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benjamin
21-11-2006, 08:12 AM
ok, for the girls.

if you got pregnant now, at your age. would you have an abortion?

and for the boys.

if you got your girlfriend pregnant, at your current age, and she was around the same age, would you persuade her to get an abortion?

velvet
21-11-2006, 01:20 PM
I'd have the baby. I don't personally agree with abortions, if you're having sex you're taking a risk so if I got pregnant it would be a consequence of my own actions. :]

:Hazel
21-11-2006, 03:00 PM
I really don't know until I'm in that situation. :s

Nixt
21-11-2006, 03:03 PM
I couldn't make anyone have an abortion :o though, I think I would stand by her in whatever decision she decided to make.

Fonejacker
21-11-2006, 03:42 PM
I couldn't make anyone have an abortion :o though, I think I would stand by her in whatever decision she decided to make.
Hmmm That would be really depend on how old u were lol...

I would tell her to get an abortion or get her to pretend she didn't know who the dad was if she wanted it...

@K
21-11-2006, 03:44 PM
I would rather my girlfriend keep the baby and I'm only 16 atm, I can't wait to be a dad :D

dirrty
21-11-2006, 04:00 PM
I would tell her to have an abortion even though really its up to her.

benjamin
21-11-2006, 04:01 PM
not meaning to offend anyone here. but i can't see how people can be saying that they would ask them to get an abortion.. i don't agree with them.

louder
21-11-2006, 05:40 PM
If I didn't want a baby then i'd use protection, but if somehow things went wrong and I did end up getting her pregnant I would persuade my girlfriend to keep the baby as it's just wrong to have an abortion tbh.

dirrty
21-11-2006, 05:43 PM
not meaning to offend anyone here. but i can't see how people can be saying that they would ask them to get an abortion.. i don't agree with them.
Its because im only 15 and can just about look after myself so i dont know how i would be able to look after the baby.

Putting the baby through adoption might be a better option but sometimes, being adopted is not the best thing as there are problems there. Im not saying death is better but i think having an abortion is better in the long run.

Charlie
21-11-2006, 05:46 PM
Adoption anyone?

If i got pregnant at this age (16), i don't think i'd be able to look after it, as i can't look after myself, so i'd put it up for adoption, so then, i'm not killing it off, and someone who really does want a baby, can have it.

uh huh her
21-11-2006, 06:17 PM
i wouldn't get an abortion, but i wouldn't be able to look after a child at this age. so i would probably put the baby up for adoption.

Eamonn
21-11-2006, 06:18 PM
If I got a girl pregnent I wouldn't pressure her at all to get an abortion but I would stand by her if she wanted to have one and I would stand by her if she had the baby also.

vibrant
21-11-2006, 06:19 PM
Ew course I'd get rid of it.


Sorry I don't want children.

FrozenWhisper
21-11-2006, 06:43 PM
I don't know. On one hand I wouldn't be able to kill my baby.
On another I'm 12....

Janeisntpleased
21-11-2006, 06:50 PM
Ew course I'd get rid of it.


Sorry I don't want children.

same.
and anyone who's gonna try and start an arguement like
'OMGS DATZ SO WR0NGZZ! HOWZ CAN YOO KILLZ A BAYBBBEEEE?'
i'm not an idiot. i've learned about abortion. i've learned how terrible it is. but i'd still do it in this situation.

the end.

Lubricant
21-11-2006, 08:22 PM
If I got a girl pregnant, I would probably agree with her decision. If I were to get pregnant (Which will never happen because it's impossible), I would put it up for adoption because I have way more important things to do. Having a baby would ruin my life and career.

DiscoPat
21-11-2006, 08:48 PM
If im married then No to abortion,
But for my current age I will say yes to abortion as althogh i believe its wrong
I think that you have to think about the child, in what circumstances it will be brought up etc and in school might have probz if father and mother to young maybe

clarissa !!
21-11-2006, 10:00 PM
i cant really answer that cause im not in the situation.

Flumples
21-11-2006, 10:09 PM
I'd tell her i'd prefer it if she got an abortion, tell her the outcomes of having the baby (e.g. school work, daily routine, etc..) but tell her its her choice.

Hecktix
21-11-2006, 10:13 PM
To start with. I don't sleep around. My relationship has to be seriousish before I'll sleep with her, cause that means we care about eachother, or at least I care about her. I'd tell her that I'd stand by her whatever she did, I couldn't force her to have an abortions as I hate abortions but as much as I hate abortions I could not force her not to go through with it as it is her choice not mine. However I would try to get her to have it adopted if she wanted to abort it. But if she wanted to keep it, i'd respect that decision and stand by her, and help with the baby... i'd think ahh i get to deal with it when its small and cute, screams a bit but ah well, i'm off to uni in 2 years... she can have it while its running around trashing everywhere :p:p

But I seriously would let her have the baby and I would be a dad.
But the only chance I would ever get a girl pregnant is if contraception failed us.

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