Would you ever plan on having sex before 18?

[F32]

Ok, the legal age for engaging in sexual intercourse is 16; but I like to think of it being 18 because that's what I class as a responsible, adult age.

Would you ever plan on having sex before 18?

[clarissa !!]

yeah......

[Axel]

Isn't the age limit 16?

[F32]

Isn't the age limit 16?
Read the post fully, not just the thread title.

[brandon]

yeah ...

[Blue]

maybe not before 16 though

[Charlie]

Isn't the age limit 16?


Ok, the legal age for engaging in sexual intercourse is 16; but I like to think of it being 18 because that's what I class as a responsible, adult age.

Would you ever plan on having sex before 18?

:rolleyes:

Accidental double posts merged by Garion (Forum Super Moderator), also - please do not post short/pointless messages, thanks :).

[MsTanya]

err i already have

[boyslikegirls]

have .

[dirrty]

dunno tbh.

i dont want no wham bam thank u mam with some random person. all depends on that person and timing and shizz

[Decapitated!]

Have before i was 16 =[ i regret it bad..

[<3]

No, I used to only believe in sex before marriage, changed my mind. It's more respectable to be able to wait a few years before you start having sexual relationships.

[Krusty]

might do.
whtever hapens. happens

[Mentor]

happens when it happens, its not somthing you would really plan for "/

[cocaine]

i doubt anyone sets themself a target to get laid before they're 18.

for me, ill just go with the flow..

[hobo]

happens when it happens, its not somthing you would really plan for "/

what he said.

but i'm assuming that by 18 i will have.

[-Soph-]

Probably would do yes..

[yessaJOSH.]

ALREADY HAVE ME :D

[benjamin]

yeaa..why? [;

[Casanova]

err i already have

Same as above.

[benjamin]

Same as above.

aha, thats a good one.

[Casanova]

I'm glad to have your approval.

[benjamin]

I'm glad to have your approval.

indeed [:

so, how much did you spend?

[Ostinato]

I had it when I was 15 - so yes.

[Flumples]

already have. not really too bothered about age, aslong as your not something disturbin, like 11... o.o


I had it when I was 15 - so yes.
o you dark horse!!! lolllll

[348GTS]

i was acctually talking about it today.

depends, only if we were going out for awhile, like 5months+ when I was like 15-16. I'd consider having sex before being 18.

[blah blah blah]

Been there done that at 15 also. And im like 15 now hahaha. :P

[dirrty]

indeed [:

so, how much did you spend?
haha. a lot

[Casanova]

indeed [:

so, how much did you spend?

twenty dolla and she make meh holla.
I spent nothing, it's obvious you think that's the way to go around getting 'it'. I pity you, normally flirting is free btw...

[FlyingJesus]

I had it when I was 15 - so yes.

Me too, good night wasn't it Al ;)

[Moh]

I havent had sex yet :(
But im hoping to before im 18 :p

[@xP]

I would i would do it At 15 no younger :)

[ColyTom]

Possibly, but definately not before 16.

[3420]

Yeah, Planning.... Nervous about it though..

[crans]

of course.. r u kidding lollolzzzz 18 year 0ld virgin!!

[GommeInc]

I only have a few weeks. Personally, if people do, let them. Why bother stopping them? Especially when they're 16 or over... I wouldn't say you need to be an adult for sex, maybe a responsible teenager? Although, if you got someone pregnant at the age of 16, there goes their chances of surviving GCSE's "/ If they can't take them.

[DiscoPat]

depends who with lol

[DCeption]

Yup, it would have to be with the right person, not some *******.

[Hoax]

YES.

makes longer.

[Crono]

Yeah, if I meet the right person.

[VINTAGE]

i hav ..bt i tink 18 is pushing it abit to far

[GJay]

Doesn't matter for me I was 17. anyway as long as you're in a situation that is loving it just feels like the right thing, then go for it.

But I have no interested in sex atm.

[MsTanya]

i know a 40yr old virgin lol

[Leeroy]

Yeahh i would :D

[Swastika]

Yeah i would.

[Jordie]

Yeah Its Definetly Gotta Be Done Before Your 12 Lol

Na Jkkzz And Yeah I Would Before 18

[beth]

yeah. i would (:

[Sly]

Doubt it.

