Big Problem [Sex Issue]

[3420]

Right, I'm meeting my girlfriend right... on valentines day... Well lets say she wants to go all the way.. I'm really scared if I get HER pregnant say if the condom was ''*****ed''.. anyways.. She said she wants to feel me up and that in the cinema ¬¬... And i'm really scared if i do have sex with her if i hurt her because she is a virgin aswell... .. One of the problems are that she wants to do it in the toilets what is a very bad place.. I don't know where to do it or what... Plus i can only stay in the city centre.. coventry if you been there.. If any of you girls have had sex before... How many seconds did it hurt when your membrane popped? Because i'm worried, if i'll hurt her aswell =[

[Krusty]

obv. she doesnt hav a clue about it.

[FlyingJesus]

Dude if she's wanting to play around in the cinema and then get ravaged in the toilets she's probably not a virgin.

[velocity]

"I'm really scared if I get pregnant"

dude, your a bloke?

[3420]

Dude if she's wanting to play around in the cinema and then get ravaged in the toilets she's probably not a virgin.
She is a virgin dude, i've been with her for 3 years..

[Dentafrice1]

If your a guy how are you going to get pregnant?

Be like me.. pork her in the street.

[FlyingJesus]

If your a guy how are you going to get pregnant?

Be like me.. pork her in the street.

You porked his girlfriend in the street?

[3420]

If your a guy how are you going to get pregnant?

Be like me.. pork her in the street.
**get her preganant sorry.

[Dentafrice1]

Ok get a good condom.

[3420]

i'm worried if it's got a hole in it or if it's messed up?

[-Soph-]

I wouldn't do it in the toilets if I was you..

& its v.rare for a condom to split.

[3420]

I wouldn't do it in the toilets if I was you..


what will be the best place then in a city centre car park?

[Charlie]

what will be the best place then in a city centre car park?

The best place would be your bed, its comfy, no chance of getting caught by passer by, who will probably report you.

[Dentafrice1]

No i didnt pork her in the street.. just an idea..

Im in the USA so I would do it in my bed.. or in the back of my love wagon

[Casanova]

I'd take her home, meet the parents, say we're doing homework (the old cliche) and lock the door, get down to business.
Mate, there's a 97% rate of condom effective-ness...

[3420]

I'd take her home, meet the parents, say we're doing homework (the old cliche) and lock the door, get down to business.
Mate, there's a 97% rate of condom effective-ness...
Lmao... No offence but the most risky idea I've heard xD

[Casanova]

Why, do your parents cut open your door if you ignore it? Maybe you should stop and think if you're seriously ready, you might be over-sensitive or something but my god you sound as if you're going to have a triple-bypass. It's only intercourse, relax and let it happen. If you plan it, it'll just go wrong.

You just don't sound ready.

[Smits]

If your worried about a condom having a hole in, try buying a new one instead of a used one. Its worth a try. Your girl sounds like a *****

[Axel]

Say you're doing oral homework where you have to make noises of pleasure.

[OMGitsaROSS]

Mate, don't do it if you are sounding like that. Im 14 and I am not at all afraid of it. It is natural ya know, whatever happens, happens.

[Casanova]

People should stop harassing women, guys get called a hunk or at least get a status that makes them infamous, but they're not persecuted like females are. If a girl is slightly frisky she get's called a low low women, in other words. I personally see it as, no matter what we all have needs that need furfilled at some point, so let it be and pull off your slippers Grampa and chill!

And if he's using a used condom, that's just absolutely disgusting. Go to your local family planning clinic and get free condoms?

[OMGitsaROSS]

Yea well said +REP <3

[Moh]

its v.rare for a condom to split.
There goes my excuse :(
Anyways, If i was u DONT do it in the cinima THINK OF THE CHILDREN, Take her home or go to her place, and do it there. Or do double Douch?? Thats where shes on the pill, and u use a condom. Also, its not just to stop her from getting pregnant, its the sexual transmited diseaes such as clamidia (lol @ yr 9 where some ppl came in, and said to some boys do u wana meet clamidia (Thinking she was a good looking girl).
Anyways, How old are you? I wd say tell her your not redy, but theres consiquenses for that :(

[Mitch4?]

Isn't it 99.8&#37; of a comdom splitting from a good brand. Seeing as the average male sleeps with only 14 women in his lifetime. I doubt there's that many people it'll split on. Unless your a pimp in which case you won't use comdom most of the time and expect them to be on the pill

[3420]

14... my age is
Plus, I'll probably buya condom out of acondom machine anyways probally durex..
I'm not going to use allready used condom thats desucsting and trampy...

