Why do people dislike Gays soo much?

[Moh]

I realy dont understand why people dont like Gays, There exacly the same as every one else, they just feel attracted to the same sex. You can still love them exacly the same as you can a girl, Maybe more?
People think Gay is just having sex with each other, buts its more about caring and loving each other. People just spoil it for Gays, by making they feel like its a bad thing etc...

[Jacada]

I am gay but I can say a large number of gay people act in inapprotiate manners towards others and thats why they are disliked so much.

They think because they're gay they can get away with allsorts.

[benjamin]

I am gay but I can say a large number of gay people act in inapprotiate manners towards others and thats why they are disliked so much.

They think because they're gay they can get away with allsorts.
mm i wouldn't go that far?

people just dislike them because they're different i guess. there isn't actually that many people who do dislike gays, most people show up infront of a group of their friends, when on their own they wouldn't do jack because they don't care.

[Moh]

but why do people call you 'Gay' to try and offend you, Its not offending at all :s

[Fonejacker]

I realy dont understand why people dont like Gays, There exacly the same as every one else, they just feel attracted to the same sex. You can still love them exacly the same as you can a girl, Maybe more?
People think Gay is just having sex with each other, buts its more about caring and loving each other. People just spoil it for Gays, by making they feel like its a bad thing etc...

Because they are gay :S Quite simple... And you can get std's and Sti's from doing gay activities right so then other people end up getting them... this is my theroy

[benjamin]

Because they are gay :S Quite simple... And you can get std's and Sti's from doing gay activities right so then other people end up getting them... this is my theroy
you can get STI/D's from any sexual activity if the other person has them.. :rolleyes:

[Roboevil]

It's just because it's different and unheard of. It'll be aeons before it's the norm, the slave trade was abolished 200 years ago yet black people are still regarded as a lesser species to some people.

[uh huh her]

some homophobic people actually have a proper phobia of homosexual people. & i guess some people just find that fancying someone of the same sex is 'weird', therefore just don't realise & face the fact that people are still the same, whether they're gay or what not. they'll always be homophobia, the same with racism etc.

[Fonejacker]

you can get STI/D's from any sexual activity if the other person has them.. :rolleyes:
Poo on Male part = infection... He then passes it on and passes it on ect

[benjamin]

Because they are gay :S Quite simple... And you can get std's and Sti's from doing gay activities right so then other people end up getting them... this is my theroy

Poo on Male part = infection... He then passes it on and passes it on ect
yeah but in your post you clearly said you can get an STD or STI from gay activity, you can get it from ANY sexual activity. and well there are condoms?

[Andeeh]

Because they are gay :S Quite simple... And you can get std's and Sti's from doing gay activities right so then other people end up getting them... this is my theroy

Hmm U Can Get Std's Via Sex With Opposite Sex

Same Probability...

And Its Up 2 Them About There Life...

I Think Gays Are Cool :eusa_danc

[uh huh her]

Poo on Male part = infection... He then passes it on and passes it on ect
you can still get std's from having sex with anyone? not only gay people get std's..

[king_maxx]

Because they are gay :S Quite simple... And you can get std's and Sti's from doing gay activities right so then other people end up getting them... this is my theroy


lol gays are idiots but they dont create all the std's but yeah homosexuality spread AIDS

I think a majority of people hate/dislike gays because it's not natural, others disagree with it because of their belief in God, others hate it because the way they act, I mean come on do you see a hetorosexual parade or perhaps a pro abortion parade. Yes people protest about abortion but they dont go running around naked across the streets like they do in my country. Me and my bud were thinking of starting an anti gay parade wouldnt that be funny :P, of course the police would stop it but u kno' would be absolutely hilarious.

[uh huh her]

lol gays are idiots but they dont create all the std's but yeah homosexuality spread AIDS
so does having a male+female relationship?
plus AIDs is also spread through someone who carries the disease having children, who're infected.
you speak alot of ********.

[Moh]

lol gays are idiots but they dont create all the std's but yeah homosexuality spread AIDS

I think a majority of people hate/dislike gays because it's not natural, others disagree with it because of their belief in God, others hate it because the way they act, I mean come on do you see a hetorosexual parade or perhaps a pro abortion parade. Yes people protest about abortion but they dont go running around naked across the streets like they do in my country. Me and my bud were thinking of starting an anti gay parade wouldnt that be funny :P, of course the police would stop it but u kno' would be absolutely hilarious.
Between you and Me, I dislike you :)
-Rep for you :)
Also, don't post in here if your not going to respect Others Sexuality.