[Mentor]

Next to no ones clicked no o.0 personly i think youd have to be a little desperate to specificaly plan somthing like that "/
Personaly i voted no since i planned nout.

[Glitter]

If it happens, it happens.

[DJ-Vimto]

i think the majority of people aren't being honest when it comes to voting on this...

i reckon the vast majority that have said they are definately gonna do it before they are [insert age] years old probably will not manage it, on here they may give the impression that they are hard as nails or w.e whereas the real truth is they are sat there at their pc thinking "oh god, what am i gonna do?!?!"

i'll b honest, i turned 19 back in october...and im still a virgin, i sense the majority of people reading this are going to stop and think "LOL@YOU what a nerd" etc etc etc, to those who are thinking along those lines....GO GET BENT!

sex is something that has never taken my interest, never found the right girl i like enough to want to do it with her, im quite happy with the way my life is right now, and im just going to wait for the right girl to come along

theres no need to treat sex as some sort of race, just take it easy and go with the flow, it'll be more enjoyable that way ;)

[+44]

I thought people didnt 'plan' these type of things one thing leads to another and it goes where it goes..

[Mentor]

i think the majority of people aren't being honest when it comes to voting on this...

i reckon the vast majority that have said they are definately gonna do it before they are [insert age] years old probably will not manage it, on here they may give the impression that they are hard as nails or w.e whereas the real truth is they are sat there at their pc thinking "oh god, what am i gonna do?!?!"

I kinda think your over genralising the internet here, to my knowledge no one here has ever attempted to appear "hard as nails", if they did the only likly responce would people would laugh at them "/
Also i thought id just point out, most males, have thought about sex, it is somthing that takes most peoples interest, whether or not they actually have it, your somewhat of an oddity if not "/

[Royal]

yeahh.

[Dan2nd]

Its not something you would really plan to be honest if your in love with someone and the time is right go for it but I'm not going to ask someone out just so I can have a one night stand and tell everyone I've had sex before 18.

[Skiller]

:D As long as she wanted it I wouldn't snap the chance up

[suburb]

Hell yeahhh. I'd have it now if I could.

[Krusty]

if it hapeens
it happens
nobody plans it..
or if they do. they r weirddddddd

[GommeInc]

I have a week to go, you can not tell how umpredictable this week maybe :P

[joshuar]

I don't feel as though I am ready, it's not the first thing on my mind.

I'll just see how things go really.

[Callum.]

depending who i'm with

[Tristan]

Depends who it is with.

[Azza]

i havnt made a plan of when i mgoing to have sex? =]
i will do so with a right person and when the times right =]

[Colin-Roberts]

i voted maybe cause who really knows w.e happens happens..

[Alterate]

You dont plan sex, it just happens when it happens

[YoManGo!]

if you plan how/when you're going to have sex, you're probably the kind of person who will have trouble losing their virginity.

[Hannybobz]

Already have :D And tbh it doesn't matter to me that I'm only 13 :D I wouldn't have done it if it was with some complete randomer like I would if I was older but as long as you're in love it doesn't matter how old to me :D

[F32]

It's amazing, that many people who said 'You don't really plan sex'.

Because, the majority voted yes.

[GommeInc]

Do you mean plan as in "Hey hunny, let's have sex Tuesday at 5 o'clock and do this *insert sexual activity here*."

Because if so, I read somewhere that planned sex is boring, it has to be done on the spot for it to be good ;) However, you can plan what ages, because that comes under self-morals and actions.

[F32]

I mean plan as in morally.

You know like, you have aims in life like 'I want to be married before i'm 24' and such - like that.

Not like, phone up your partner and say 'Next tuesday, 5pm sharpish' because that's wrong :P

[Mentor]

Meh, i dont belive in planning, so i still stick by my "i plan nothing" orignal comment and vote.
Personaly i dont have any aims like "i want to be married by 24" "i want to have a job as this that or the other by bla bla" or "i want to have done this by some age" etc.
I go with the flow and do things when the circumstances arrise.

[Hannybobz]

Do you mean plan as in "Hey hunny, let's have sex Tuesday at 5 o'clock and do this *insert sexual activity here*."

