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[Krusty]

might sound weird/childish or whatever bt hey.

im 14. only ever been to 1 sleepover when i was like 9. i wanna go to my 'MATES HOUSE' on friday to sleepover.. what i mean by 'mates house' is the lad that i like has asked me 2 his mates bday house party sleep over thing... they is only gna be like 6 people ther anyways.


So i told my mom tht i was going to a mates house for the night. she wont let me. iv tried many times and a few time she has replied 'hmm il think about it' then i asked her again and she sed 'no' i really want to go but my mom just wont give in.

any ideas how i can persuade her?!


muchly appreciated

[GoldenMerc]

If your that desprete just go.
I'd do that.

[Kieeran]

Say to her. mom im growing up. most teenagers do it you know? you can trust me -.- (pull disspointed face) Then add, I wont get into any trouble

[Papershop]

What Mercy said. Or hide something of hers and bribe her with it. Ie, her warbrobe, just shove it down ya pants

[Krusty]

lmao x) these are good ideas
keep them comingg..
she'd kill me if i just went out and said im sleepin cya in the mornin..
>_>
i hate parents sometimes
x

[clarissa !!]

just go out anyway.

[Papershop]

Get one of your friends to come round yours and ask you if your going, infront of your mam. And then ask her, always does the trick :D

[Kieeran]

Get one of your friends to come round yours and ask you if your going, infront of your mam. And then ask her, always does the trick :D

Yeah and then say

No :( can't mom won't let me. (get your friend to say aww cmon wont be the same without u!)

Sympathy vote! :D

[Charlie]

Just say that your going round their for a bit, and you'll come back the same night, and then ring her when your there, and say that their mom is going to bring you home at like 11ish or something, and then at that time, ring home and say that their mom is tired/drunk or whatever, so they can't bring you home so your staying the night?

Or, just keep asking, and tell her that your growing up and teenagers do these things, so you want to do them too or something.

[brandon]

bare harsh

[Kieeran]

bare harsh

Would rep for tht but need to spread made me lol

just go for sympathy vote pls

[Krusty]

haha
:]
sympathy.
gta love it.
♥

[Kieeran]

Trust me star itl work

[Ostinato]

No, don't lie and don't go without permission.

If you do either of the above, your mum won't trust you at all and there will be no chance of you going to a sleepover etc. in the future at all as you betrayed her trust and went against her decision.

The honest approach usually works. Just wait until it's you and your mum, and maybe at a time when your both laughing or just talking away or something. Just say to her, "Listen mum, I'm old enough now to look after myself and I really do want to stay over at (names) house. Like everyone is going and I'll be the only one left out! Please?" If she says no, then simply ask her, her reasons why.

I'm sure she'll have some logical sort of reason why she doesn't want you to stay over, but if it's something silly then fight your corner and defend yourself.

Express your opinion and plea, but don't do it in a forceful or rude way - as it will only make matters worse.

[Kieeran]

No, don't lie and don't go without permission.

If you do either of the above, your mum won't trust you at all and there will be no chance of you going to a sleepover etc. in the future at all as you betrayed her trust and went against her decision.

The honest approach usually works. Just wait until it's you and your mum, and maybe at a time when your both laughing or just talking away or something. Just say to her, "Listen mum, I'm old enough now to look after myself and I really do want to stay over at (names) house. Like everyone is going and I'll be the only one left out! Please?" If she says no, then simply ask her, her reasons why.

I'm sure she'll have some logical sort of reason why she doesn't want you to stay over, but if it's something silly then fight your corner and defend yourself.

Express your opinion and plea, but don't do it in a forceful or rude way - as it will only make matters worse.

I know it's a good idea BUT sorrry to refer to you as she krusty but shes 14 and it's a boys house if she dropped the boys name you know waht moms are like. YOUR NOT STAYIN AT A BOYS HOUSE. Just say a mates, if she wants details etc then youll have to tell her. just say it's your mates bf

[Smiddy]

Or if you really want to you could say to her "If you really want, i'll text you when i'm there, just so you know i'm safe" That shows your responsible and should stop your mother from being worried. :)

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[HabbPixel]

Just do one thing, Don't GO. :l

[Isolde]

Give her a chocolate or bang her out and then it'll work. Tell her she lost her memory or sumin, worked with my mum xD

[Bef]

YAW MOMMA GAVE YOU EYES TO LOOK AROUND
YAW MOMMA GAVE YOU EARS TO HEAR THE SOUND
YAW MOMMA GAVE YOU ARMS TO WAVE LEFT AND RIGHT
YAW MOMMA GAVE YOU LEGS TO DANCE ALL NIGHT
BUT THER IS ONE PART THAT U POSESS THAT COMES IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES
IT MESMORISES
U SIT ON IT, U WORK IT, AND FLEX ITT AND FLUX IT
YAW MOMMA GAVE YOU ASSS

SHAKE WT YAW MOMMA GAVE YA.