[benjamin]

lol gays are idiots but they dont create all the std's but yeah homosexuality spread AIDS

I think a majority of people hate/dislike gays because it's not natural, others disagree with it because of their belief in God, others hate it because the way they act, I mean come on do you see a hetorosexual parade or perhaps a pro abortion parade. Yes people protest about abortion but they dont go running around naked across the streets like they do in my country. Me and my bud were thinking of starting an anti gay parade wouldnt that be funny :P, of course the police would stop it but u kno' would be absolutely hilarious.
you really **** me off.

[crans]

i dont, just dont bend over kthnx

[:Hazel]

It's just because it's different and unheard of.

Meh I diagree, I think its pretty common these days & I don't know that many people who are against gays.

[hyperlink]

i think it mostly chavs who offend gays. i personally have many gay friends who i find are better to talk to them my straight friends as they dont run round begging girls to go out with them or trying to get laid lol

[Royksopp]

it's because there diffrent just like people are racist just because of colour

[Fonejacker]

Think of it this way k:
There are no STI's And STD's So a man and a woman can have sex with out worring about STI's, Then Some man decided he wan'ts to stick his dolalaly in a mans bum. Infection is born. This is why gays are disliked

[Disento]

Lack of knowledge and understanding and possibly in some cases denial.

[benjamin]

Think of it this way k:
There are no STI's And STD's So a man and a woman can have sex with out worring about STI's, Then Some man decided he wan'ts to stick his dolalaly in a mans bum. Infection is born. This is why gays are disliked
phil that isn't true tho.

[Fonejacker]

phil that isn't true tho.
oh =[ Explain to me plzzz

[benjamin]

oh =[ Explain to me plzzz
well gay people didn't cause STI/D's, think about it AIDS & HIV have been around ages, and i expect pretty much all the other STI/D's have too, but i can't say i'm too sure. straight people get all the same STI/D's that gay people can get.

[Fonejacker]

well gay people didn't cause STI/D's, think about it AIDS & HIV have been around ages, and i expect pretty much all the other STI/D's have too, but i can't say i'm too sure. straight people get all the same STI/D's that gay people can get.
I know but think about it... A man puts his dollalaly in a womans anus hes can get a infection then passes it on and on and on and on Ect.
What eles caused it if it's not Gay intercourse?

[benjamin]

I know but think about it... A man puts his dollalaly in a womans anus hes can get a infection then passes it on and on and on and on Ect.
What eles caused it if it's not Gay intercourse?
gay intercouse is man on man, or woman on woman [lesbian, but you get my drift] and well you just said a man puts his willy in a females anus, and well that isn't gay sex..

you can get STI/D's off any kind of sexual intercouse.

[craig♥]

i think the reason gays are disliked is coz the person of the same sex is scared of then coming onto them. if you get me?

[Eamonn]

Think of it this way k:
There are no STI's And STD's So a man and a woman can have sex with out worring about STI's, Then Some man decided he wan'ts to stick his dolalaly in a mans bum. Infection is born. This is why gays are disliked
If neither of the men has a STDs/STIs then they neither of them can get one from eachother.

[benjamin]

i think the reason gays are disliked is coz the person of the same sex is scared of then coming onto them. if you get me?
i think that's true for some people, my mate used to think that lol

[Fonejacker]

gay intercouse is man on man, or woman on woman [lesbian, but you get my drift] and well you just said a man puts his willy in a females anus, and well that isn't gay sex..

you can get STI/D's off any kind of sexual intercouse.

forget it babe

[benjamin]

forget it babe
no no, do go on. if i'm getting the wrong end of the stick i'd rather be corrected :]

[Djcafc.]

its weird some people believe that it is wrong personally i think its up to the person whether they are straight or gay

[Romanity]

Because for hundreds of years its been a crime, and thought of as wrong.

Its all down to religion influencing our lives in more ways than we know.

[Markness.]

that, and some people are just narrow minded, so simple, that they can't picture two men together, kissing etc :( if you ask me, its them who have something wrong with them

[Jacada]

Ok gays don't spread HIV negroes do for those who don't understand typical terms thats black man.

