sim
20-01-2007, 12:00 PM
Am I gay/lesbian/bisexual?
Well this is for you to decide. But there are ways to find out or to help make you feel more secure about your sexual orientation. Some tell-tale signs that you may be either gay, lesbian or bisexual is that, when you talk to people of the same sex, you find yourself quite shy. Your eyes may be wondering around in the worry that you might actually give someone eye contact. You may also find yourself 'really wanting to be like' someone of the same sex (much like a role model) which may later actually turn into something far more sexual.
*You might find yourself being less interested in those of the opposite sex.
*You might enjoy talking about things that are often branded as 'dirty' with other people of the same sex.
*You might find that you can relate better to people of the opposite sex and that they become some of your best friends.
My best friend (of the same sex) kissed me! Does this make me Gay/Lesbian/Bi?
The simple answer is no. However, this could be the start of your realisation of you actual sexual orientation. Basically, if it felt right and you enjoyed it (although you still might not be gay/lesbian/bi) there is a chance that you could be gay/lesbian/bi.
I am sure that I am gay/lesbian/bi and I want to tell people. What should I do?
Do remember before 'coming out' that there has to be a reason for it. If there is no reason for it and you go around saying 'I am gay, I am gay...hello world I am gay' then people will most probably think that you are attension seeking. Also remember that in this 'multi-cultural' society, in which we live, not everyone will agree with homosexuality and alot of this has been spawned from religions. Just remember that you are who you are and no-one can change you.
(For more information on coming out read lube's thread for advice -Click Here (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=272428))
My religion says that 'homosexuality is wrong'. What should I do about this?
Remember that you are normal. I myself have suffered from this due to my (now ex-religion) religion's view was that taking part in any sexual act with a person from the same sex is a sin. Religions have been going around for years (thousands) and things in society have changed alot. Today's society is a lot more liberal and accepting of gay/lesbian/bi people and I am sure that if your religion's main source of literature was written today its views/beleifs and teachings would be very different.
Homosexuality isn't natural. Or is it?
I can assure you now that there are so many people in the world that are gay/lesbian/bi that it has to be natural. Many people will say 'we were put on this planet to be fruitful and multiply' (aka have children) and therefore as gay/lesbian people cannot reproduce, it is not natural. This is not true.
*History books state that homosexuality and bisexuality goes as far back as the roman times and even Julius Caesar (a roman emperor) has affairs with other men.
*Zoologists (people who study animals) have found many homosexual relationships in animals (literally the natural world),most recently a couple of gay lions having sexual relations in Africa.
I need some more advice! Where do I go?
There are plenty of websites on the internet offering advice, if you are sexually confused.
Remember to try and stay away from ones that are orientated around the religion or are particularly anti-homosexuality as they will not help you.
(e.g. www.godhatesfags.com is not a good place to go for advice)
Specific websites and their URL's can be found in Col's thread. Click Here (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=131950) to go there.
Please remember that homosexuality is not wrong. And you should be yourself. If you have any more questions, I would be happen to answer them and add them to this thread.
Thanks.
Simeon.
Well this is for you to decide. But there are ways to find out or to help make you feel more secure about your sexual orientation. Some tell-tale signs that you may be either gay, lesbian or bisexual is that, when you talk to people of the same sex, you find yourself quite shy. Your eyes may be wondering around in the worry that you might actually give someone eye contact. You may also find yourself 'really wanting to be like' someone of the same sex (much like a role model) which may later actually turn into something far more sexual.
*You might find yourself being less interested in those of the opposite sex.
*You might enjoy talking about things that are often branded as 'dirty' with other people of the same sex.
*You might find that you can relate better to people of the opposite sex and that they become some of your best friends.
My best friend (of the same sex) kissed me! Does this make me Gay/Lesbian/Bi?
The simple answer is no. However, this could be the start of your realisation of you actual sexual orientation. Basically, if it felt right and you enjoyed it (although you still might not be gay/lesbian/bi) there is a chance that you could be gay/lesbian/bi.
I am sure that I am gay/lesbian/bi and I want to tell people. What should I do?
Do remember before 'coming out' that there has to be a reason for it. If there is no reason for it and you go around saying 'I am gay, I am gay...hello world I am gay' then people will most probably think that you are attension seeking. Also remember that in this 'multi-cultural' society, in which we live, not everyone will agree with homosexuality and alot of this has been spawned from religions. Just remember that you are who you are and no-one can change you.
(For more information on coming out read lube's thread for advice -Click Here (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=272428))
My religion says that 'homosexuality is wrong'. What should I do about this?
Remember that you are normal. I myself have suffered from this due to my (now ex-religion) religion's view was that taking part in any sexual act with a person from the same sex is a sin. Religions have been going around for years (thousands) and things in society have changed alot. Today's society is a lot more liberal and accepting of gay/lesbian/bi people and I am sure that if your religion's main source of literature was written today its views/beleifs and teachings would be very different.
Homosexuality isn't natural. Or is it?
I can assure you now that there are so many people in the world that are gay/lesbian/bi that it has to be natural. Many people will say 'we were put on this planet to be fruitful and multiply' (aka have children) and therefore as gay/lesbian people cannot reproduce, it is not natural. This is not true.
*History books state that homosexuality and bisexuality goes as far back as the roman times and even Julius Caesar (a roman emperor) has affairs with other men.
*Zoologists (people who study animals) have found many homosexual relationships in animals (literally the natural world),most recently a couple of gay lions having sexual relations in Africa.
I need some more advice! Where do I go?
There are plenty of websites on the internet offering advice, if you are sexually confused.
Remember to try and stay away from ones that are orientated around the religion or are particularly anti-homosexuality as they will not help you.
(e.g. www.godhatesfags.com is not a good place to go for advice)
Specific websites and their URL's can be found in Col's thread. Click Here (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=131950) to go there.
Please remember that homosexuality is not wrong. And you should be yourself. If you have any more questions, I would be happen to answer them and add them to this thread.
Thanks.
Simeon.