Another day, another kid.

[tekni]

Ok, so let's make a few things clear.

I'm in year 11, i'm 6'1".

I was walking home with my mate, and this kid rides into the back of my legs, so I turn round and call him a ***** - Ok, so he rides at the side, and then rides into me again - I kicked his bike away from me.

He rides a metre or two and then gets off his bike and walks up to me all big n' 'ard and grabs me, pushing me around saying 'you what' 'you what' 'you *****'. I grab him and shove him against a wall and tell him to stop acting a fool. I held him off for around a minute and pushed him away so he swung for me. I dodged his punch and hit him back in the head.

He runs at me so I grab him and trip him up - some 6th formers come and take him away at this point and someone else from my year comes running down the path and barges into me saying 'what you doin beatin' lil kids up?' - I just said that he 'started' on me.

So me and my mate walk off whilst some 6th formers bad mouth me behind my back. The little kid rides off on his bike and then turns around and says to me 'you don't know who's after you know, the hardest kid in school, my cousin' im just like 'well good for him'.

Ok, well i'm not sure whether this is just an empty threat or not because his cousin is in 6th form. If he hits me in school he'll get kicked out of 6th form - and if he hits me outside of school I shall go to the police.

This kid was in year 7 or 8.

I'm sorry to all who disagree but it doesn't matter how young/small they are - they shouldn't be cheeky twits in the first place. He shouldn't of 'started' if he knows he's going to end up the fool.

I don't care how old they are, they all should be treated the same.

This kid has been 'harrassing' me and my mates for a couple of weeks now and I just had enough basically.

I didn't want to hit him - that's the last thing I wanted to do but he kept on being persistant and swinging and pushing etc and it was the only way really.

What are your thoughts?

[Liriel]

My thoughts are that you should have the common sense of a year 11 to walk away from things like this. This could of been easily avoided with the right things said and the right things done.

Fighting just makes things worse. (So you might find out if his threat isn't empty).

[pleke]

Teach him a lesson.

[cocaine]

I'm not a violent person.

Because people can wind me up for ages, and its only if they say something that is really out of order and uneeded [SP], then I swing for them.

Like this kid, for instance, he's not even started puberty yet :rolleyes:, and he's 14. And small. And when he winds me up, and I run at him and he then legs it for his life. I really hate people like that, they do my head in. They insult you everyday, and when it comes down to it, they run for their lives.

[joshuar]

He was asking for it, children should know better than to start on Year 11's. Let him have it I say.

[Liriel]

He was asking for it, children should know better than to start on Year 11's. Let him have it I say.

So if you had a child and he was in year 7 and he didn't know what he was doing and hit a year 11 or whatnot, you would encourage the year 11 to 'Let him have it'?

[tekni]

So if you had a child and he was in year 7 and he didn't know what he was doing and hit a year 11 or whatnot, you would encourage the year 11 to 'Let him have it'?
He shouldn't of 'started'.

It could've been avoided?

Doubt it - he's persistant shoving, pushing and whatnot wouldn't end, so I ended it for him.

I'm not known to be a violent person but no matter what they're age, they should have some common sense not to 'start' in the first place.

[vibrant]

If I were you I'd have hit him too.

You did the right thing.

12 year olds and stuff think they can get away with murder now.

[Liriel]

I'm not known to be a violent person but no matter what they're age, they should have some common sense not to 'start' in the first place.

Yes, they should have, but not everyone does. Someone with an impairment (Disability) and didn't know what they was doing and you 'sorted it out for him', would that be right?

It doesn't matter if they start it or not, sorting it out by hitting the person is never the answer.

[vibrant]

Liriel, the child didn't have a disability it was just a cheeky git.

Hitting the person is sometimes the answer as it teaches them not to mess with you again :)

[Charlie]

I'm going to have to say, you should of simply ignored him and walked off, or just told him to back off and leave you alone, because by starting on him, you've got yourself some enimies [sp?] because you started on him.

