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MusicPalace
01-01-2007, 12:34 AM
(i feel so helpless...i'm sorry i always come to u guys for some advice lol)

the girl i like has known i like her for a few days, and the first couple days she was perfectly fine with it, but now she is freaked out by it...even tho shes bi too. Her sister has told me that she said "i bug her, i'm weird and i scare her." I've asked her if this is true, but she will not respond to me, so i have no clue at all. But now her sister is going at it with me (or at least trying, because i don't fight back over something stupid) and saying "well our dad is a cop so leave us alone." which i just reply "i've done nothing wrong, i'm not afraid you can get your dad, again i've done absoulutley nothing wrong." But still...this whole thing has gotten me tottaly confused and only a tiny bit afraid. (u know...what if there dad is actually a cop and i end up not being able to prove i did nothing wrong?) I need some help, what should i do?!

MusicPalace
01-01-2007, 06:29 PM
:( sorry to double post, but i really need help with this. Hate that i have to say it, but +rep to anyone who helps. PLZ help.

dirrty
01-01-2007, 06:32 PM
well the sister could be ** about the girl not liking you because of reasons. try to talk to the girl and see what she says, not through her sister, directly to her.

if its all true, she is not worth it. if its all a big lie from the sister, then you and the girl have a talk about the sister and what the future is for you 2

MusicPalace
01-01-2007, 06:33 PM
thanks, i plan on talking to her tomarrow. :)

Eamonn
02-01-2007, 02:01 AM
Back off, you are obviously making this girl feel uncomfortable.

Chip.Monk
02-01-2007, 10:46 AM
Yep i agree with him ^.

Also i wouldnt worry about the cop thing anyway, whats the crime you've committed?

tangochick99
02-01-2007, 10:48 AM
Have a heart to heart convo. Tell her how you really feel.

Chip.Monk
02-01-2007, 10:50 AM
I also agree with her ^.

Thats how us males and females generally think differently. Talk to her, if she isnt sure about being bi, tell her thats ok, and give her some room.

fitcovboy
02-01-2007, 02:17 PM
If she does not respond to you, i would say she does not want to know, why not just walk away? With her getting her sister involved as well it is only going to spiral, i would simply stop further contact with them, if you have their numbers, delete them, if she wants to know i am sure she will contact you, if she does contact you, it will then give you a chance of getting an explanation and thus preventing it from happening again, best it happened now before you got too involved.

MusicPalace
02-01-2007, 09:02 PM
Back off, you are obviously making this girl feel uncomfortable.
I'm going to fix this. Convo thats how


Have a heart to heart convo. Tell her how you really feel.
thank you, i will deffinatly try that. :)

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