Gay people in my school.

[T3200]

Please god help me. I go to a single gender all boys school in London, England. Practically everyone in my class apart from me is gay (And no, I am not exaggerating it!) Theres one person who keep coming up to me or past few months and butting his backside against my.. front lower part of my body. I keep telling him that im an Irish Catholic and we are not gay!!! He doesnt care and keeps on doing it, and he whisperes to me "Wanna have s*x behind the building after school" and stuff like that. I warned him if he keeps doing it one of these days im going to punch him so hard. But he keeps doing it, but I dont want to punch him. Although Im irish and we have a reputation of not liking gays and blacks, i have no problem with them at all. But it does get annoying. I cannot move school and I dread going to school everyday cause of him. He isint hard and could be knocked out eaisily. What shall I do? Please, I would help you if it was you.

Richboy54 x

Edited by Mattps22004 (Forum Moderator): Thread closed to prevent further arguing

[the wombats]

smack him. you've warned him off plenty of times. he's not going to stop is he if you do nothing?

[dirrty]

lol@u
you do know there are irish catholic gays & irish gays. your born gay, you dont decide.

just do him then he will leave you alone. simple

[imgayifyouare]

tell him you are only 2 inches big xox dat will put him off xox

[T3200]

The thing is, I would smack him, but our school is VERY strict and you get suspended if you do it. And yes, also, I do realize that but Irish straight people do not like irish gays.

[PriceTags]

I don't get how it's health related, but tell your head of year or form tutor. It's quite serious, as he's wanting to do the hokey kokey with you and you don't. That's more or less sexual harrassment I think...?

[imgayifyouare]

The thing is, I would smack him, but our school is VERY strict and you get suspended if you do it. And yes, also, I do realize that but Irish straight people do not like irish gays.

HOMOPHOBE

[the wombats]

The thing is, I would smack him, but our school is VERY strict and you get suspended if you do it. And yes, also, I do realize that but Irish straight people do not like irish gays.

flirt with a diff boy to make him angry and show your not interested in him AT ALL.

[dirrty]

The thing is, I would smack him, but our school is VERY strict and you get suspended if you do it. And yes, also, I do realize that but Irish straight people do not like irish gays.
do you know every single irish person? your just sterotypying. im sure there are irish straight people who do like gay people.

[T3200]

Lmao I aint gay and wouldnt flirt with different boys. I talked to my HOY and form tutor they do NOTHING. On monday morning, if he does it, im gonna smack him one.

[imgayifyouare]

Lmao I aint gay and wouldnt flirt with different boys. I talked to my HOY and form tutor they do NOTHING. On monday morning, if he does it, im gonna smack him one.

tell him you have a small penis!!!

[kooldude007]

Clip 'im on is' ear

[T3200]

God no, I am NOT Homophobic. I have nothing against them and I didnt say ALL irish hate them, but they are hardly loved over there. Anyway, case closed, he does it on monday, I hit him. End Of.

[T3200]

Lol I wont talk to him about anything to do with penises.


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[imgayifyouare]

God no, I am NOT Homophobic. I have nothing against them and I didnt say ALL irish hate them, but they are hardly loved over there. Anyway, case closed, he does it on monday, I hit him. End Of.
violence is not the answer you ******.

[kooldude007]

Tell him ' YOU WANN TUSSLE , not that way '

[T3200]

Violence isint the answer? Fair enough, I understand what your saying. I wont hit him but I tried everything else

[imgayifyouare]

Violence isint the answer? Fair enough, I understand what your saying. I wont hit him but I tried everything else

You just need to keep backing away and saying no, and eventually he'll get the picture. It might take a while. But he'll get bored of trying it on with you and try it on with someone who will actually have him.

[Mentor]

Wack him for being an annoying prat, not for being gay. The issues shouldnt be confused.

[T3200]

I have put up with it since last june. I dont know how much longer i can take. He just does not get the picture and I said it outright I AM NOT GAY. He doesnt understand

[benjamin]

The thing is, I would smack him, but our school is VERY strict and you get suspended if you do it. And yes, also, I do realize that but Irish straight people do not like irish gays.


God no, I am NOT Homophobic. I have nothing against them and I didnt say ALL irish hate them, but they are hardly loved over there. Anyway, case closed, he does it on monday, I hit him. End Of.
No but you ment it.

[T3200]

Entor, thats a really good point I think. Hit him for annoying not gay, those could be confused and I could be called a homophobist. Thank you for seperating those out

[dirrty]

find out what annoys him and do that

[T3200]

Nope, I didnt mean it.