[Axel]

14... my age is
Plus, I'll probably buya condom out of acondom machine anyways probally durex..
I'm not going to use allready used condom thats desucsting and trampy...

How about if you're buying it at like Tesco's and say to your Dad 'brb toilet' and go to the toilet, and you use the condom machine and your girlfriend's dad walks in and is like 'what the hell are you doing mate' ?

[MsTanya]

your gf sounds like a right game ****

[velocity]

How about if you're buying it at like Tesco's and say to your Dad 'brb toilet' and go to the toilet, and you use the condom machine and your girlfriend's dad walks in and is like 'what the hell are you doing mate' ?

"im playing this game, got a new highscore."

[@xP]

i'm worried if it's got a hole in it or if it's messed up?

Rofl, im doubting that

[Krusty]

you dont have to plan it... thats just weird.


so your 14. and uv been with ur girlfriend for 3 years. since you were 11?!

[edible]

14... my age is
Plus, I'll probably buya condom out of acondom machine anyways probally durex..
I'm not going to use allready used condom thats desucsting and trampy...
Your underage anyway..:s Dont use a used condom that's disgusting, and why bu one when you can go to a family clinic or your doctors or something? If you're not ready, tell her, tho there could be consequences, and she must be dirty minded if she's wanting to have sex in public toilets or a cinema..or touch u up in public..:rolleyes:
Also, DUREX;)

[cocaine]

you can tell she's not a virgin if she wants to do it in the public toilet?

ew.

[edible]

lol i agree with matt.
eurgh.

[Ostinato]

First of all, from your posts I'd like to say I definetley do not think your ready to be having a sexual relationship with your girlfriend.

It is great you have been together for 3 years like you say, and you must trust each other greatly by now etc. However, why must you have sex? If your relationship is fine as it is and has been succesful for 3 years, then why must sex all of a sudden be a big issue and be part of it? :S

If you are having sex with your girlfriend or plan to, I suggest you both talk about. You need to both discuss any consequences which could arise, as you are obviously so scared of, and talk about how you would deal with each situation if they ever came about. For instance, what would both of you do if she fell pregnant? There's no use panicking about it afterwards, as if you are in a serious relationship and are contimplating intercouese you should have discussed it and agreed on a plan before hand.

Also, I don't really understand why you are worried the "condom would have a hole". Unless you are buying a really cheap make from someone off the market or something, lol, I doubt very much there would be a hole. There is government legislations which ensure condoms are all produced to a certain safety standard - therefore you would never purchase one with a hole in it. However, there is a slight chance that it could before or during intercourse and therefore your girlfriend could become pregnant. This is an issue I suggest you both discuss.

I also strongly suggest, as it is your first time you don't do it somewhere like you have mentioned. Having sex in the cinema, or in the park is clearly not a very romantic, hygenic or simply safe place to have sex. I suggest you try and simply find a moment where you can be in a safe and warm house away from any dangers, where things can happen naturally - rather than it being some rushed fumble in a park.

If your girlfriend is saying she wants to do all this with you in the pictures, then I'm sorry but if you are willing to - and her - then you obviously don't have very high standards of yourself - in my opinion. It is simply obscene and generally uncalled for to have sex in the cinema, and as it is your first time I don't understand why you would want to? Most people want their first time to be somewhere special.

Also, if your worried about hurting your girlfriend then you should discuss this with her. Some girls feel pain, others don't. For some the pain is too much and they need to stop, whereas other's it's only to begin with. Some girls infact actually bleed. You should discuss all this before hand and decide what you would do. For instance, agree that you will take it slowly and gently to begin with so she can get used to the feeling, and if it is too painful then you simply stop.

I am quite shocked that you felt the need to post here asking such questions if your considering having intercourse with someone. These are the sort of simple questions and issues I discussed with my girlfriend straight away when we were thinking of become sexually active with each other.

I strongly recommend you hold off for a few months and take some time to research the problems that could occur and the issues involved, and discuss them with your girlfriend. :)

[@K]

If you are going to bang her in the public loo use the girls ones, much cleaner:P

[edible]

lol +rep {:

[+44]

First of all, from your posts I'd like to say I definetley do not think your ready to be having a sexual relationship with your girlfriend.

