View Full Version : Advice please.
Charlie
24-11-2006, 04:38 PM
Lol, this will probably give me loads of people saying "emo" and crap, but tbh, i don't care.
I'm depressed, i don't want to be here anymore. And, i want to self harm, yea, like all the emo's do.
Just help me please. :(
Whatever you do, don't self harm. I have talked to a lot of people who have done this in the past, and it sort of becomes an addiction to them. The best thing to do is pinpoint what is making you feel depressed, and work from there - i.e. try and solve the problem, maybe by talking to someone.
Just don't self harm!
Charlie
24-11-2006, 04:45 PM
I kind of know that SH is addicative, hint why i want to do it now due to doing it in the past.
And, i don't really know what is depressing me, it just suddenly came on and everything, and there isn't anyone to talk to, besides one person, who doesn't seem to care that much today.
If you have done it before then you know that you don't want to do it again. Think about how it actually helps; if you are honest with yourself you will know it doesn't.
There are loads of people you can talk to, family, friends and maybe even your doctor. If you can't actually pinpoint the reason that you are feeling depressed, you maybe need to try and take your mind off the depression somehow.
I don't know if you have read Ostinato's post - but it may help, it's worth a try anyway. Clicky (http://www.habboxforum.com/showpost.php?p=2264916&postcount=1).
Swastika
24-11-2006, 04:59 PM
Try Childline: www.chidline.org.uk
0800 1111 <--- I think if you phone, its free.
Charlie
24-11-2006, 05:07 PM
Cheers.
sarey
24-11-2006, 06:12 PM
Don't be so silly, no offense, but if you've done it before, then why do it again? You know the effects of SH, considering my past and myself being a SH, trying to quit, why start? Its so hard quiting, and so easy beginning? Its addictive, yes, its horrible, life risking, it scars, sometimes for life, their are more downs to SH than ups!
Seriously, dont start, try going to your doctor and talking to him/her about what your feeling, they might set you up with CAHMS, a mental health service with social workers & all that, it could help.
If not, try emailing someone, http://www.samaritans.org.uk, www.teenhelp.org - this could be useful too.
Just dont do start up selfharm, its so silly, of course, to you it may not be, but in the long term, it is.
It can cause other mental health problems too, depression in particular, or/and suicidal feelings.
Take care. <3
edit:
Another website which can be useful is http://www.brightplace.org.uk/sh7.html.
Its got techniques to distract yourself from selfharming, since you are a previous selfharmer, this could come in handy as i take it you were and still are trying to stop. :)
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