Black man in africa had intercourse with a monkey (yes disgusting i know) and got the virus which originates in these chimps he then spread it around his village and as well all know black man breeds like wild fire so soon enough the virus had crept into citys/brothels etc and then immigrants with the virus immigrated to OUR lands and spread it amoung white people.

So thank the blacks for giving us this plague.

Gays in some sense do spread the virus if number one there a *****
number two they cant stick with the same partner

Reason for this is the cell lining of the anus is much thinner than the ****** and so it can break allowed infection to get into the recievers blood stream.

He then goes and has intercourse with another male and if that males bi he can spread it onto women and then women can spread it onto the people they sleep with.

Easy solution? Blame the negros.

[Fonejacker]

no no, do go on. if i'm getting the wrong end of the stick i'd rather be corrected :]
It's not you getting the wrong end of the stick, Your Proberly right but that is what i believe, And To the person that said A "Negro" Whitch is politicly wrong had intercourse with a Monkey... You have been watching to much TV, Like i said Gays are the corse for STD's And STI's

Though the Desieses were proberly caused by the Tribes in Africa has they can only have unprotected sex

[benjamin]

It's not you getting the wrong end of the stick, Your Proberly right but that is what i believe, And To the person that said A "Negro" Whitch is politicly wrong had intercourse with a Monkey... You have been watching to much TV, Like i said Gays are the corse for STD's And STI's

Though the Desieses were proberly caused by the Tribes in Africa has they can only have unprotected sex
can i just ask where you got that piece of information from? like who told you or whatever

[Fonejacker]

can i just ask where you got that piece of information from? like who told you or whatever
Just my theroy

[Naythi.]

Right !

Why Do People Always Take The Mic out of gays

and shout : Gay boy or whatever they call people

( Im BI ) And if someone says to me gay boy all i do is shout the same thing back or just ignore them !

as long as im being myself i dont care what anyone thinks !

[Wo0p!]

You are what you are. Who cares what other people think it has nothing to do with them its your life at the end of the day.

[StainCast]

When most straight people hear the words "gay, or lesbian" they automatically think of the ACT of gay/ lesbian sex. Obviously, they're gonna find this wrong and they therefore speak out about it. (some more than others) lol

Some people don't see that we're quiite capable of falling in love and starting families.

[sally37]

I havnt got no problem with gays, i have loads of gays friends. I dont seem the point that people dont like them they being themselfs.

[..LOST:..]

When most straight people hear the words "gay, or lesbian" they automatically think of the ACT of gay/ lesbian sex. Obviously, they're gonna find this wrong and they therefore speak out about it. (some more than others) lol

Some people don't see that we're quiite capable of falling in love and starting families.

whats wrong gay sex?

[StainCast]

whats wrong gay sex?

Nothing. Some people just don't like the thought of it since it's unatural.

[Moh]

So what if people have Gay Sex, I think its tight that the 'Legal' age is older than you can with Male and Female. Also, its still possible to use a condom..

[Amir]

If people feel that gays are offensive to them, it's like racism.

I do not mean the following quote racistly...

I could easily turn around and take offense to a muslim woman wearing a veil. However, she could just as easily take offense to me for being gay. However, if she said it, it wouldn't class as racism as it is just sexuallity and you have to be ready to face it. If you said it to her, you'd be in trouble as it's offending her religion.

Being gay is perfectly natural now-days. However, when someone says it, you have to be ready to take it as it's nothing strong (like racism) even though it shouldn't happen.

It makes me think, why do muscle stud's waste their sexyness being gay? They could have any woman they want out there... instead they want each other?

[benjamin]

So what if people have Gay Sex, I think its tight that the 'Legal' age is older than you can with Male and Female. Also, its still possible to use a condom..
it isn't?

[Moh]

it isn't?
Thats what I heard :S
I must of hear wrong

[uh huh her]

Thats what I heard :S
I must of hear wrong
it was.
gay sex for men; 18
hetro sex; 16
gay sex for woman; no age limit
but they changed them all to 16 in 2005 or 2006.

[Kotu]

Gay people are disliked because there is a lack of information available and a poor education on the subject, and generally, a lot of misconceptions. When it comes down to it, there isn't a problem with gay people. They are attracted to the same gender, not a big issue, just deal with it.

Anyway, about the HIV/AIDs debate. The disease originated in monkeys and subsequently it was passed onto other animals through cuts and open wounds -- infected blood from one animal entered other animals blood stream through open wounds.

