Sad & Upsetting Well For Me...

[3420]

You may find this pathetic but i keep finding really upseting for me can't help it either cause i'm really emotional. Yes you could call me emobut idc... But anyways my problem is basically I've went out with this girl called chantz but we've went out for 9 months and it's both our longest relationship and she keeps saying she loves me and that since she moved to coventry, we've keep trying to meet up since and she keeps bailing out =[, saying shes too nervous well.. we haven't seen each other properly since 4 months... after the relationship just ended, and now she keeps saying she loves me and wants to go out with and I say the thing but, I asked her out yesterday but now, she said I'll think about when we will meet up in coventry in feburary.. and this thing is she is really nice and cute and sweet and everything she's like my only one if you know what I mean.. I get quite upset now and again about it =[

Will get rep if helped.

[Rizla,]

Go out with someone around your area.

[English]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

You may think she's the one, but give it time and you will be moved on don't worry. Your a teenager - enjoy your singledom/casual dating while you can, cos being tied down to 1 woman is only a few years off[marriage] so don't waste teenage years lovesick over some girl.

[3420]

I guess so, But she is like the only one if you know what I mean =[

[Swastika]

Go out with someone around your area.
Basically yeah... ;)

[@K]

Get over it mate, I did, took a while but yeah, you feel great after:D

[3420]

She's my only one though if know what I ment ='[

[Browney]

She's your only one NOW.

In 2 years you'll have another "the only one."

[@K]

3420, trust me I felt exactly the same, she won't be your one and only, GET OVER IT.

Edit:1000th post

[3420]

Harsh words ¬¬ I've had 18 girlfriends in my lifetime dude, trust me she is my only one

[yessaJOSH.]

If you seriously think she is "your only one", if you love her so much ask if you can go to her house to visit and then go out together like to the cinema or whatever..

[Casanova]

If this is the same girl you've been dating for "3 years" did you know that it's at the most, a month gap between the date when you posted until today. So at the most, it's 10 months not 3 years. I won't attempt to help, as lying is pretty pathetic.