Shaving!!!

[indian8132]

Hey people

Im 13, and I got like a small *moustache* growing.. And I really hate it and think that girls are put of by it. I dont like the idea of shaving, i mean, what if the blades go into you, blood everywhere for ages. What if it hurts a lot, theres so many questions. Any help is sincerely appericiated!

Typo x :D

[Disento]

I know how you feel, I felt like that before I first did it.
Just take your time; after 3 years of shaving, I still haven't cut myself.

It'll be fine! :)

[velocity]

it dosent hurt, its like, impossible to cut yourself with them

[benjamin]

it dosent hurt, its like, impossible to cut yourself with them
lol odea i cut myself with mine erliar

if you cut yourself you don't even feel it anyway

[TwoFooted]

Dont worry, aslong as your careful it shouldnt be too bad ;]

[indian8132]

Listen this is completely different to shaving, OFF SUBJECT!!

I got a relative from Dublin down for a week. And he wants to take me and my sister out to town tommorrow. I havent had a girlfriend in 4yrs and tommorrow is the only day that this single, beautiful girls comes round who likes me and we might be going out from tommorrow. This is a MASSIVE occasion for me, first time in 4years and there might not be another time for another 4years! The irish relative INSISTS i go out with him to town tommorrow, but he dont know why and im too embarressed to say. What can I do, Please HELP THIS IS REAL BAD FOR ME! I only just realized now about this I NEED QUICK HELP!:@ :@ :@ :@

[Disento]

Awww, just started dating then!
Well think about which will benefit you greater long term; the boy, or the girl?
Hmm!
Don't be embarassed, just say: "Listen. there's a hot girl coming to see me; can we give today a miss please?" he'll understand buddy!

[Hitman]

i shave i have a moustache, and it doesnt hurt. just put loads of gel on.

once i like cut myself, but it didnt hurt.

Mind you, it grows back quickly and stronger.

[PriceTags]

Listen this is completely different to shaving, OFF SUBJECT!!

I got a relative from Dublin down for a week. And he wants to take me and my sister out to town tommorrow. I havent had a girlfriend in 4yrs and tommorrow is the only day that this single, beautiful girls comes round who likes me and we might be going out from tommorrow. This is a MASSIVE occasion for me, first time in 4years and there might not be another time for another 4years! The irish relative INSISTS i go out with him to town tommorrow, but he dont know why and im too embarressed to say. What can I do, Please HELP THIS IS REAL BAD FOR ME! I only just realized now about this I NEED QUICK HELP!:@ :@ :@ :@

you haven't had a girlfriend since you were 9? how does that work?

[indian8132]

dont know

[SpellingMistake]

Im crap at shaving and always end up with abit of my mustache left over lol

[DiscoPat]

Just do it, trust me..

[Seacat]

get an electric one

[Ostinato]

Having a wee teenage moustache isn't so bad. The majority of teenagers get them at some point, and often some people don't - therefore it's a sign that your a bit more developed than others.

I've never heard of it putting girls off myself...

When I was younger I had a similair teenage moustache, and I started shaving around 3 years ago now. I had my brother who helped me the first time though, but it's actually really easy and I have only ever cut myself once.

A warning though, once you start shaving you'll need to keep doing it as the hair will grow back much thicker. I remember the days I had my wee stubbly moustache, now like every 2 days I have nearly a full grown beard! ;P Haha. :P

It really is easier than you think. You use the shaving foam to help stop the razor blade irritating your skin and it sort of moisturises your skin. Once you've got that on you basically just take the razor and go over the area's you wish to shave. In this case, if it's only your tash area - it'll take you 5 wee minutes. You'll only ever cut yourself if your hands unsteady, your too rough or your not concentrating. The time I cut myself, was because I have really shaky hands - lol. :P

Honestly, you'll be surprised how easy it is. Even if you do cut yourself, there's a wee spot of blood for about 2 minutes or something then it'll dry up - so don't worry, it isn't the end of the world.

