Should i meet her in person? [Archive]

MusicPalace

29-01-2007, 02:54 AM

There is this girl and she lives very close. I met her on myspace through my friends friends. We are dating now and she would like to come over. But i am not sure if i should have her come over, seeing as i did meet her online. I really like this girl alot, but am not sure what to do! What do you think i should do? Should i meet her in person or not?

BL!NKEY

29-01-2007, 03:02 AM

Uhh you are dating.

You should probably have real contact with her then.

Maybe talk to her on the phone or video chat with her so you know she is who you think she is.

And dont meet up in a dark ally.

Meet in a public place.

boyslikegirls

29-01-2007, 04:07 AM

Uhh you are dating.

You should probably have real contact with her then.

Maybe talk to her on the phone or video chat with her so you know she is who you think she is.

And dont meet up in a dark ally.

Meet in a public place.
took the words out of my mouth

Redmoon Evil

29-01-2007, 04:16 AM

How can you be dating not having gone on a date? and ye get he over, nice to meet you irl ^_^.

Blinger1

29-01-2007, 05:54 AM

EDATING!

get protection ready incase its a guy :(

benjamin

29-01-2007, 07:30 AM

i'd meet her

only if you're SURE she is who she says she is

iv'e met loads of people online, it's no big deal.

-L!NK!N-P@RK-

29-01-2007, 10:46 AM

Like some of the others said, dont meet unless your totally sure that everything will be ok.

Get proof of who your talking to, pictures wont do, video, voice, that stuff, the pictures could be gotten from anywhere.

Then you can meet, and everything should work out fine.
Good luck with everything.

Blinger1

29-01-2007, 10:56 AM

Like some of the others said, dont meet unless your totally sure that everything will be ok.

Get proof of who your talking to, pictures wont do, video, voice, that stuff, the pictures could be gotten from anywhere.

Then you can meet, and everything should work out fine.
Good luck with everything.
England is a small country, USA is much bigger, and i am almost certain it has more peados than england ;)

Imagine

29-01-2007, 11:43 AM

yeah, england has loads of pedos, we dont put them in jail anymore because theres no room :rolleyes:

Fonejacker

29-01-2007, 04:39 PM

i'd meet her

only if you're SURE she is who she says she is

iv'e met loads of people online, it's no big deal.
Meet me? I can show u fun...

benjamin

29-01-2007, 04:40 PM

Meet me? I can show u fun...
kk then!

Charlie

29-01-2007, 04:43 PM

Your dating, so it would be a nice idea to meet up in real life, just make sure it's all planned out carefully and it's a public place. And, then make sure that you know she is a who she says she in by taking over phone and pictures and cam and stuff like that.

Fonejacker

29-01-2007, 04:43 PM

kk then!
when and where, Ill be ther

-Soph-

29-01-2007, 05:25 PM

yeah you should, use webcam and mic first of all to make sure she is who she says she is.. and meet her in a crowded place and you'll be k ;]

DiscoPat

29-01-2007, 08:07 PM

Dont laugh but, get a spoon with you..

MusicPalace

30-01-2007, 08:20 PM

Thanks all for the help. I'll have a talk with her on the phone and see her face on cam first. I was figuring since she was on my friends friends myspace i wouldn't need to worry so much, but saftey first! :P Thank you all so much. :)

Papershop

30-01-2007, 10:28 PM

Im not sure you can justify whether you like someone after youve meet them online. You dont really no the person that well, so why date when youve never actually met?
And go with a friend, as her to go shopping with you and your friend or something?

Neversoft

30-01-2007, 10:44 PM

If I was in your position, I wouldn't meet her.

crans

30-01-2007, 10:45 PM

Yes, why not if you rly know her?

lol.

Axel

30-01-2007, 10:48 PM

I met this girl off myspace and MSN who lived near me and went out with her, I'm sure it'll be fine.

crans

30-01-2007, 10:54 PM

I met this girl off myspace and MSN who lived near me and went out with her, I'm sure it'll be fine.

shame thats all you did was meet :]

Axel

30-01-2007, 10:56 PM

shame thats all you did was meet :]

I mean I met her on like the internet, and then I went out on dates if you like a few times.

MusicPalace

01-02-2007, 01:35 AM

:eusa_wall nevermind we just broke up :(

F32

01-02-2007, 07:15 PM

:eusa_wall nevermind we just broke up :(
Yeh totally, go meet her.

-L!NK!N-P@RK-

01-02-2007, 10:52 PM

:eusa_wall nevermind we just broke up :(

Why did you break up?

MusicPalace

02-02-2007, 12:48 AM

i'd rather not talk about it, sorry. :(

the wombats

02-02-2007, 01:07 AM

did you ask to see her on cam and then the pedo realised you were thinking so he dumped you? pretty stupid e-dating. meet someone u know in rl

simon!

02-02-2007, 01:21 AM

get protection ready incase its a guy :(

LMAO! That made me chuckle, well if you've broken up with her now it doesn't matter :)

Blinger1

02-02-2007, 10:05 AM

no.. shes a he!!

:Hazel

02-02-2007, 10:12 AM

all i would say is be careful if you do meet anyone from online because you never know ;l

Blinger1

02-02-2007, 10:13 AM

i would meet in a shopping center and say "okay meet out the front of target" and just walk past and see if they are there and if they are and they look like who you were talking to then go and meet them, if not just walk away and say "sorry, i couldn't go, mum had to do something and i couldn't get there" or some thing :)

Bef

02-02-2007, 10:28 AM

Personally i can't understand Net dating. If your sure shes not an axe murderer or something then yeeh go ahead and meet her. But try and check that out first...