Slight Problem

[24]

Have you ever really liked someone and you want to be with this person soo much, but you know that theres just no way that this would ever happen.

Well theres someone who i really love and i cant stop thinking about them. This may sound sad but knowing that i can never be with them gets me down sometimes. How do i get this person outta my head. I dont want to but i know that if i dont its just going to destroy me.

Please Help!

[Charlie]

You could try and do things to take your mind off them, like watching tv, playing games or something? And, whenever you find yourself thinking of them, just try and think about something else.

[Samster]

That's odd,my best mate was saying the same thing to me earlier today

[Nemo]

could i ask why you cannot be with her? i have same problem, its mainly because im not that confident and currently i dont think in my current state anyone wuld like me (phsyically)

if ur really down about this there is a psychological way of doing it, simply everytime u think of her then pinch urself ;D soon enof u dont think of her.. :s i saw it on tv but its drastic and i wuldnt do it but u no w/e xD

[24]

Why do the majority of people on this forum think im a man lol. Something else i might want to worry about. Im female :P

Anyway i cant be with them because its sort of a long distance thing. Its complicated. But its just not possible that we could be together. Its driving me crazy i cant imagine being with anyone else. :(

[Nemo]

Why do the majority of people on this forum think im a man lol. Something else i might want to worry about. Im female :P

Anyway i cant be with them because its sort of a long distance thing. Its complicated. But its just not possible that we could be together. Its driving me crazy i cant imagine being with anyone else. :(Well i understand how love is and confusing someones sex :p but anyway i need to read the gender bit ^^ ANYWAY if u are this crazy spend every weekend or so with him and then hes comes to urs and so on so that u can just be with each other but first u gotta go out so like stay down where he lives for a bit just to get more of a relationship with him, ask him out bingo then do the first part =p

[Colin-Roberts]

ok before i state my answer does this guy happen to be named: jack ... jack baur

[cocaine]

lmao, im in the same position. always have, always will be.

its probably a self-esteem issue. are you confident about yourself?

[Jamie!]

go out with them 1 night, get em wrecked n then it all takes off from there!

[:Hazel]

meet new people & you mind find someone you really like other than this person..

[24]

ok before i state my answer does this guy happen to be named: jack ... jack baur

Erm...No its not Jack Bauer lol. But it could be kiefer Sutherland :S I didnt wanna mention this small detail because its kinda embarassing.:eusa_wall


lmao, im in the same position. always have, always will be.

its probably a self-esteem issue. are you confident about yourself?


meet new people & you mind find someone you really like other than this person..

Thats not a bad idea but then what matt said about the self-esteem thing sorta comes into this... :(


go out with them 1 night, get em wrecked n then it all takes off from there!

I dont think alcohol is the answer ive been down that road before and it hasnt lead to good things.

[Royal]

Lols, I think people think your male because you got males in your sig maybe and people cba to look at gender tbh pl0x and I think you should go outside and chill with friends so you can forget about him.

[cocaine]

Thats not a bad idea but then what matt said about the self-esteem thing sorta comes into this... :(

Try and raise your self confidence, this way you could talk to the girl and become friends and it'll all lead from there.

[Rizla,]

My mate has a long distance thing going on and it's easy for him. How long distance? Like, couldn't he come down to yours on the weekend and you go down to his every now and again? If not, go out and get someone else, you'll eventually forget about the other person if you let yourself.

[@K]

How I got over them was by finding someone else I liked any going out with them, I didn't like this girl anywhere as near as much as the first, but whilst I was going out with her it took my mind of *******, but to tell you the truth, after we broke up I felt like **** becasue all my feelings for the girl I loved came back.