So annoyed ...

[Dan2nd]

In my main group of friends there is only four of us. There are some others but the main guys I hang out with most only have four people. my bestest friend is the nicest guy I know we do everything together. hes even given me the pin code to his bank account because I sometimes do stuff for him when I go into town :rolleyes:

Over the last couple of weeks though hes made a new group of friends which he hangs out in the canteen with. I'm fine with this if he wants to make new friends who am I to stop him? It started off ok he used to hang out with them on Mondays and tuesdays and with us for the rest of the week. I thought it was all nice and dandy but recently he has made excuses why he can't hang out with us anymore. This frankly peed me off totally but I bit my lip .

Hes a very good friend of mine and I want him to do well so in class I always help him because hes stugglin with the programming in our course. But lately to put it quite bluntly hes been taking the pee. Not only because hes been skipping 3 / 4 lessons every day but because hes asking me to send my work to him. This was the final straw so I decided to go and see what he gets up to.

So yestaday I go into the canteen and this girl is making out with him. He then spots me pratically pushes her off him and has the most horrified look on his face ever. I then walk over and say hello to all his 'canteen budys' Who had no idea who the hell I was :rolleyes: I then ask him who the girl was he said' My girlfriend' I said hi to her she said nothing all she did was get up wedge herself between us and sit on his lap.

I sat there for about an hour and my friend hardly spoke to me I doubt he even noticed I left ....

Now me and my 2 other friends feel very left out as we never get to see him anymore. I actually feel very peed off he kept his 'Girl friend' secret from us but his other canteen friends were 'aloud' to know. I don't know what to do I don't know if I should just let it go. I don't know if I should not be mates anymore or what. I just feel like I've got the rough end of the stick. He didn't even turn up to work today without letting them know which isn't like him.

This was more of a rant than anything else I just wanted to let it all out.

[T0M]

Lol kinda long winded but, if he is happy there then dont see the problem really =)

[Decapitated!]

Woah he sounds like somone who uses people id hate that ;l ive had this done many times i just said well f off then i dont need you.

[cocaine]

he's obviously using you - just ditch him and leave him to fail his school life and end up a failure.

just concentrate on your own progress.

[Dan2nd]

Lol kinda long winded but, if he is happy there then dont see the problem really =)

I don't have a problem with him being happy I just feel quite hurt I've helped him with his work, I'v taken him places such as thorpe park and paid for him ! and finally I've gone into town and run errends (sp?) for him and he just kind of rejects me for this other group ya know? :( to be honest I want him to be happy

[Jazza]

To be honest, he doesn't sound like a good friend if he would abandon you and say nothing about why. Don't send him your work, if he wants to ditch you and school (or college or w/e) let him deal with it. Eventually he will have to decide between his girlfriend and his future.

[FlyingJesus]

Next time you do an errand for him nick all his money.

[benjamin]

what tom said

then ditch the ******, like he ditched you.

[lAdmire]

You know what, obv he isn't a good friend. A good friend would tell you everything. I wouldn't get mad. Confront him about it. && also, don't send him his homework. That's just kinda sucking up to him. Don't do that. If he doesn't want to be your friend then let him leave. But just let him know that what he did was rude && wrong && maybe he should've said something to you before he went off && decided to ditch you guys. Also, just tell him about his grades. Maybe he won't care but as long as you warned him maybe he will take it into consideration && begin to realize the mistake he's making.

[Shawnstra]

Love is really blind :P

[foxyfox00]

I think he's just found a new group of friends that he gets along with more its probarbly not ment to offend your group or anything. He's changed and thats all there is too it. The guy is a tool seriously for using you, I'd dip into his bank account a bit and buy stuff for yourself that would teach him a lesson

[+44]

Well wht everyone else said i disagree with.
Dont take anything from his bank acc cos tht shows how much of a prat you are.

Try and cope without him as best you can. I know losing a mate isnt very nice specially a best mate, But as long as you dont lose touch completely its alright. Try to talk to him more maybe with his new group of friends he found stuff easier to tell them over you. I mean i cant tell my best friend things cos its lyk embarassing i think tbh. So just because he didnt tell you doesnt mean hes a lousy mate. At the end of the day a friend who really cares will always come dig you out of trouble, However far away from you they are however early in the morning. And after you talk to him hes just like oh leave it then at least you know where you stand.