The reason it passed onto humans in Africa is due to the fact they work closely with animals, many established tribes still hunt animals as a source of food, for example. If a human had any open wounds, or was attacked by another animal, they would be at risk of picking up the infection through the transfer of infected blood.

There's some chat about it passing from animal to human in Africa through bestiality, but I'd rather not believe that. I believe personally that's just an insult thrown upon African tribesmen due to racial discrimination and the appalling concept that black people are of a "lower class".

HIV/AIDs isn't just a disease singling out gay men and infecting gay men, as many people think. That's a misconception. In fact, the first reported case of the disease in America was a heterosexual male. ;)

It's passed on through transfer of blood or sexual fluids, simple as. Infected blood from an infected person enters the blood stream of a non-infected person. Whether it's passed on through cuts/open wounds, sharing needles during drug use, or sexual intercourse of any kind is another story. It can affect anyone, of any race, life style or belief, fact.

[ßrandy]

its cause we are diffrent... and people cant accpet that... im Bisexual... my self and i get teased... when i like a girl but im "okay' when im in love with a guy ***

[Krusty]

people think its a bad thing for some reason..
thats why the word 'gay' is used to offend someone

eg. 'hahaha he's gay' when the person accually ISNT.

dont know why... but from my school and where i live. being gay is a bad thing... even my dad uses the word Gay to insult people..

[-Soph-]

I guess its because it isn't "normal"?

[benjamin]

I guess its because it isn't "normal"?
it is normal, but people who are straight only know of being straight, so in their eyes it's abnormal.

[Kotu]

I was linked to this website once: http://www.borndifferent.com/

It's really good and poses a good argument. There's some media on it as well, like a video of someone asking random people "When did you decide to be straight?" and "Do gay people have a choice?". A lot of people can not come up with an answer because you don't chose how you are born, straight, gay or bisexual, you're just born that way.

Go and watch ^_^

I think people believe it's a choice because no kid turns around and says "You know what, I'm gay" because kids don't see these difference and do not realise until they're older.

[chips]

because there odd and they like to touch people

[Neversoft]

Because they're gay.
Alot of people find it to be... not quite right. I think alot of holy people dislike gays aswell. 'God created adam and eve (man and woman), not man and man, thats not how it is suppost to be' etc... I've heard someone say that before, it isnt what I've said. I don't believe in god.


it is normal, but people who are straight only know of being straight, so in their eyes it's abnormal.

It isnt normal, man and woman are meant to be one. Not man and man or woman and woman. I bet being gay wasn't around when the first humans came about, it devoloped over time.

[Test:Tube:Baby]

im not gay ( no i'm not!)

but i have nothing against gays

i wouldnt want to be one

but i dont mind if other people r :D

[RedStratocas]

It isnt normal, man and woman are meant to be one. Not man and man or woman and woman. I bet being gay wasn't around when the first humans came about, it devoloped over time.

But look at all the other things we didnt do that we do now. I agree it isnt natural, but so what? Thats one of the MILLIONS of things humans do that isnt natural.

People still dislike gays mostly because of the past generation. This generation (AKA ours) is predicted to be the most liberal of all time. Pollsters did some studies and found the kids who are most aware of political issues, most were very leftist.

[Mitch4?]

A lot of people in my school always skit the gay guy. I think it's really harsh and i know im straight. But i still think it's wrong.

I feel as if they're trying to hide something or just showing up to the crowd.

I think a lot of people don't really have a problem with gays but just feel they have to make up a false ego about them when they're around people who don't like them. Honestly gay people are just the same as straight people when it comes to friends etc. But apart from who they like in a different way. The only problem i would have with a gay person is, if they tried to come on to me and they knew i was straight. I'd shhow them into the next millenium.

[@xP]

Same in mine, i just dont bother getting involved, gays dont have anything against me and i dont have anything against them, so i just dont bother.

[@xP]

Same in mine, i just dont bother getting involved, gays dont have anything against me and i dont have anything against them, so i just dont bother.

[Smits]

I don't hate gays, the reason people do is because its high school, most people are sheep.

[Moh]

when people say Gay, they sudenly think of Sex etc.. They dont think about the emotions etc.. Been gay isnt just about Sex etc... They just dont understand. But they call you Gay to offend you :s When its kinda a complement, as your most likely of grown up unlike them.

