Are you happy with your sexuality?

[fitcovboy]

Are you happy with your sexuality?
Would you feel comfortable at a family function, with them all knowing your sexuality?
If you are gay or bi, would you feel ok with taking a partner of the same sex to a family function?

These are just some ideas to discuss below.

[Charlie]

Yea, i am happy & comfortable with my sexuality, and, i wouldn't be that bothered about going to a family function if people knew i was gay and i wouldn't be bothered about taking some of the same sex with me.

Because, at the end of the day, what others thinks about it has nothing to do with me, because its their opinion, and, if they want to think that, they let them do that.

We can't change it, we can only live with it.

[Nether$]

Yes, i am happy beuing gay

[benjamin]

no, i hate it.

[Uwe]

I love being gay and everyone knows [:
I would love to take a partener to a family function :]

[:Jamie]

Am I happy? Some days yes and some days no :P

[brandon]

I realise this is Gay / Lesbian chat but, If I was gay I would accept it, however I'd probably keep it quiet tbh

[Eamonn]

I realise this is Gay / Lesbian chat but, If I was gay I would accept it, however I'd probably keep it quiet tbh
Yeah but you aren't gay so you can't really say that as you haven't been in that situation as I haven't either :p

[MusicPalace]

i guess i'm happy with whatever my sexuality is, cause it makes part of me. Right now...i'm really unsure of my sexuality, but i'm happy with whatever it is. :P

[Nether$]

no, i hate it.

why's that???

i think everyone goes through these, in the same order:

*Confused ~ what are these feelings
*Am i gay?
*Denial
*Acceptence, im gay but im not telling anyone
*short Denial
*Im gay and what?
*Comming out

well thats how it was for me, and others i know.

also they say 1/10 people in are gay, i dont believe that but how about you?

[:Jamie]

why's that???

i think everyone goes through these, in the same order:

*Confused ~ what are these feelings
*Am i gay?
*Denial
*Acceptence, im gay but im not telling anyone
*short Denial
*Im gay and what?
*Comming out

well thats how it was for me, and others i know.

also they say 1/10 people in are gay, i dont believe that but how about you?

Not everyone who is gay/bi has to be happy with it.

Im prob at this stage..

*Acceptence, im gay but im not telling anyone
*short Denial

[Kanker.]

Yes i am. =] [bi], Currently with a Gf :]

[Nether$]

to the bi people: are you more drawn to boys/girls. are you physiclly attracted to one and sexually to another?

[Kanker.]

Well neither really, it just happens tbh. Hard to explain

[benjamin]

bi, prefer boys.

and i've told people, i just hate it. i don't want to like boys because in my situation it makes my life hell and things 10x worse.

[fitcovboy]

bi, prefer boys.

and i've told people, i just hate it. i don't want to like boys because in my situation it makes my life hell and things 10x worse.

Why in your situation? I understand if you cannot discuss it.

[Alkaz]

Im think im bi, i find men really attractive and sexy in the same way as i do with girls, ive had relation ships with girl and yeah i have taken one or two to a family party but i wouldnt take a boyfriend as i would feel intimedated by everyone there, this is the first time i have spoken about it so i feel a little raw.

[benjamin]

Why in your situation? I understand if you cannot discuss it.
i just get a hell of a lot of stick from people, and well it just makes me life more complicated. there are other things but i'd rather not say tbh.

[Nightrose]

umm yeah im straight and happy :)

[Hopeless]

I am ashamed to say that i would prefer not to be gay

I have so many problems if icame out being gay

1: family (dad major homophobe)
2: School (people taking the mick)
3: Isolation (no one wanting to be your friend)

The only thing i like being gay is that i can make jokes about myself but i can't handle being called gay. Some people have guessed im gay in school. I just say nah im just camp.

[liquid]

umm yeah im straight and happy :)

same m8.

[fitcovboy]

i just get a hell of a lot of stick from people, and well it just makes me life more complicated. there are other things but i'd rather not say tbh.

Some people are so sad picking on some body over their sexuality, and well if you ever want to talk you can allways PM me.


I am ashamed to say that i would prefer not to be gay

I have so many problems if icame out being gay

1: family (dad major homophobe)
2: School (people taking the mick)
3: Isolation (no one wanting to be your friend)

The only thing i like being gay is that i can make jokes about myself but i can't handle being called gay. Some people have guessed im gay in school. I just say nah im just camp.

You will probably find people to be more understanding than you think, homophobia is dying out, unfortunately it is not extinct, but it is better than it was.

[benjamin]

Some people are so sad picking on some body over their sexuality, and well if you ever want to talk you can allways PM me.
mhmmm, tell me about it. but thanks for the offer <3