sex

[Ohgodhelpme]

Hey, i need help right
my girl friend and i had sex last night
it wasnt my first time but it was kinda hers
she said she had nearly done it with her ex but then her mam came in so it was a kinda QUICK GET IT OUT case
and i put myself in at first and she went ouch so i withdrew and said are you ok
Is that normal?
and then i went back in and was in for 20 secish but then withdrew again cos i thought i heard ma mam coming
do you think she will be upset?

[benjamin]

why not ask her?

[Ohgodhelpme]

why not ask her?
ye but what if she says ye and she hates me?

[benjamin]

but what have you done to for her to hate you?

you can't really ask anyone else what she will say, there isn't much you can do now buy talk to her and explain things :]

[Ohgodhelpme]

but what have you done to for her to hate you?

you can't really ask anyone else what she will say, there isn't much you can do now buy talk to her and explain things :]
ye but like can it hurt her when i do it?
like phyically i mean
cos i dont want to i love her so much:\

[benjamin]

ye but like can it hurt her when i do it?
like phyically i mean
cos i dont want to i love her so much:\
well apparantly it hurts the majority of girls the first time though

i wouldn't really know... but that's what i've heard

[OMGitsaROSS]

was your willy small then?


Tbh if you heard your mum you would of said, "OMGZ my mum is coming?"

[Ohgodhelpme]

was your willy small then?


Tbh if you heard your mum you would of said, "OMGZ my mum is coming?"
i did kinda go
omg i think me mams coming up and we both got up and carried on watching tv

[F32]

i did kinda go
omg i think me mams coming up and we both got up and carried on watching tv
as you do..

I think this is bull; sorry.

[Ohgodhelpme]

as you do..

I think this is bull; sorry.
okies no prob not gonna bother me is it?:S

[Axel]

Apparently it's normal for it to hurt for them the first time... I don't know, but it's just what I heard.

[F32]

It's very normal for a girl/woman to hurt on the first time of having sex because the 'hyma' breaks and that's what hurts.

Another very common thing is bleeding when you first have sex because of the breakage of the hyma.

I hope this helped :rolleyes:

[Crono]

It's supposed to hurt the girl during her first time, so I'm sure it's nothing you were doing wrong. If you're still concerned then talk to her about it.

[Sammeth.]

It's very normal for a girl/woman to hurt on the first time of having sex because the 'hyma' breaks and that's what hurts.

Another very common thing is bleeding when you first have sex because of the breakage of the hyma.

I hope this helped :rolleyes:

Soz, but you mean the 'hymen' ;) Just thought I would point that out. But everything you said was indeed correct. That might be why she was in pain, if it was her first time.

[Mitch4?]

It's called the hymen i think that is why it hurts the first time you have sex, or the few times after.
Some girls prefer to have it popped via hands but yeah.

It's normal just explain to her that it's normal for it to happen on the first time etc. She'll be fine with it if she knows what a hymen is.

[hobo]

it's meant to hurt.

[Mentor]

Firstly yea its perfectly normal, and for the majorty of the time will happen, although now days its not always the case, as the hymen can often be broken while doing other activtys, hence meaning theres nothing to cause the pain with sex the first time. Supposedly its quite common in people who do hourse rideing o.0

[hobo]

Firstly yea its perfectly normal, and for the majorty of the time will happen, although now days its not always the case, as the hymen can often be broken while doing other activtys, hence meaning theres nothing to cause the pain with sex the first time. Supposedly its quite common in people who do hourse rideing o.0

yeah, and in those who find extra uses for objects such as tooth and hairbrushes.

[GommeInc]

If all she wants off you is sex, then tell her to go away. Sex isn't everything.

[Browney]

Sex isn't everything. But it's good. Or so I've heard.

[Fonejacker]

Hey, i need help right
my girl friend and i had sex last night
it wasnt my first time but it was kinda hers
she said she had nearly done it with her ex but then her mam came in so it was a kinda QUICK GET IT OUT case
and i put myself in at first and she went ouch so i withdrew and said are you ok
Is that normal?
and then i went back in and was in for 20 secish but then withdrew again cos i thought i heard ma mam coming
do you think she will be upset?
should of loosened her up before... I love a nice banana slpit ;)

[benjamin]

when i first had sex it hurt me too

[Fonejacker]

when i first had sex it hurt me too
thats because my mum put that rat trap up my bum to scare tresspassers

[benjamin]

thats because my mum put that rat trap up my bum to scare tresspassers
LMAAAAAAO

[Jamie!]

doubt she will hate you for it..

and if it it hurt her or whatever, you shoulda maybe tried doing a bit of foreplay before hand to get her used to it if you get me?

[Ashhizzle]

yeah, and in those who find extra uses for objects such as tooth and hairbrushes.
lolol

Sex isn't everything. But it's good. Or so I've heard.
Tried*

[Porosity]

thats because my mum put that rat trap up my bum to scare tresspassers
LMAO!

On topic, Im sure she wouldnt be mad it you, cause theres not much you could do about it.

[Cascada]

perfectly normal the first time.

[Nightrose]

Its normal for it to hurt the first time for a girl, normally a little bit of foreplay will stop it hurting so much. But anyway if your actually doing it with someone you love you would normally not notice the pain. it's not to do with the breaking of the hymen because that can break during sports etc.

I dont think she will be upset about it, just talk to her. its good to hear you checked she was okay though

[Orangeesh]

Sex isn't everything. But it's good. Or so I've heard.
lol

Yeah nothing to worry about if tis her first time

[beth]

it's meant to hurt.
but, if you have a bit of foreplay before hand it shouldnt hurt as much because she'll be uh, more lubricated. ROFL. (:

[Sure]

it's meant to hurt.
but, if you have a bit of foreplay before hand it shouldnt hurt as much because she'll be uh, more lubricated. ROFL. (:


Yeh nice n wet but not to sloppy.

Yeh, its meant to hurt (first time).

[cocaine]

its meant to hurt

[asher_]

sex is overated LOL

[Recursion]

sex is overated LOL

Err no? Thats how people have kids, there would be no human race without it idiot.

Also its fun ;)

[asher_]

Err no? Thats how people have kids, there would be no human race without it idiot.

Also its fun ;)

and the relevance of that?

[-Soph-]

Yeah its normal to hurt, she should know that ;)
she won't be upset, well, probably won't be.

[PS2.]

Err no? Thats how people have kids, there would be no human race without it idiot.

Also its fun ;)

Kids are overrated.

[velocity]

Kids are overrated.
your mum was overrated.

[Eamonn]

yeah, and in those who find extra uses for objects such as tooth and hairbrushes.
Yeah electric things, eh Helen ;)

[Metric.]

yeah, and in those who find extra uses for objects such as tooth and hairbrushes.

in my friends case, the toilet plunger.

[Sammeth.]

in my friends case, the toilet plunger.

But...the....erm....:eusa_thin...why? I hope she washed it tbh.

[Metric.]

But...the....erm....:eusa_thin...why? I hope she washed it tbh.

we all were, shes just a really horny drunk.
she ran around the house fingering herself, and locked herself in a bedroom and poo'd and "tooth-brushed" herself, answell as "plunged herself"

the worst thing was that we put the tooth brushes back in the holder.