I want to go out with someone...

[madmike666]

Thers this girl whos great freinds with me in my class (she also live a street away from me) and we walk to school together and i always talk to her about any problems i have.So basicly were both great freinds, and i want to ask her out.But im shy with thnigs like this. i think shes going out with this guy ive always hated so i get angry at her and it isent her fault.If i dont ask her out soon our freindship will just totally be ruined. Any ideas what i should do if i want to ask her out?

Oh btw i kiked her "bf" in the face out of anger.

[Ostinato]

Thers this girl whos great freinds with me in my class (she also live a street away from me) and we walk to school together and i always talk to her about any problems i have.So basicly were both great freinds, and i want to ask her out.But im shy with thnigs like this. i think shes going out with this guy ive always hated so i get angry at her and it isent her fault.If i dont ask her out soon our freindship will just totally be ruined. Any ideas what i should do if i want to ask her out?

Oh btw i kiked her "bf" in the face out of anger.

I don't really understand why you felt the need to hit this boy... By doing that, it just makes you look really desprate and compltely portrays you in a negative light. Think about it, she's hardly going to fall for you if your going around beating her boyfriend up.

I think you should maybe say to her why you did it. Tell her how you are worried what you have just now is going to get ruined because your feelings are so strong for her, and suggest maybe giving it a go.

She might just see you as friends though, so don't be surprised and try not to be upset if she turns you down. You need to respect her decision as she may just wish to remain friend's with you. Also, by telling her it could jeaprodise your friendship itself. Hopefully though, if she really is a true friend you both would be able to move on if it didn't work out, and look above it. :)

[madmike666]

I don't really understand why you felt the need to hit this boy... By doing that, it just makes you look really desprate and compltely portrays you in a negative light. Think about it, she's hardly going to fall for you if your going around beating her boyfriend up.

I think you should maybe say to her why you did it. Tell her how you are worried what you have just now is going to get ruined because your feelings are so strong for her, and suggest maybe giving it a go.

She might just see you as friends though, so don't be surprised and try not to be upset if she turns you down. You need to respect her decision as she may just wish to remain friend's with you. Also, by telling her it could jeaprodise your friendship itself. Hopefully though, if she really is a true friend you both would be able to move on if it didn't work out, and look above it. :)

Thats what i hope can happen if she went out with me...But i kicked her bf coz he called me gay:( :( Well thanks for help ill try it +rep

[Jamie!]

make a pass at her and just hope she gets with you.. then her bf will be gutted and you can just start handing him about it

or you could just accept that she's with another lad

[madmike666]

I dont like accepting things - i like changingthings. Well thats just me..

[Josh-H]

Then do something about it and stop asking us. You know what you;ve got to do. You're in a good situation to do it... so why not?

[Leeroy]

Tell her how ya feel ;)

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