HELP BF PROBLEM THNX +REP

[lilvix2k7]

heya
as in past threads i am going out with this boy who is less known as u cud call it as me in school
neway off of tht subject
we have been going out for 2 weeks and we havent snogged yet or anything and we are both 15
but whats more strange is in the mornins in school he will hold my hand and be sweet etc.etc.etc. but when it comes to break or lunch he will completely ignore me!!! it just doesnt make sense !
I was there at break where he hangs round and he will walk slightly away from me so i would tlk 2 his mates and they sed y are u wiv joe
and i was like well he isnt tlkin 2 me and they sed 2 him go and tlk 2 vicky and he sed no which i find quite upsettin becos its not very nice
last week he did the same and i asked him wat woz up afta skwl nd he sed he woz jus ****** off so i asked him if it was becos of me and he sed no i would never be mad at you! although im the only one he ignores so i dont see his problem it is really annoying me!
I dont think its very good to have a bf like this and i dnt know wat 2 do although most days he knocks 4 me afta skwl and we r out for around 3/4 hours and hes such a little darling but throughout the day hes such a pig! I mean 2day i text him after school nd told him not 2 bover callin 4 me 2nite becos he has been ignoring me throughout the day and he didnt even bother 2 reply although i know he has tonnes of credit
plz help i need advice shall i finish with him
all im holding onto is how sweet he is wen we are out of school :(

[Caution]

he's embarrased to be with you.
maybai yhuu anoyd him or sumfink??/

[today]

Or he wants to keep his love life away from school...

[lilvix2k7]

but hez been with me around skool the last couple of weeks with his friends holding hands and cuddling and everyfin
and even if he did want 2 keep it out of school he could at least have the decency 2 say tht rather than just ignore me altogether its not very nice :@

[today]

shy, afraid you'll go mad..

[Cwmbran]

Is it his first relationship?
If so he may not know what to do.
He may not be ready for a relationship and just wants to be with his mates.

If thats not it maybe he has problems at home and doesn't want you to find out because he thinks it may upset you, he would believe that in away he would be protecting you from being hurt.

The next chance you get invite him around to your house and tell him you want to have a talk, ask him why he ignores you in school and if its to do with you, or if it's something else.

[today]

maybe his friends are just trying to push him too much which has made him want to look harder and that.

Tho there's many things, best to ask him.

[lilvix2k7]

thx for advice +Rep
but hes not whenever i ask him why he has been ignoring me he just says i dont know
and yes i think he has only had a couple of girlfriends before me
although he doesnt seem too nervous around me
although sometimes he seems too nervous too look me in the eye
but even if thats the reason its not an exscuse to say "no im not speaking to vicky" (to his friends) its just no something you do it has upset me quite alot :(

[today]

meh tbh common male thing.

[SuperMatt]

Cuz you keeo annoying him?

[lilvix2k7]

Cuz you keeo annoying him?

no i havent annoyed him

[Carlos]

I think he's just really shy and inexperianced. Show him the way girl ;)

[Shawnstra]

Maybe he doesn't like his friends knowing that he has a girlfriend

[:alexxTURNER]

eva fort of like tlkin 2 him abwt it instead
of posting it onto an internet forum lyk.

[lilvix2k7]

eva fort of like tlkin 2 him abwt it instead
of posting it onto an internet forum lyk.


umm well 2day
i sed 2 him wat iz ur problem he sed "i dunno"
i then sed well u dont want to go out with me anymore then?
and he sed "yes i do"
and he jus gave me short answers then my m8 spoke 2 him nd sed y dnt u go nd tlk 2 her nd he sed "no"
then fourth period 2day just before the bell went he sent me a message saying "hi im so sorry plz forgive me"
but i had to go at the point so its kind of left dangling for 2 weeks until we get back :rolleyes:

[StripedTiger]

hes probs slightly nervous in school? aware of what people will say / think?

he might settle down with time :)
just keep being supportive after school, when its jsut you and him, n take lil steps?

[PS2.]

He's most likely embarrased being around you at school because he's not sure whether or not his friends approve of you.

[PriceTags]

i think it's just that he doesn't want his friends to know he has a girlfriend, because in their little community it's considered soft? idk

[Cwmbran]

ts kind of left dangling for 2 weeks until we get back :rolleyes:
What I said earlier on in this thread was to get him to come round your house to talk about this matter.

What I ment was try and get some time alone, it does not matter where as long as no one else is around to distract him, trust me if you confront him and get his full attention and he has no where else to go you will sort things out.

There could be two possible outcomes from this.
1. You will break up.
2. Your relationship will become stronger and everythin you needed help with will not happen again.

Goodluck!

[Haylz]

hes probs slightly nervous in school? aware of what people will say / think?

he might settle down with time :)
just keep being supportive after school, when its jsut you and him, n take lil steps?

I Agree with you being supportive towards him and everything, and maybe he's just embarrassed for you asking him about it infront of his friends and maybe he wants it to be private like after school? :)