again.

So yes, i do strongly dislike my dad, but i would have to never say that i hate him.

[Eamonn]

I don't connect with my parents generally so they buy me stuff, meh.

[FlyingJesus]

I'm really quite lucky, my parents are divorced but I get on with both of them really well, and my mum remarried and I get on with my stepdad really well too.