Please advise me?

[TJHughes.]

I'm Gay.
I'm living with my Nan.
I feel the need to tell her.
I'm 13.
Been like this since an insident when I was 8.
Living in Blackpool at the moment (dosent help).
Any advice?

I want to come clean, but not sure how. I don't want her telling my parents, or her friends, or her sister, or my Uncle, or my Aunt...
She's a widow though, so house is empty to tell her.. but how?

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[blah blah blah]

Your 13. youve just hit puberty. You may not be sure. lol ARE YOU SURE?:s

[TJHughes.]

Yush.

Since I was atleast 8........... and am late 13

[Moh]

You cant be %100 sure if your gay at that age, When you was 8, Its child play, At that age, you dont know that its gay, many kids at that age do get naked etc..
Depends on what u did, but it was prob just what kids do.
Do you feel more attracted to males, or if its Sex etc.. you might just like the pleasue?

[TJHughes.]

Urrm.. gettin a bit personal innit?

I've taken 14 tests getting over 60%
I had an experience at 8
And more since
Am attracted to men
Rather read GayTimes than Nuts :D

[benjamin]

tests mean jack all really.
an experience at 8 doesn't mean anything as you can barely control what you are doing.

personally i really do think you are too young to tell people yet, you have to be 100% sure, and well, if you are afraid of telling your nan you're not ready anyway.

[TJHughes.]

Truuuuuueee. Actualy I'm not scared. I just dunno how to tell her :D

I stole some of her money for membership to a **** site :D

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[benjamin]

Truuuuuueee. Actualy I'm not scared. I just dunno how to tell her :D

I stole some of her money for membership to a **** site :D
that isn't really anything to be proud of..

[dirrty]

Truuuuuueee. Actualy I'm not scared. I just dunno how to tell her :D

I stole some of her money for membership to a **** site :D
eww thats wrong. stealing her money just to watch sex and wrattle the snake? bit wrong dont u think?

just wait until ur older or just do what u want.

what kind of experience at 8? thats wayyy young to have an experience.

[TJHughes.]

His uncle joined in.. if that helps :D And if you find it sickening.. why you in this forum?

[dirrty]

His uncle joined in.. if that helps :D And if you find it sickening.. why you in this forum?
that boys uncle is a peado. seriously.

he joined in with 8 yr olds. thats nasty. seriously, i think u should tell someone.

[uh huh her]

His uncle joined in.. if that helps :D And if you find it sickening.. why you in this forum?
lol wth.
he never said it was 'sickening', he said it was wrong to nick your aunties money just to watch ****.
& wth, some guys uncle joined in??

[TJHughes.]

I think I said too much :rollseyes:

[benjamin]

His uncle joined in.. if that helps :D And if you find it sickening.. why you in this forum?
in this forum? gay/lesbian/bisexual chat? it says nothing about stealing money of your nan to watch **** on the computer, sorry but you got that wrong

I think I said too much :rollseyes:
i think you're right for once.

[TJHughes.]

Amen. . .

[dirrty]

r u serious about that kids uncle aiding in ur sexual stuff?

cause seriously, u should tell someone and if u think thats acceptable... then sos but it aint.

and if his uncle did it when u were 8 with that other kid, imagine what other stuff he is doing.

90% of child victims know their offender, with almost half of the offenders being a family member. Of sexual assaults against people age 12 and up, approximately 80% of the victims know the offender.

that uncle is a dirty old sex offender. im doing sex offenders in english atm so yea.

seriously tho tell someone

[Moh]

Depends on what age his uncle is, But its still wrong, he must of been at least 18, which is defo wrong. Its also sick, I wouldnt do it with my nethew

[danlee15]

you shoudl tell her and all ur family and be proud of wat u r