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xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:15 PM
Im bi, got a girlfriend... started liking this guy... turns out hes gay and likes me to.

Spoke to him about it today... and we are now going out. YAY

Really like need to tell my girlfriend tonight, how to say please... lol

Mentally_fat
30-11-2006, 04:16 PM
I laughed.

Ry
30-11-2006, 04:18 PM
Hmm, seems like your bumping off your girlfriend for your boyfriend, simply, If i was your girlfriend, I'd not be a happy bunny. Personally, Sorry!

benjamin
30-11-2006, 04:19 PM
is she the sort of person who would totally turn against you? or does she know you're bi?

you could do one fo the old classics, and say somthing like 'it's not you, it's me' blahblah, or think of somthing nice to say, talk to her and say you still want to be friends, just say you don't really want a relationship, and the say somthing like, you don't want it to carry on because the longer it goes the more hurt it will cause.

but on the other hand.. well if everyone knows your bi, and everyone will know you have a boyfriend [i don't know your age, so y'know] i'd like, well just say you don't feel the same way

ahh i'm not very good, but i tried.

risque
30-11-2006, 04:19 PM
I think you're a jerk, to be honest. You start going out with somebody else when you're already dating another person? Thats a disgrace.

Good luck in trhe long run, though.

dirrty
30-11-2006, 04:19 PM
Just say,
[NAME], im sorry but our relationship is not working out, and i have found someone better. I really like him and we have alot in common. I still want to be friends, sorry.

=]

benjamin
30-11-2006, 04:20 PM
I think you're a jerk, to be honest. You start going out with somebody else when you're already dating another person? Thats a disgrace.

Good luck in trhe long run, though.well tbh, that part is none of our business.. coz y'know, some people do do that.

Mentally_fat
30-11-2006, 04:20 PM
I think you're a jerk, to be honest. You start going out with somebody else when you're already dating another person? Thats a disgrace.
I agree.

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:21 PM
is she the sort of person who would totally turn against you? or does she know you're bi?

you could do one fo the old classics, and say somthing like 'it's not you, it's me' blahblah, or think of somthing nice to say, talk to her and say you still want to be friends, just say you don't really want a relationship, and the say somthing like, you don't want it to carry on because the longer it goes the more hurt it will cause.

but on the other hand.. well if everyone knows your bi, and everyone will know you have a boyfriend [i don't know your age, so y'know] i'd like, well just say you don't feel the same way

ahh i'm not very good, but i tried.
thanks, and yer shes knows.


I think you're a jerk, to be honest. You start going out with somebody else when you're already dating another person? Thats a disgrace.

Good luck in trhe long run, though.
tbh, it only happened today and i really like him. that and i havent been able to talk to her until she comes online anyway.



Just say,
[NAME], im sorry but our relationship is not working out, and i have found someone better. I really like him and we have alot in common. I still want to be friends, sorry.

=]
thanks :)

risque
30-11-2006, 04:23 PM
well tbh, that part is none of our business.. coz y'know, some people do do that.

I know it's none of my business, but it's still blowing his girlfriend off completely.

benjamin
30-11-2006, 04:25 PM
I know it's none of my business, but it's still blowing his girlfriend off completely.
yah, but not much we can do really but help.

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:26 PM
Its not my fault if i perfer someone else over her... its life

risque
30-11-2006, 04:27 PM
Not how everybody's life works, but good luck anyway. (:

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:27 PM
totally dreading having to tell her :(

risque
30-11-2006, 04:28 PM
Just go for it, and remember "that's life". :rolleyes:

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:29 PM
-.- thanks... i can see you care.

benjamin
30-11-2006, 04:29 PM
well dude, you gotta do it sooner or later.

risque
30-11-2006, 04:32 PM
So, just because i tell you what I think; you bad rep me and call me insensitive? Barely.

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:34 PM
Lol i hate this situation as much as you clearly do.. and think about me? Im the situation its like 10x worse for me.

I dont need the insensitive remarks right now :)

Mentally_fat
30-11-2006, 04:35 PM
xroyal i hope you get cheated on.

risque
30-11-2006, 04:36 PM
Well sorry to have offended you, lol...If you don't want people's opinions, stop posting on a forum. You won't get sympathy in every thread you make about a bad situation.

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 04:38 PM
fair enough...

Python
30-11-2006, 05:13 PM
wait this is online? =/

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 05:24 PM
what :S Lol anywya i spoke to her now.. i think shes p***ed at me

Python
30-11-2006, 05:32 PM
what :S Lol anywya i spoke to her now.. i think shes p***ed at me

Isit online dating, or do you know them in real life?

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 05:33 PM
He goes to my school.

Python
30-11-2006, 05:42 PM
So why did you need to wait for the girl to come online? Are you that much of a coward you can't give somebody a real explanation?

xRoyal15
30-11-2006, 05:50 PM
No lol.. shes online, hes not

Mentor
30-11-2006, 07:19 PM
Im bi, got a girlfriend... started liking this guy... turns out hes gay and likes me to.

Spoke to him about it today... and we are now going out. YAY

Really like need to tell my girlfriend tonight, how to say please... lol

The fact your bi is kinda irrelevant really, all i can gather from it is your cheeting on your girlfriend. "/

benjamin
30-11-2006, 07:20 PM
The fact your bi is kinda irrelevant really, all i can gather from it is your cheeting on your girlfriend. "/
no? he dumped her.

brapbrap
30-11-2006, 09:37 PM
Am i the only oen or did the first post sound like you were asking your girl to have a threesome with your new boyfriend?


I think ineed to go and read the bible.... Jeez.

xRoyal15
01-12-2006, 04:32 PM
I think you need a bit more than a bible :)

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