What should I do (6)

[EverSteve]

If anyone ever been checking out my previous 'What SHould I Do', you will know that last time Im going somewhere

1 - Right, Now Im getting REALLY REALLY fed up, My Parents saw me on gay sites and they come in 'What are you doing, and turn it off and then turn of the internet for the night :|'. Then they see me on Str8 sites and suddenly it dosn't matter they just go outside the door and downstairs! Obvously they're against Bi's

2 - I started slitting my wrists a month back to see if it was true that it reviels emotions, I dont like doing it though now i proved it dose but it also makes pain. But now ive done it, at least twice a week ive got addicted to it.

3 - How Do I know if someone knows i fancy them, cause I really think this dude at school knows I fancy's his guts, but he hasn't done anything, how can i be sure

+ Rep to any people who can give me some advice cheers :).

[Jacada]

Advice: Get rid of your avatar its not good for a place like this.

Stop "cutting" yourself its a tool for attention.

Stop going on filthy websites filling your pc with viruses and doing it when parents are in.

Stop letting them think what your doing on there OWN they wont come to a good conclusion you say they know so sit them down and tell them but going on filthy websites is going to lower there opinion about you so use tact.

[fitcovboy]

Advice: Get rid of your avatar its not good for a place like this.

Stop "cutting" yourself its a tool for attention.

Stop going on filthy websites filling your pc with viruses and doing it when parents are in.

Stop letting them think what your doing on there OWN they wont come to a good conclusion you say they know so sit them down and tell them but going on filthy websites is going to lower there opinion about you so use tact.

Where did he say they were filthy virused sites? There are clean sites out there! This is a gay forum, it does not make it filthy.

Apart from that, you should stop cutting yourself, and if you are having problems stopping then you need to get some help with it.

As far as being sure if he fancies you, then you could have a conversation with him, get to lnow him better and spend time with him, i am sure if anything is going to develope it will with time.

[Browney]

Stop slitting. Slitting is the worst thing you could ever do.

Anyway, don't get rid of your avatar. You know he would'nt say that if it was a lad and a lass. Ignore that guy.

Get to know him. Get a friendship going then build on it.

[flikker]

Get to know him. Get a friendship going then build on it.
Not a good idea, if he is straight then do not change that. most bi's end up with girlfriends in the end anyway, i'm bi and i have a girlfriend, its hard to get a boyfriend if you are bi.
Stop with the slitting I'v also done this before and it got addictive, i came in to school the next morning with fresh scratches up my arm and get called a freak all the time, i can barly wear long sleaved because of this it really hurts rubbing against my arm

[Romanity]

If anyone ever been checking out my previous 'What SHould I Do', you will know that last time Im going somewhere

1 - Right, Now Im getting REALLY REALLY fed up, My Parents saw me on gay sites and they come in 'What are you doing, and turn it off and then turn of the internet for the night :|'. Then they see me on Str8 sites and suddenly it dosn't matter they just go outside the door and downstairs! Obvously they're against Bi's

2 - I started slitting my wrists a month back to see if it was true that it reviels emotions, I dont like doing it though now i proved it dose but it also makes pain. But now ive done it, at least twice a week ive got addicted to it.

3 - How Do I know if someone knows i fancy them, cause I really think this dude at school knows I fancy's his guts, but he hasn't done anything, how can i be sure

+ Rep to any people who can give me some advice cheers :).
Talk to the parents.

Take it from personal experience... cutting yourself never works. It just gets rid of the pain but you are left with scars. If you look up my arm, its just a big scar... no point. Pain from it? no s*** lol.

Well you can tell them you like them... that always sorta erm.... confirms it lol. Or just ask them straight up "Do you think I fancy you or whatever?"

Just some tips... and get rid of the avatar :)

[EverSteve]

Thanks for everyone advice :]

Well the slitting wrist ive already got councelling seeing my PARENTS said I was to young to be bi or whatever, so im gonna tell the counceller i slit my wrists when isee them one time. See how i can manage to stop

To the above dude ^^. If i said 'Do you think I fancy you or whatever', uhm that would just give it up completely

And the Avartar i change every month

[-Dispute]

If your parents dissagree then I say just tell them straight, if they still dissagree, its the shock give it time, slitting is bad but you know that, and the dude who said remove your avatar needs to mind his own just because hes not gay.

Gl

[StainCast]

Stop going on filthy websites filling your pc with viruses and doing it when parents are in.



He didn't say anything about them being "filty".. They can be gay without being filthy..

www.rainbownetwork.com (http://www.rainbownetwork.com)

www.thegyc.co.uk (http://www.thegyc.co.uk)

totally gay, no ****. They're for gay people.

[hobo]

how old are you?

cos maybe your parents are right, and it's just a phase.

[PigsNose]

Look, I know what you are going through when you are fancying this guy. It is painful isn't it?
Slitting your wrists, that isn't exactly what I did, I self harmed though. It sounded as if you were repeating my life (although I am a girl)
I am glad you are getting councelling, that is a real step and the guy, well you can get over it, but he COULD be gay. Always a possibilty.
Your parents, well they can't stop you, can they? They will have to learn to live with it.
PN x

[EverSteve]

Once again thanks for everyone helping, to the person a few lines above, Im 15 and if its a phase its avery long one ive been feeling gay since i was like 9. Loooooooool maybe im just meant for it

[PinkFM]

Once again thanks for everyone helping, to the person a few lines above, Im 15 and if its a phase its avery long one ive been feeling gay since i was like 9. Loooooooool maybe im just meant for it

If your 15 your emotions/hornmones are all over the place so it could just be a phase. I think i'm bi...but I don't truely know as I have never done anything with a guy.

But you might actually be bi, in which case get to know the guy...You never know what might happen.

[Albion]

1 - Right, Now Im getting REALLY REALLY fed up, My Parents saw me on gay sites and they come in 'What are you doing, and turn it off and then turn of the internet for the night :|'. Then they see me on Str8 sites and suddenly it dosn't matter they just go outside the door and downstairs! Obvously they're against Bi's

2 - I started slitting my wrists a month back to see if it was true that it reviels emotions, I dont like doing it though now i proved it dose but it also makes pain. But now ive done it, at least twice a week ive got addicted to it.

3 - How Do I know if someone knows i fancy them, cause I really think this dude at school knows I fancy's his guts, but he hasn't done anything, how can i be sure


1 - You shouldn't care what your parents think, if your gay..you gay theres nothing they can really do about it.

2 - Bad idea, this causes more pain and leaves marks that you will regret in the future, dont do it.

3 - This really depends on whether he is gay/bi. If he's straight, i would try not to ask him in such a way as to make him suspicious, if he finds out and he doesn't want to be gay/bi atall then he may hang around you less if you get what i mean. If he's gay then try asking him, or if you are too scared get a friend to do it.

[EverSteve]

Yep. Well I dont really know if any of my mates are bi, Because most of them know im bi and maybe they think people will get curious if they hang around me more. I dont know lool.