Because if so, I read somewhere that planned sex is boring, it has to be done on the spot for it to be good ;) However, you can plan what ages, because that comes under self-morals and actions.

I catch yyour drift with that... but does it count if your going to ther house n u no ur blatantly gonna? Lmaoo! Or you might say sumthinkk like "Fancy comin round? Free house ;) So we can..." etc ;p

[^.^]

Ok, the legal age for engaging in sexual intercourse is 16; but I like to think of it being 18 because that's what I class as a responsible, adult age.

Would you ever plan on having sex before 18?
i'm 16 myself i feel responsible :o

[Porosity]

I kinda think your over genralising the internet here, to my knowledge no one here has ever attempted to appear "hard as nails", if they did the only likly responce would people would laugh at them "/
Also i thought id just point out, most males, have thought about sex, it is somthing that takes most peoples interest, whether or not they actually have it, your somewhat of an oddity if not "/

Thats true, when you are beginning to hit puberty and your hormones are racing and developing, one of the major things you think about are sex.

[zepie]

i think, if sex is done responibly (with protection) it should be alowed to be done at 14+, cuz all hormonal boys think about are sex.

Giv them something to enjoy ;)

[PS2.]

If the legal age is 16, why aren't there 16 year old **** stars -.- Anyway its 18 here lol.

[asher_]

i think, if sex is done responibly (with protection) it should be alowed to be done at 14+, cuz all hormonal boys think about are sex.

Giv them something to enjoy ;)

let me guess, you're 14?

14 yr olds aren't educated enough.

[T0M]

i think, if sex is done responibly (with protection) it should be alowed to be done at 14+, cuz all hormonal boys think about are sex.

Giv them something to enjoy ;)

I aint 14 before you say so :P but i agree with this dude, if its responsible should be personal choice not a government choice =)

im 15 and virgin btw =)

[Browney]

I wouldn't plan on it but if I really felt that way about someone and could be responsible enough about it then of course.

[mangle]

Im not going to go around trying to get laid before 18 but if a girl comes along and we're serious im not going to wait around.

[Energizer]

Im not going to go around trying to get laid before 18 but if a girl comes along and we're serious im not going to wait around.

what he said ^

[wishing]

the reason the age is 16+ is cos girls cervix's havent matured properly until round about then so having sex in adolecent years can cause cervical cancer.. I AM BARE BRAINY.

o and also for legal reasons cos of rape etc.

[sl4rtzz]

Not sure tbh

Btw when was it legal to have sex @ 16? :S i was told by my mum that my dad had to wait till he was 18 for it lmao

[Cool--]

depends if i find the right person and if were up for it n stuff :D

[The Professor]

I see no problem as long as its not just a random person who you met 10 mins ago. If you actually like/love the person and you have the necessary precautions, go for it.

As long as its not like under 12, thats just wrong ;)

[uh huh her]

yeh, but not with someone i hardly know.

[StripedTiger]

personally yes, if it was with the right guy etc. i wouldnt just throw my virginty away when im 17 and 364 days old, just so i lose it before i turned 18 xD

[Juch]

yeh, but not with someone i hardly know.
^ same.

[le harry]

yer...

[PlebHead]

Does it matter how old you are ?

Just aslong as your mature enough and its with the right person...

[cocaine]

no lol..

[Cwmbran]

Maybe, depends if I find someone I'm serious about.

[:Liam]

If I meet the right person yes but im not gonna just have sex before 18 because I can.

[-Dispute]

I wouldn't say I planned it, it just happend when the time was right, it wasn't like I wanted to for years but my GF wasn't ready, never even mentioned it. I was 16 so I think thats an OK age, I think before then is just silly because there just doing it to be cool, my mates didn't know I did it until my GF was ready to tell people...

[Mentor]

the reason the age is 16+ is cos girls cervix's havent matured properly until round about then so having sex in adolecent years can cause cervical cancer.. I AM BARE BRAINY.

o and also for legal reasons cos of rape etc.

o.0 actually its the purely practical reason its when you leave compulsory education, statistically i believe most females have fully matured by around 13?, of cause with the normal variants, 8,12 to 18, 20, 25 etc, it varies quite widely really "/

[kerychuk]

It would depend on the person