[CrabRacket]

I hate political correctness.
People will hate other people. If a gay person upsets or puts another person in a difficult position (not being rude) then of course that persons going to want to know why! One of the persons characteristics is homosexuality. Now put all this rubbish aside anyway.

In the elizabethan times, people believed that the fairer skinned you were, the more beautifull. Even Shakespeare mentioned it in 'Much Ado About Nothing'. I guess that its grown on us. Now, we have only just changed our views so you will still see people being racist and whatever in this day and age. Give it time and it will surely go...

To be honest, I really find the feminine men really bizarre since they like to show it off. Its that confusion of genders I guess. If they are manly then you don't tend to see it because you think of it as one gender.

You have to understand that if a feminine guy hangs around another man who is straight, people may get the wrong idea, thus retaliating against this. Thats why.

Racism isn't the colour of the skin at all. At least I don't believe. Just the characteristics they take in that group.

[Moh]

Racism isn't the colour of the skin at all. At least I don't believe. Just the characteristics they take in that group.
Racism is there race, Sexism is the sex/gender so whats for sexuality?
Sexualityism

[Dan!]

i fine it funny when schools say "we stop bullying" to tell you the true school wont if it to do with you being gay. they just try and keep out of it

[Uber-Jason]

i know this could be a bit of a bump but another point is in my school people tend to use the word gay as one instead of rubbish or crap or something. Like "Oh my goodness thats so gay" I mean that kind of thing just shows the kind of atitude and doesnt really help the situation and i dont think its very fair

[Animate]

Please, shut your mouth for your own good.

We're not sterotyping you, so please stop sterotyping us as some cruel sickos who laugh at your sexuality. We don't care, you're only just making it more obvious by making note of it.

I'm aware there's the odd nutter who gets homophobic, but really? Why are you so offended? You plainly stated that gays are just like normal people, so in that case... like normal people. They can just let it go.

[-Dispute]

People act OOT..Like this guy when I was at school, on his birthday he wore like a pink banner saying 'Birthday girl' And calls himself gay dom, I dont mind gays, I dislike some of their attutudes.

[Mentor]

i know this could be a bit of a bump but another point is in my school people tend to use the word gay as one instead of rubbish or crap or something. Like "Oh my goodness thats so gay" I mean that kind of thing just shows the kind of atitude and doesnt really help the situation and i dont think its very fair

Whats wrong with useing the word gay to say somthings rubbish? Its no differnt to useing the word gay to denote sexuality o.0 In reality the word doesnt mean ether, it means to be happy. So i dont really get how you can compain that people are misusing a word if your going to be completely hypocitical and do the same thing. Gay only has sexual connotations by common usage, the its rubbish idea works the same way.

[Kieeran]

I dont have a problem with gays just don't like people talking about their gay sex in public.

[e5.]

its coz they straight which in their books is normal and when they come across and gay they are like LOL

[20fingers]

I have to admit, im pretty predujiced against the gays. Ive had bad experiences with the ones ive met, and this is coming from a bisexual. All the ones i've known have all been flamboyant in-your-face ******ness and the lesbians being bitter men hating butch feminists and if not all but two have been racist. So im pretty biased.

And most of them deny Bisexuality exisence depite homosexuality and lesbianism being denyed for so long and said to be a disease/disorder not so long ago? Double standerd much?

[lilvix2k7]

heya
i have nuffin agenst gays
im a girl and im straight
but its just thinking about 2 girls together just seems so wrong 2 me no offense 2 any1
theres nuffin wrong wiv u cos ur just normal ppl
i think its just because ur different
and i luv gay guys u can get on wid em well gd ! :eusa_danc

[MusicPalace]

i believe that most people see gays as unnormal. It mostly has to do with relegions i think. Because a man is meant to be with a woman, and it is unnormal to some people when they see a man and man or woman and woman. I guess thats just the way it is. But i also think that times are changing and that gays are being more accepted into this world, which is great. :)

[DCeption]

I dont mind gays but as AC-400 says when they go OTT about it it kind of annoys me, especially the way some talk.

Also some gays think the world is agaisnt them becuase they are gay that kind of annoys me.

[zepie]

People dont like gays because they arediffrent.

people just dont like the fact that someone is diffrent. Just like people with disablitys. People make fun of them because they are diffrent.
Everyone is human and deserves to be treated with respect.