[imgayifyouare]

Entor, thats a really good point I think. Hit him for annoying not gay, those could be confused and I could be called a homophobist. Thank you for seperating those out

you're a ****. just get over yourself.

[T3200]

Find out what annoys him, nothing. I asked him he just says nothing, but im not sure

[imgayifyouare]

Find out what annoys him, nothing. I asked him he just says nothing, but im not sure

babe if you speak to him you are just encouraging him.

[T3200]

Get over myself, why you call me ****?

[T3200]

But I dont speak to him and he still does it!!

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[dirrty]

omg just do him and get it out of the way

[T3200]

Im going offline now, but heres what I say

He does it again, I hit him again?

Goodnight.

[kooldude007]

ew@that is distgusting

[Ostinato]

Don't hit him.

If you do, as it has already been shown here, it will be portrayed that you are a homophobe. I understand the difficult and annoying situation you are in but violence, in this case, is not the answer. It will only make the whole situation worse and as well as being classed as a homophobe in a homosexual prodominated environment you will be punished at school.

What he's doing however isn't acceptable, so don't stand for it. Simply speak to your guidance teacher or head of year, and explain to them the situation. Tell them he has been repeatedly been making unwelcome advances towards you, and you continuously told him you are not interested, yet he is still making physical contact with you. Tell the teacher you are extremely uncomfortable with it and you want something done, otherwise you feel you would be in your own right to use self-defense against him.

That way, the problem should be sorted without you actually having to hurt him and you will still have your general reputation in tact.

[T3200]

Ok I tried that and they do nothing. Btw, lovely pic!

[imgayifyouare]

tell your parents.

[Ostinato]

Ok I tried that and they do nothing. Btw, lovely pic!

Thanks, hehe.

Well if they are doing nothing about it speak to your parents. If your uncomfortable and are dreading school because of this person - to be quite frank - your parents are wasting their money and you deserve to go to somewhere else, where you won't be objected to such problems.

[T3200]

Thank you thats what I will do!

Wow I love that pic

*Prints and brings to my bed..*

[benjamin]

Thank you thats what I will do!

Wow I love that pic

*Prints and brings to my bed..*
Ewwww? Jesus christ, get an imagination.

[T3200]

jeeze just kiddin, anyway goodnight

[Ostinato]

Er, it's okay...

[Jamie!]

you shouldn't be bothered whether people will think that you're a homophobe or not.. theres plenty about so it ain't as if everyone will hate you for it

[dirrty]

make sure u gt tissues

[Ostinato]

you shouldn't be bothered whether people will think that you're a homophobe or not.. theres plenty about so it ain't as if everyone will hate you for it

But considering he is at a school which is homosexually prodominant - it would be a bit of a silly move. And to be quite honest with you, it's only really insecure people who are homophobic in this day in age, and it really isn't tolerated in society anymore.

[DCeption]

Im laughing at the fact you go to an all boys school.

[TheLastShadow]

For all you people who say "Who cares, just do him." or "get over it" Oh Yeah. Like He would just let some dude smash on him cause u guys said get over it...Yeah thats right..Become a chocolate smasher just because the guys at HxF said get over it..Pls. And Wth? Talk to your parents? "Hey mom dad, Guess what happend at school? A dude was grinding on my balls!! Be proud of me!" Yeah right. Just punch him next time he trys coming on u.

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[Ostinato]

For all you people who say "Who cares, just do him." or "get over it" Oh Yeah. Like He would just let some dude smash on him cause u guys said get over it...Yeah thats right..Become a chocolate smasher just because the guys at HxF said get over it..Pls. And Wth? Talk to your parents? "Hey mom dad, Guess what happend at school? A dude was grinding on my balls!! Be proud of me!" Yeah right. Just punch him next time he trys coming on u.

Your "advice" here is simply uncalled for and compltely out of order. How dare you call anyone "a chocolate smasher". Your behaviour is nothing more but degrading and immature, and for you to refer to someone is such an insulting manner is completely out of order.

I don't know what century your living in, but homosexuality is now accepted so you need to wake up and get a grip of reality before making un-necessary comments like that.

Fair enough, I agree "ignoring it" is not the answer, but nor - in my opinion - is hitting him. It isn't a matter of his parents being proud when he tells them, it's the simple fact of him receiving help from them - the reason why we all have parents.

