What makes you gay/lesbian?

[Barbie_N33b]

I always wondered this. I'm going through puberty and i'm straight. But the only problem is? What makes you gay/lesbian
Your first kiss
Your first ****?
Your first snog?
Your first head?
Your first sex?
I don't know what makes you gay/lesbian say your answers.
Truthfully I think it when you have sex with them? or is it when you **** with them? or is it when you kiss them. Seriously. ^_^ I always wondered

[Caution]

When you become attracted to someone of the same gender..

[Uwe]

you are born that way...

[xRoyal15]

well i think the fact i have a boyfriend kinda makes me bi :P

but i think i may be gay idk...

[Ashley 12344]

Hormones?

And upbringing.

And alcohol/drugs (temporarily)

[omgDAN!]

Your probably just bi.

[Charlie]

Well, i think, my girlfriend is the reason i'm a lesbian, or is it because i have a great love for the girls?

Hmm.. who knows?

[benjamin]

Your probably just bi.
excuse me, but when did he/she say he was attracted to the same gender?

well, no one actually knows what's makes you attracted to the same sex, yet. many people think it's genetic, many people think it's environmental - your upbringing, ect.

[TheLastShadow]

uhhh....Guy and a Guy have sex? um.............. sorry but :eusa_sick?

[xRoyal15]

uhhh....Guy and a Guy have sex? um.............. sorry but :eusa_sick?
Erm... if ya not gay and dont like the topic, dont say stuff that will upset others.

Keep ya opinions to yourself :)

[extravagant]

uhhh....Guy and a Guy have sex? um.............. sorry but :eusa_sick?


Erm... if ya not gay and dont like the topic, dont say stuff that will upset others.

Keep ya opinions to yourself :)

I agree, if you're going to be immature about the situation; then take whatever sized tail you have between your legs and go away. </hypocrit>

I think its your surroundings, personally.

[You]

Being around neversoft :p

[Assid_Rane]

it cant be your surroundings or your upbringing. its just the way your born.
im personally not gay, but i do have a few gay friends + they have never been str8. its not like they woke up one day and thought "i think ill be gay from now on" they were born that way, always knew they felt different about girls than other lads did, (vise versa for lesbians).

there is proof that its not how your surroundings that make you gay, as gay people come from every culture and country, there is no constant similarity between gay people, other than the fact like like men obviousely lol.

[benjamin]

it cant be your surroundings or your upbringing. its just the way your born.
im personally not gay, but i do have a few gay friends + they have never been str8. its not like they woke up one day and thought "i think ill be gay from now on" they were born that way, always knew they felt different about girls than other lads did, (vise versa for lesbians).

there is proof that its not how your surroundings that make you gay, as gay people come from every culture and country, there is no constant similarity between gay people, other than the fact like like men obviousely lol.
where's the proof? ;) i'd like to see this. and no you don't wake up one day and think it, it happens gradually through your hormones and whilst going through puberty.

[fitcovboy]

uhhh....Guy and a Guy have sex? um.............. sorry but :eusa_sick?

That is just your opinion, sometimes it is best to keep these opinions to ones self, especially since you are on a Gay / Lesbian /bisexual forum.

[Liriel]

I knew it when I felt an emotional attraction to a Bi-sexual girl I knew and I figured out in the end that I was gay after months of putting all the pieces together.

[MusicPalace]

I'd say if you think that someone of the same sex is hot or attractive at the least and maybe if you have gay/lesbian dreams and maybe gay/lesbian fantasys.

[YoManGo!]

By my definition bi doesn't exist.

Bi would mean you're 50/50 and noone is completely 50/50.

You're either homocurious or heterocurious.

Felt like saying that.

Edited by Nixt (Forum Moderator) Accidental double posts, cause by lag, merged.