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MusicPalace
20-11-2006, 09:22 PM
Well i'm 13 and i am pretty sure i am bi, because i like girls and guys. And now i've found myself barely liking guys and thinking i'm lesbian. But whats confusing me most is that i wonder if its just 'hormones racing all over the place" or what it is. Is there any actual way of telling what my sexuality is?
Lubricant
20-11-2006, 10:16 PM
It's natural at your age to question your sexuality. I don't really know any way to determine your sexuality for sure. Just don't go labeling yourself just yet. It might end up being a phase.
Not exactly best advice but only one I got lol.
Dazzle
20-11-2006, 10:16 PM
You will most proberly going through a experimenting phase, liking the other gender and wondering about what it would be like. There is no way except from what feels right your sexuality.
MusicPalace
20-11-2006, 10:23 PM
right now it feels like i would rather be with girls than guys, but idk i just hate hormones! :(
Janeisntpleased
20-11-2006, 11:06 PM
imo, you can be never be 100% sure of your sexuality at 13. it'll all calm down sooner or later :)
MusicPalace
20-11-2006, 11:20 PM
how do i know when i am sure?
benjamin
21-11-2006, 08:11 AM
i'd say in a year or two, you'll have grown up a bit more and your head will be a little bit clearer
fitcovboy
21-11-2006, 05:36 PM
You are a bit young to be branding yourself, just carry on and it will become clear eventually, as has been said it could easily take a good couple of years yet, maybe even longer.
louder
21-11-2006, 05:44 PM
I started questioning my sexuality when I was like just 12.. I'm 13 now, i'm still not sure about my sexuality now tbh, I know i'm definatly not gay, it's just the question if I actually do like guys, I think I do but it may just be a phase.
It doesn't matter how little you are attracted to guys, if you are attracted to them aswell as girls then you are bi, if you were lesbian you wouldn't be attracted to guys in any way what-so-ever.
EDIT: Have you ever done anything with a girl? Like, kissed or maybe even more? Because when I first started questioning my sexuality I realised I was attracted to guys but then I kissed a guy for the first time and didn't really like it and thought I was straight, That was actually only because I didn't like the guy - he was just somone to experiment on, you may never know - you may be attracted to girls and then kiss one and hate it?
MusicPalace
21-11-2006, 08:14 PM
i'm attracted to girls and guys now, but i am deffinatly more attracted to girls, which is why i think i am leaning toward lesbian, but with hormones i still can't tell. I've never done anything with a girl, and i don't think someone will be like "Experiment on me!" lol. Oh soo confused. So the best thing is to just be confused and wait then? :P
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