[Mentor]

But considering he is at a school which is homosexually prodominant - it would be a bit of a silly move. And to be quite honest with you, it's only really insecure people who are homophobic in this day in age, and it really isn't tolerated in society anymore.
Its only insecure people who are worryed about being called a homophobe to start with :p

Plus i went to an all male school, the company you keep dont determine your sexual prefrances, its quite likely alot of them just act gay because you react to it in an amusing fashion "/

Also, since everyones discussing your pic, it cant be healthy to be that orange o.0




Your "advice" here is simply uncalled for and compltely out of order. How dare you call anyone "a chocolate smasher". Your behaviour is nothing more but degrading and immature, and for you to refer to someone is such an insulting manner is completely out of order.

I don't know what century your living in, but homosexuality is now accepted so you need to wake up and get a grip of reality before making un-necessary comments like that.

Fair enough, I agree "ignoring it" is not the answer, but nor - in my opinion - is hitting him. It isn't a matter of his parents being proud when he tells them, it's the simple fact of him receiving help from them - the reason why we all have parents.
Yea, as since its accepted that obviously makes sexual harrasment ok... why dont you go walk round town and grab every girl you sees **** as you go, as thats exsactly the same "acceptable" situation o.0

[benjamin]

Its only insecure people who are worryed about being called a homophobe to start with :p

Plus i went to an all male school, the company you keep dont determine your sexual prefrances, its quite likely alot of them just act gay because you react to it in an amusing fashion "/

Also, since everyones discussing your pic, it cant be healthy to be that orange o.0

lmao i was thinking that. tangoedd!

[Ostinato]

Its only insecure people who are worryed about being called a homophobe to start with :p

Plus i went to an all male school, the company you keep dont determine your sexual prefrances, its quite likely alot of them just act gay because you react to it in an amusing fashion "/

Also, since everyones discussing your pic, it cant be healthy to be that orange o.0

No-one has implyed he cares about being called a "homophobe". I was simply saying, it would be beneficial for him not to be portrayed as one as it could make his life at an all male school difficult. I simply think those who think lowly and degrading upon homosexuals clearly have some sort of insecurity issue - in my opinion.

Well I presume she was fake tanned. I don't really care, shes still hawt.



Yea, as since its accepted that obviously makes sexual harrasment ok... why dont you go walk round town and grab every girl you sees **** as you go, as thats exsactly the same "acceptable" situation o.0

Honestly - what are you talking about? I said homosexuality is accepted in today's society - and you cannot deny that. The majority of individuals accept homosexuality within society and respect homosexuals in the same way as hetrosexuals are. Just because it is accepted as a sexuality, doesn't mean it is okay for homosexuals to harrass people obviously, just like it wouldn't be okay for a girl to do that to me, or vise versa. :S

[Mentor]

No-one has implyed he cares about being called a "homophobe". I was simply saying, it would be beneficial for him not to be portrayed as one as it could make his life at an all male school difficult. I simply think those who think lowly and degrading upon homosexuals clearly have some sort of insecurity issue - in my opinion.
And i simply think anyone thats scared of being portrayed of somthing by acting like a normal human being also has some sort of insecurtys.


well I presume she was fake tanned. I don't really care, shes still hawt. or ompa-lompa on one side of the family. I dont get fake tan, it makes people look a bit repusive imo, although im wired :p


Honestly - what are you talking about? I said homosexuality is accepted in today's society - and you cannot deny that. The majority of individuals accept homosexuality within society and respect homosexuals in the same way as hetrosexuals are. Just because it is accepted as a sexuality, doesn't mean it is okay for homosexuals to harrass people obviously, just like it wouldn't be okay for a girl to do that to me, or vise versa. :S
Which was my point, you make it sound like defending himself is a bad thing, if a girl slaps a guy for grabbing her **** its the same thing as a reaction here would be. Your argueing homoseuxaly is accepted, which i agree with. but then your arguments seem to be based on the idea the situation is somehow differnt becuse of it? There are more women in the world than men after all "/

[Ostinato]

And i simply think anyone thats scared of being portrayed of somthing by acting like a normal human being also has some sort of insecurtys.

or ompa-lompa on one side of the family. I dont get fake tan, it makes people look a bit repusive imo, although im wired :p


Which was my point, you make it sound like defending himself is a bad thing, if a girl slaps a guy for grabbing her **** its the same thing as a reaction here would be. Your argueing homoseuxaly is accepted, which i agree with. but then your arguments seem to be based on the idea the situation is somehow differnt becuse of it? There are more women in the world than men after all "/

No, I am simply saying for someone to make such degrading comments in regard to homosexuals isn't accepted in todays society. That doesn't mean homosexuals have the right to act different from anyone else - and they too should obviously respect other human beings.

