My dad

[GoldenMerc]

Well i got on the Pc a few nights ago and looked at all the things that were like been on a min ago and it was ****ography,I dont have a sister nor a brother,There were file hosts ect..I know my dad must have been on thease sites,Its not like he blocked then ether,Today i went on and pretty much the same,Every night our PC deletes all logs thease were also accessed today,Im thinking i should tell my mum but im scared she wont belive me.
Tbh if he was cheating on my mum for another lady i would tell her stright away.
I realy need a reply
Thanks
Ross
edit:
today its some more stuff this was senrt to Ostinato but i havent got a reply and i want to do something about it as fast as possible.

[Leeroy]

If your dad was only looking at '****ography' it doest mean hes cheating on your mum i suspect butttt if hes clearing all his logs then im not sure, people only clear tihngs if there hideing osmething or dont wont anyone to know. I could be rong, see what others say

[GoldenMerc]

I told my mum and she confronted him,Not sure whats happning now but hopefully they can sort things out.

[Ostinato]

Sorry but I was extremely busy over the weekend and with my resignation my pm inbox was deleted so it's likely I lost it somewhere along the way.

Well you've told her now, so I guess they will sort it from there. If your mum loves him enough and he loves her as well, then they will move on from it and put it in the past which should be good. However, you'd be surprised at the amount of adults, and teenagers, who actually view ****ography as it's seen as quite a normal and acceptable thing for many people to do in this day in age.

However, opinions vary from person to person so if you and your mother perhaps disagreed with his viewing on the internet then that's fair enough, and your mother and him and can discuss this between themselves.

What's important though, is you did what you felt was right. :)

[GoldenMerc]

Sorry but I was extremely busy over the weekend and with my resignation my pm inbox was deleted so it's likely I lost it somewhere along the way.

Well you've told her now, so I guess they will sort it from there. If your mum loves him enough and he loves her as well, then they will move on from it and put it in the past which should be good. However, you'd be surprised at the amount of adults, and teenagers, who actually view ****ography as it's seen as quite a normal and acceptable thing for many people to do in this day in age.

However, opinions vary from person to person so if you and your mother perhaps disagreed with his viewing on the internet then that's fair enough, and your mother and him and can discuss this between themselves.

What's important though, is you did what you felt was right. :)

Ta,but there married and say there only going to be with one person ect ect... so they shoulnt do that,Yeh if your a sad old man i suppose you could get away with it =] +rep to both of you.

[Lexm]

out of curiosity, what happened after she confronted him? you dont have to answer if you dont want to.

[Nixt]

I really don't see what the problem is? A lot of happily married adults look at that sort of thing... a lot of them use it to make their relationship more fun.

[YoManGo!]

That's a pretty normal thing to happen, men get a bit desperate if they don't get sex for a while and go to great lengths to satisfy that. Tbh, it's better he did that than go find another woman.

[English]

Dude, it's fine that your dad probably mastúrbates. Men are generally the more sexual anyway so we end up needing the pleasure more than the women!! Although I know alot of females are quite like that aswell hah. Hell he could have even used it to spice up the sex life with your mum;) Hell your Dad's setting a good example for you. Just say to him "Oh I see you've been on alot of **** recently" and give him a nudge or something and then see what his response is.

Edited by Nixt (Forum Moderator): please do not avoid the Forum filter, thanks :).

[Fonejacker]

IT'S DIRTY VIDEOS! NOT HEROIN LOL

You can't tell me u don't look at "Dirty Videos"

[dirrty]

watch it doesnt mean anything cause hes not doing anything wrong. he may be doing things while watching it but it doesnt mean he is cheating or w.e

ur mum may not like him doing it, or she may not mind. i dunno but really, most men around the world do it, and she knows that so yea.

is it a family pc or urs?
&& if your dad is doing things, u better be aware of the pcs environment as it may not be 100% clean due to what he may be doing,.