FlyingJesus
22-01-2007, 01:38 AM
K, so basically there's this girl who I'm proper into (and it's not just an "oh she looks ok" sort of thing, I've only ever liked two people this much and the first was my ex of 14 months), and there's a couple of complications.
Up until fairly recently she was with my best mate, and all through that I liked her too, but now they've broken up and he's moving on, so I don't think he'd mind too much once he gets hold of the idea - he's not much of a romantic and he's already moving in on someone else.
However, another ex has suddenly come back into the picture. I don't see the attraction of him myself, but she's apparently quite into him, and he's started saying he likes her again too. Now this guy is a friend of mine but I'm a bit of a b*****d when it comes to friends, 'cause I enjoy putting myself first, so that's not a problem. The problem is that she's into me too (we flirt all the time and she knows that I like her but doesn't distance herself at all, which I take as a good sign) but I don't know which of us she likes more.
She's not a ho or anything, but I've been thinking: if I meet up with her and up ending getting with her in some way, I'm sure that would settle her mind because tbh I'm massive and know what I'm doing in that department. Now, stud as I am I haven't had much experience in actually going for the pull (before I've been the one who's been come onto), so any chaps who have, do you reckon it's a good idea?
Don't say any crap about the other guys being mates, or about the relationship being all about sex, because it wouldn't be, I'm just wondering if it's a good idea to use sexuality as a stepping stone to her heart. Everyone likes to have a screamer and it just seems logical to me that if I make her come like a steam engine she'll probably quite like me.
Up until fairly recently she was with my best mate, and all through that I liked her too, but now they've broken up and he's moving on, so I don't think he'd mind too much once he gets hold of the idea - he's not much of a romantic and he's already moving in on someone else.
However, another ex has suddenly come back into the picture. I don't see the attraction of him myself, but she's apparently quite into him, and he's started saying he likes her again too. Now this guy is a friend of mine but I'm a bit of a b*****d when it comes to friends, 'cause I enjoy putting myself first, so that's not a problem. The problem is that she's into me too (we flirt all the time and she knows that I like her but doesn't distance herself at all, which I take as a good sign) but I don't know which of us she likes more.
She's not a ho or anything, but I've been thinking: if I meet up with her and up ending getting with her in some way, I'm sure that would settle her mind because tbh I'm massive and know what I'm doing in that department. Now, stud as I am I haven't had much experience in actually going for the pull (before I've been the one who's been come onto), so any chaps who have, do you reckon it's a good idea?
Don't say any crap about the other guys being mates, or about the relationship being all about sex, because it wouldn't be, I'm just wondering if it's a good idea to use sexuality as a stepping stone to her heart. Everyone likes to have a screamer and it just seems logical to me that if I make her come like a steam engine she'll probably quite like me.