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MusicPalace
10-12-2006, 05:26 PM
Ok so i've been bi for like 2 years...and now i'm pretty sure i've lost all interest in guys. I think i am a lesbian...and idk what to do because i'm like only a littel sure, but not 100% sure. Do you think i should mention it to anyone yet or just go with the flow for now?

Nixt
10-12-2006, 05:30 PM
If you're not sure you shouldn't tell anyone :].

MusicPalace
10-12-2006, 05:31 PM
so i should just go with the flow until i'm positive?

Herman
10-12-2006, 06:13 PM
If you are unsure, it's best not to tell, because you never know when it might change again. Prehaps you should wait till you're older (like 17-18) and when you're really sure, then it's up to you whether you want to come out or not.

Shadow16
10-12-2006, 08:25 PM
so i should just go with the flow until i'm positive?

I say you should just go with the flow really and see what happens . As Nixt said don't tell anyone if your unsure yet, just wait untill your positive about it. ;)

Andy?
10-12-2006, 08:29 PM
Just wait and see. If you really really believe that you don't like guys, then you can tell people.

fitcovboy
10-12-2006, 09:08 PM
Ok so i've been bi for like 2 years...and now i'm pretty sure i've lost all interest in guys. I think i am a lesbian...and idk what to do because i'm like only a littel sure, but not 100% sure. Do you think i should mention it to anyone yet or just go with the flow for now?

Go with the flow .... you have a long time ahead of you, and why brand yourself? If you are 100% sure you will never go with a guy then yes i guess your gay, but as you have doubts, then obviously you do not know the answer to that. Underneath everything you are still you a person and people should care about you as a person and not your sexuality.

Assid_Rane
10-12-2006, 09:59 PM
Go with the flow .... you have a long time ahead of you, and why brand yourself? If you are 100% sure you will never go with a guy then yes i guess your gay, but as you have doubts, then obviously you do not know the answer to that. Underneath everything you are still you a person and people should care about you as a person and not your sexuality.

thats what i was thinking.

why do you have to tell anyone anyway? if they ask, then you can just tell them your not sure. i dont see the problem with that? why cant you just tell them the truth? u dont have to wait till your 100% before you answer someone truthfully.

MusicPalace
17-12-2006, 02:42 AM
i think that telling people is showing that your proud to be you. You are you no matter what, and your sexuality is part of you, you are gay/bi and proud if you can come out to people without being ashamed. And since i'm sure i'm at least bi and proud i told people i'm bi. See what i am saying?

Anyhow thanks everyone for helping. :)

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