You really should of just ignored him and walked on, and if he kept doing it, you should acted like you were going to hit him, but didn't actually hit him, it could of scared him off a little.

[brandon]

I would have done the exact same thing

>> He rides into you once.
You bad mouth him

>> He does it again
You threaten him

>> He is persistant at this
You hit him

What else are you gonna do? Run away and look like a loser, I mean you're not gonna hang around and let him do it or do you fight back?
:eusa_clap

[tekni]

Yes, they should have, but not everyone does. Someone with an impairment (Disability) and didn't know what they was doing and you 'sorted it out for him', would that be right?

It doesn't matter if they start it or not, sorting it out by hitting the person is never the answer.
If the kid had a disability of randomly annoying and 'starting' on people then he should never be let out of the mad house. Fortunatly, he never - so that doesn't matter does it?


I'm going to have to say, you should of simply ignored him and walked off, or just told him to back off and leave you alone, because by starting on him, you've got yourself some enimies [sp?] because you started on him.

You really should of just ignored him and walked on, and if he kept doing it, you should acted like you were going to hit him, but didn't actually hit him, it could of scared him off a little.
Does walking away work? No is the answer. You not think I tried to walk away? Push him to one side and try to walk off... no - he grabbed me again, and again, and again.

[brapbrap]

Why are you saying the child was disbaled... he deserved to be punched, your just trying to start an argumetn and stick up for someone you dont know... Anyways i dont think a 17/18/19 year old boy is going to start on a year 11 year old, it just aint worth it tbh.

[Kymux]

Just go: *BANG*

[DiscoPat]

I'm in year 11, I would of defended my self as well but maybe not hitting him, I'm a prefect so I would simply get him a hour after school + a report to headmaster
which he would need to tell him after every lesson why he was being bad if he was...

[Neversoft]

To be honest, I would have done the same thing. I hate stupid little kids that say they are 'hard' and start a fight for no reason.

'My dad will knock you out'
'I did your mum last night'

How pathetic can they get.

[PaintYourTarget]

I totally agree with you man.
The kids are like that at my school, they'll try and pick on a year11 if they have a large group and the year 11's on their own. Happened to me earlier.
I threatened to smash a year8's face into a wall, hasn't looked at me since.
Seriously, go mental on them once. So what if you get battered fighting their cousin, atleast you've taught the kid a lesson which he wont do again.

[Casanova]

My thoughts are you must be so far up Mount Ego by now, you're near to the top.

Apart from that, if this is true you were completely right as i would of done the same, i just don't see why you and your mates are bullied by one little boy?

And maybe you should watch you're 6ft 1" back now? (because of your threats?)

[Rozi]

I understand what you did and personaly I would do the same.

I know you can't just walk away after someones been trying to make you punch them for ever.

I know this sounds wrong but I hope it's not a empty threat becaue it will just stress you. Just make your friends walk around with you :D


At my last school the little Chavs were all like that so I know. Just punch them and your K :D

[PaintYourTarget]

My thoughts are you must be so far up Mount Ego by now, you're near to the top.

Apart from that, if this is true you were completely right as i would of done the same, i just don't see why you and your mates are bullied by one little boy?

And maybe you should watch you're 6ft 1" back now? (because of your threats?)
Tbh, it's never just one kid.
They gang up and try things when you're alone, they wont start if there's more than 2 guys there.
It's like that at my school.

[FrozenWhisper]

If I were you I'd have hit him too.

You did the right thing.

12 year olds and stuff think they can get away with murder now.

Hey hey! Not all of us are annoying chavs. Tbh, not much can be done. I know the guys in my year are annoying, if it was happening over afew weeks or w/e it's his own fault.

[Casanova]

That sounds crap. I've never had anything crap like that happen to me at school, i hang about in a gang of about 20. But even when there's us split up say two of us, nothing ever does happen? Sound as.

Except i have been jumped before :P

[tekni]

Except i have been jumped before :P
Havn't we all?

[fetish]

he had it coming.