need help ;[

[WarRock]

i fancy this lad who lives across me street and we play football togeather alot and i wanna tell him how i feel but i duno how please help.

[benjamin]

first of all, how old are you?

[WarRock]

i'm 16

[benjamin]

how old is the other guy?

sorry, but when i kinda know a bit more i can give decent advice :p

[WarRock]

he is 16 too i think he a bit younger than me by a few months

there's like a group of us going to the local field tomozz to play football and he coming along. - if that will help

[benjamin]

right ok. well has he ever dropped any hints that he could be gay or bisexual before? does anyone else know you're gay/bisexual (sorry, i don't know)? you've got to be 110% sure that if you tell him he isn't going to be put off by you as a friend, although you two are a bit older now than the usual age range who are immature about the whole gay scene, but you've got to be sure he won't react in a bad way if he is straight, or doesn't have an interest in you. also, if no one knows about you, and you don't think he could accept this or you're too scared to come out to him, and then tell him your feeling i suggest telling a good friend first, someone you know who will understand and give you good advice on what to do. i can't really determine a definate answer because i don't know the other guy who you wish to tell

i hope i helped :]

edit: this may also help http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=272428 :]

[WarRock]

right ok. well has he ever dropped any hints that he could be gay or bisexual before? does anyone else know you're gay/bisexual (sorry, i don't know)? you've got to be 110% sure that if you tell him he isn't going to be put off by you as a friend, although you two are a bit older now than the usual age range who are immature about the whole gay scene, but you've got to be sure he won't react in a bad way if he is straight, or doesn't have an interest in you. also, if no one knows about you, and you don't think he could accept this or you're too scared to come out to him, and then tell him your feeling i suggest telling a good friend first, someone you know who will understand and give you good advice on what to do. i can't really determine a definate answer because i don't know the other guy who you wish to tell

i hope i helped :]

edit: this may also help http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=272428 :]


i have known him for about 3 years now he knows i am bi but dosnt know i like him and he never droped hints to him being gay/bi. thankz for your help and i have diecided to take him for a walk after or before we have a mess round with a football and tell him if i can bring up the convidence. he probs wnt freack out that much or i could just tell his brother first ask him how he thinks he will react. thankz for your help.

[benjamin]

i have known him for about 3 years now he knows i am bi but dosnt know i like him and he never droped hints to him being gay/bi. thankz for your help and i have diecided to take him for a walk after or before we have a mess round with a football and tell him if i can bring up the convidence. he probs wnt freack out that much or i could just tell his brother first ask him how he thinks he will react. thankz for your help.
yeah, that's a good idea :] or if you found it too hard to build up the convidence to say it face to face, try saying it over msn/aim or a text message, or even on the phone.

[WarRock]

will do thankz :)