Don't let your teenage moustache stop you from socialising. It really isn't that big a deal and isn't worth the drama. It's unlikely the girl will even notice it, and even if she does - why would she be so put off you because of it? Some girls find that sort of thing quite sexy, so you never know! :P :) Finally - if this girl really is... revolted by it then it's her loss. You shouldn't be with someone who is so obsessed with looks in that case, and find someone who appreciates you for your personality. :)

Good luck - you'll be fine! :)

[indian8132]

Thank you ostiano, v good advice

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[Shawnstra]

How long is it?

[indian8132]

small.

[TheLastShadow]

Yeah man. NEVER shave without shaving cream. It gives u a burn like hell. I shave with a sort of special razor that the razor is actually face down on my skin. unlike the other which is on an angle. It gives a REAL close shave and u cant even feel the hair buds. I shave my moustash, Line up my side burns and line up my forehead when i get a haircut. I love it. Just remember to use shaving cream. Oh yes and once you shave theres no turning back lol. Its going to keep coming back.

[omgDAN!]

hmm do you think I should start.
it's kinda annoying now it's grown a bit, but I think like my parents will see me weird if I just shave, what should I say to them?

[Smurtz]

Don't shave it until the hairs are pretty thick. I started shaving mine when it was light and you could only just see it, now it's become a thing I have to do every 1/2 days.

[Ramones]

haha. i got my dad to do it for me first few times. And yeah whoever says it doesnt matter if you have a little facial hair or whatever they're lying. At my school theres a boy who never shaves and he gets soo bullied for it. don't think everybody is going to be nice and not care what you look like.

it's not insecurity, it's caring

[omgDAN!]

ok give loads of people self confidence
:rolleyes:

[Seacat]

Yeah there was a guy in our Law class who last year kinda got bullied cos he had a moustache and hadn't shaved ever (having said that he was 16). He wasn't abused for it, just laughed at by his 'friends'. So I do think that it does kinda matter to other people.

&&to the person who said 'what do I tell my parents'.. You don't really have to tell them anything unless you want to. Go out and buy your own stuff and get on with it or if you want to tell them just do it - They both went through puberty at your age so will understand.

[-::Mr.Dave::-]

Ive got kind of a moustache, People said things and laughed for a couple of months and said shave it off. 6 months later its still there and they stopped saying things cuz they know there not doing anything

[:Hazel]

i used to betoo scared to shave my legs cause i thought it would hurt but it doesnt ;)

[You]

OMG!! OMG!! PUBERTY!! OMG OMG RUN INTO A WALL!!

erm well done to you :rolleyes_. I suggest you wax if you don't want to shave, i doubt bum fluff will grow back fast.

[-Soph-]

you won't cut yourself as long as you buy a half descent razor, and be careful the first time you do it.

the first time I tried to shave my legs I did it all wrong (sideways :rolleyes:) and cut my legs to pieces. (I was about 10.. I was experimenting :D)

[3420]

I've cut my self before, it is a little bit of a sting but nothing else mate dw

[beth]

i'll be straight with you; moustaches would put me off. so i think shaving is a gd idea (:

[Eamonn]

I started shaving when I was about 12/13 and it isn't really anything to worry about I have cut my self like once and it only happens if you are a bit rough with it, if you take your time and use it gently its fine :) except if you get a rash, so use hot water aswell, I find that usually helps.

[CJW93]

Hey people

Im 13, and I got like a small *moustache* growing.. And I really hate it and think that girls are put of by it. I dont like the idea of shaving, i mean, what if the blades go into you, blood everywhere for ages. What if it hurts a lot, theres so many questions. Any help is sincerely appericiated!

Typo x :D
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I Just Use My Dad Electric Shaver It Gr8
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I Had My First Shave Around 4 hours Ago Im Proud Of Myslef

[Luckyrare]

You dont get cut unless you move the blade side to side. I cut my finger once by doing that