do you think..

[Vulgar]

..that a lot of people who say they are bisexual mainly say it because they are gay/lesbian but still in denial?

personally, i do. through experience myself, i've litterally only just came to terms with being gay. i've always said i'm bi, and always seen myself as bi, but deep down i knew what i was, just too scared to say anything. (and i still havn't - this is the first i've ever said well you get my drift..)

but yeah, discuss.

[Ry]

Yes, i totally think this, Some of my friends don't agree though, I said i was Bi-Sexual for a while infact, I'm living proof :)

[Vulgar]

exactly the same as me then. i dunno why, but i always found admitting to being bi is a lot easier than admitting to being gay.

[Ry]

I still can't say the gay word, Rofl. :P

[Nixt]

I think in a lot of cases this is the case yes, but not in all of them.

[Vulgar]

I still can't say the gay word, Rofl. :P
what do you mean, as labelling yourself it?

I think in a lot of cases this is the case yes, but not in all of them.
and oh i know, i just said a lot :]

[Ry]

I think in a lot of cases this is the case yes, but not in all of them.

I agree with that, but i'd say around half of the time. :P

I can't bring myself to say the words "I'm gay" unless im severely drunk, I don't know why. Only my select few friends know i am, and people who don't know me outside of this forum :)

[-Emz]

i dunno cos im straight and *REMOVED* but yer i guess so?

Nixt (Forum Moderator) Please do not avoid the forum filter.

[uh huh her]

i don't know. im bi, but im sure that im not in denial of being a lesbian. though im more attracted to women than men. some people probably are just in denial.

[brapbrap]

Bi's are just greedy. =]


Just joking, does it really matter? they are what they are, you cant change it by saying it on a forum, or saying what they call themselves.


BI POWER =]

[EverSteve]

Uhm well I'm mostly gay but I still fancy girls! I'm bi but I suppose yes i say it to make sure I dont think im 100% gay :S. And as well I know loadza people at my school get bullied for being gay, i say i'm bi and i only get the od word not as much as the gays :L

[Assid_Rane]

im more attracted to women than men..

isnt that the case with most bi girls though? infact, i believe every bi girl ive spoke to about it, has said she prefers girls to lads...

[benjamin]

um well, i kinda agree. i was in denial a lot before i came out.

[fitcovboy]

It would appear a lot of people who are gay refer to themselves as 'bi' for various reasons, it could be down to peer pressure, and as one post said 'the gays get bullied more' It is a sad fact and has some what improved, a lot of people think being gay is like having a didease, unfortunately they do not realise that a lot of gay people hate being gay because of the way society portrays the term 'bing gay' Hopefully one day it will be fully accepted and society may stop out casting people because of their sexuality.

[EverSteve]

Well recently I know loads of people on my friends list online who are bi but in real life are affraid to say stuff. It is a bit of a shame, but if most lads admited it at least 50% going from 13 - 16 proberbly are bi and a little bit confused.