[Isolde]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! haha, nicccccce!

[micky.blue.eyes]

Ask your mom why she won't let you go, I'm sure she'll give some stupid, tell her it's a stupid reason and that nothing will happen, find as many excuses as you can. :P ;)

[Isolde]

Tell her, i bet you gave birth to me from humping a teenage at your age, she'll probably be like 'errrrrr, ummmmmmm' and then you'll know why she wouldn't let you go.

I'd just bang her out, go to the party, come back home before she gets up and say' oh mum u just fainted'

[:Hazel]

say you understand she is trying to protect you but you need to get some independance at some point...

[Isolde]

Exactly the right thing to say. +rep for the nice speech.

[Bef]

Say if she doesnt let you go youl get pregnent and have a baby so you can get your own council flat and move out and go to all the sleepovers you want...

[Isolde]

Lol, blackmail her.. She'll just ground you.

[Bef]

Lol, blackmail her.. She'll just ground you.

Yea but say if she grounds you then youl have to **** someone in school in the disabled toilets...

[Isolde]

Lol. Ok. !

[Ostinato]

I know it's a good idea BUT sorrry to refer to you as she krusty but shes 14 and it's a boys house if she dropped the boys name you know waht moms are like. YOUR NOT STAYIN AT A BOYS HOUSE. Just say a mates, if she wants details etc then youll have to tell her. just say it's your mates bf

I'm not saying tell her every single detail, as obviously she would need to lie in the first place to even go. However, all I was saying is don't lie and betray her trust to a huge extent by going when she didn't have permission.

[Decapitated!]

I shuved my mums iPod down my crocth because she woudent let me go to give it a name we both found it funn y and she agreed to let me go =]

Orrrr if yout not like this just say i really really reallly really wnat to go =[ pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!

[lilvix2k7]

y dont u pretend its one of ur mates birthday parties or sumthin and say they have been looking foward to it for weekz and u dont want to upset their feelins.
orr....
u could take the honest approach just tell her its a boys house and that nothings going to happen as hes just a loyal mate or sumthin, you have been looking foward to it for ages and ur friends will be disappointed and then tell her that u love her and you will always be the same girl :S and that if she is worried about you going to a boys house nothing is going to change.

[StripedTiger]

or just refuse to go home?

[Krusty]

lmao these are gd ideas

when i got home from school my dad sed make me a cuppa tea. so i did. then he sed thanks. you can go 2 tht sleepover 2morra.
i was like
RESSSSULLLLLTTTT!!!!!!
my mom keeps askin me questions and offering to take me... so i keep making up more lies.
tbh i cant wait until its all over with so i can put all the lies and stuff behind me ^_^
thnx for your help
il +rep you all
eventually
x

[-Soph-]

ask her why not?
it might be because she doesnt know their parents or something?

some people's mums are like that rofl.

[Shawnstra]

Just keep begging, she will get annoyed eventually and let you go. Erm, thats how I forced my mum to buy me a laptop :P

[Noobification]

Say That Your Friends Mum Was Seriously Ill And Your Going To The Hospital To Visit Her
It Worked For Me Once
But She Wasnt Actually Ill
You Just Go To The Sleep Over Then
Go Home In The Morning

[e5.]

Just say that your going round their for a bit, and you'll come back the same night, and then ring her when your there, and say that their mom is going to bring you home at like 11ish or something, and then at that time, ring home and say that their mom is tired/drunk or whatever, so they can't bring you home so your staying the night?

Or, just keep asking, and tell her that your growing up and teenagers do these things, so you want to do them too or something.
bit in bold, lmao u just got to hope that plans out though :)

I'd just like keep asking her or ask infront of ur mate. My mum wudn't give in though LOL.