It is great you have been together for 3 years like you say, and you must trust each other greatly by now etc. However, why must you have sex? If your relationship is fine as it is and has been succesful for 3 years, then why must sex all of a sudden be a big issue and be part of it? :S

If you are having sex with your girlfriend or plan to, I suggest you both talk about. You need to both discuss any consequences which could arise, as you are obviously so scared of, and talk about how you would deal with each situation if they ever came about. For instance, what would both of you do if she fell pregnant? There's no use panicking about it afterwards, as if you are in a serious relationship and are contimplating intercouese you should have discussed it and agreed on a plan before hand.

Also, I don't really understand why you are worried the "condom would have a hole". Unless you are buying a really cheap make from someone off the market or something, lol, I doubt very much there would be a hole. There is government legislations which ensure condoms are all produced to a certain safety standard - therefore you would never purchase one with a hole in it. However, there is a slight chance that it could before or during intercourse and therefore your girlfriend could become pregnant. This is an issue I suggest you both discuss.

I also strongly suggest, as it is your first time you don't do it somewhere like you have mentioned. Having sex in the cinema, or in the park is clearly not a very romantic, hygenic or simply safe place to have sex. I suggest you try and simply find a moment where you can be in a safe and warm house away from any dangers, where things can happen naturally - rather than it being some rushed fumble in a park.

If your girlfriend is saying she wants to do all this with you in the pictures, then I'm sorry but if you are willing to - and her - then you obviously don't have very high standards of yourself - in my opinion. It is simply obscene and generally uncalled for to have sex in the cinema, and as it is your first time I don't understand why you would want to? Most people want their first time to be somewhere special.

Also, if your worried about hurting your girlfriend then you should discuss this with her. Some girls feel pain, others don't. For some the pain is too much and they need to stop, whereas other's it's only to begin with. Some girls infact actually bleed. You should discuss all this before hand and decide what you would do. For instance, agree that you will take it slowly and gently to begin with so she can get used to the feeling, and if it is too painful then you simply stop.

I am quite shocked that you felt the need to post here asking such questions if your considering having intercourse with someone. These are the sort of simple questions and issues I discussed with my girlfriend straight away when we were thinking of become sexually active with each other.

I strongly recommend you hold off for a few months and take some time to research the problems that could occur and the issues involved, and discuss them with your girlfriend. :)

Agreed but why when i search for "Homework" it comes up with this post ill never know.

Anyway good luck with whatever you decide :)

[yessaJOSH.]

Ostinato is right, nice speech mate. :D

[VINTAGE]

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[Naythi.]

Well my gf is 16 And im 15 , , , Shes not a virgin but i am . . . .
I dont wont to go all the way with her because i feel nervous and scared !

Call me a whimp if you want but i dont care , My mate said theres nothing to worrie about , But just use protection and once you get started you will love every mineut of it !

Im just afraid !
do you think i should try having sex with a virgin before her

i dont mean cheat on her but like finish with her , To get practice ?

[VINTAGE]

no thts just stupid just go 4 it wen ur ready

[DJ-Vimto]

as it happens, i know who the maker of this thread is, at least i think i do anyway, seeing as someone i know on msn talked about a very similar thing :o

anyway, i know that his girlfriend is *******, ****, or whatever you want to call her, shes a genuinely nice person, as is the person who made this thread whos name i wont mention.

he knows my views on the situation, so i will not bother posting them, i just hope that they have come to a sensible decision about this.

[plastiKKstars]

dont romp her if you dont feel like it,
or if you're too nervous
only romp someone when the time is right :]

[Shawnstra]

Lmao at this:


Say you're doing oral homework where you have to make noises of pleasure.

[!:Joe:!]

"im playing this game, got a new highscore."

Hhahaha, i'd say that.

[brandon]

Agreed but why when i search for "Homework" it comes up with this post ill never know.

Anyway good luck with whatever you decide :)
It's because someone said about saying they have oral homework where they have to make sounds of pleasure.

[DJ-Ali]

How come a few of the people posting on this Forum about having first time sex are under age?

[-Soph-]

How come a few of the people posting on this Forum about having first time sex are under age?

Because most people are underage when they first have sex?

[DJ-Ali]

Because most people are underage when they first have sex?Yeah they prob do in America.
Not sure about us Britains.
I need to do research.

[Jamie!]

Yeah they prob do in America.
Not sure about us Britains.
I need to do research.

its like that everywhere..

[3420]

Okai, this problem has been sorted out ages ago.. now..
I think a mod needs to lock this this thread

[DJ-Ali]

Lol did you do it? Just wondering?

[3420]

Nah, We needed a place... But We did went quite sexual :P

[,Almighty-x]

Just use a Durex long lasting one...