However, I believe that assaulting this person wouldn't solve anything and that by speaking to his parents a more effective solution would be achieved. I do not feel the situation is any different just because this is a homosexual. If this was a boy doing it to a girl - I would give the exact same advice based upon the situation.

[Mentor]

No, I am simply saying for someone to make such degrading comments in regard to homosexuals isn't accepted in todays society. That doesn't mean homosexuals have the right to act different from anyone else - and they too should obviously respect other human beings.

However, I believe that assaulting this person wouldn't solve anything and that by speaking to his parents a more effective solution would be achieved. I do not feel the situation is any different just because this is a homosexual. If this was a boy doing it to a girl - I would give the exact same advice based upon the situation.

Your advice always seems highly detached from reality, you always provide textbook ideas of how things operate in the world which really dont conform to any common day experience, i, or i believe anyone else has ever come across. Hence why i dont agree with it since in practices i dont belive its really likely to have any positive benefit.

Also i dont believe everyone should be so melo-dramatic about vaguely insulting or stereotypical comments about every minority, or group thats not the majority going. Likely this is formed from my own stance as someone who dosnt really get offended, but i seriously think the reactions are OTT alot of the time, words are words, there never going to be any more than that.

[MsTanya]

omg i would DIE if i went to an all girls school

[English]

Punch him one. Knocking him out will tell him where to shove it.

[Mentor]

Punch him one. Knocking him out will tell him where to shove it.

o.0 i think the reality meters more in ostinatos favor here o.0

[TheLastShadow]

Your "advice" here is simply uncalled for and compltely out of order. How dare you call anyone "a chocolate smasher". Your behaviour is nothing more but degrading and immature, and for you to refer to someone is such an insulting manner is completely out of order.

I don't know what century your living in, but homosexuality is now accepted so you need to wake up and get a grip of reality before making un-necessary comments like that.

Fair enough, I agree "ignoring it" is not the answer, but nor - in my opinion - is hitting him. It isn't a matter of his parents being proud when he tells them, it's the simple fact of him receiving help from them - the reason why we all have parents.
Yeah right. Maybe up in scottish or where ever the hell u live but come down here u'll get banged for bein gay LOL

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[Mentor]

Yeah right. Maybe up in scottish or where ever the hell u live but come down here u'll get banged for bein gay LOLwheres exactly's down here :rolleyes: Also for future reference youll sound less stupid if you use Scotland not scotish in that context... or possibly just refrained from making ******ed comments... one of the two... possibly both.

[TheLastShadow]

wheres exactly's down here :rolleyes: Also for future reference youll sound less stupid if you use Scotland not scotish in that context... or possibly just refrained from making ******ed comments... one of the two... possibly both. um...US? Were not exactly little *REMOVED* liek you in the UK

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[Mentor]

um...US? Were not exactly little pu$sys liek you in the UK
And im not such a ***** i have to be net hard since im so much of a socal reject in real life :P Also the US is above the equator not below, so it would be up.. not down :rolleyes:

[T3200]

People please, firstly on monday if he does it again I will go and see my HoY again, and he should do something hopefully. Also what you said about her being orange, its like you been *removed* tangoed love. Anyway, so what you thinik about plan?

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[T3200]

Also, about single gender schools, no I am not allowed to move, and in London there are many single boys and single girls school. They think it helps us learn better and be less distracted!!

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[Browney]

um...US? Were not exactly little pu$sys liek you in the UK

Ok. American football is just Rugby but you guys need inches of padding and helmets. Wow, you guys ARE hard. :rolleyes:

[Ostinato]

I find it hilarious that you have to make racist comments to try and make yourself intellectual and superior within this argument. Quite clearly you are incapable of forming a constructed argument - so you have to constantly swear and make derogitary terms in regard to mine and other peoples race and culture.

Yeh - your such a hard man mate - you can swear on an online forum... :rolleyes:

Also - to mentors previous post about my "advice being detached from the real world". Well fair enough, as you are entitled to your opinion - but if I was in this situation I wouldn't just hit the person as I personally feel it would make matters worse. I'm not saying all of you have to agree with this, and I fully understand why some people feel violence would and could resolve the situation. However, I give advice based on what I think and what I would do in the situation - and in this particular case the thread starter was greatful for me taking the time to do so, and said he would utilise that advice.