School Relationships

[splatttt]

do you find that school relationships are hard?
I remeber when my friend went out with someone everyone kept going up to her and saying " OMGZZ is it true your going out with [Insert name]"
and it used to really annoy her.
Do you get embarrased when people are watching you ect?

[Charlie]

Well, i haven't had a long enough relationship while at school to comment, but i did see my friends having people come up to them loads asking if they were with so & so, and that must have been annoying.

It's just everyones immature, and they like to spread rumours about it, half of the time. I've had a phone call or two from people at my school asking if i was dating some ;)

[splatttt]

Well, i haven't had a long enough relationship while at school to comment, but i did see my friends having people come up to them loads asking if they were with so & so, and that must have been annoying.

It's just everyones immature, and they like to spread rumours about it, half of the time. I've had a phone call or two from people at my school asking if i was dating some ;)


Yeah i agree that people are way too immature at school. They spead rumours and things. I just dont get that. This girl i know, her sister spread a rumour that she had sex on the school field, and her mum made her dump him or something
its lame tbh

[brandon]

yep, ended one of my many short lived relationships lol

[velocity]

when people are watching you do what?

[clarissa !!]

i go to a girls school...

[Meticulous]

People in my school can't keep their fat noses out.
Went out with someone for a while, broke up with them. And some fat girl comes up to me and is like.
"DID YOU SPEAK TO HIM?" Well duh.
"DID YOU HOLD HANDS WITH HIM?" This is getting annoying. Go away..
"DID YOU GET INTO HIM?" Omg woman go away! (Get into is just a stupid slang word for snogging. Did any of you know that?)
But I meanly find school relationships hard cause when you dump them or they dump you, you see them alot, every single day. In lessons, and lunch and break and in the corridor and UGH. ;D

[velocity]

i go to a girls school...
there all bi anywayy.

[clarissa !!]

there all bi anywayy.
lol, not really anymore, only a couple are now.

[velocity]

lol, not really anymore, only a couple are now.
o, thats good i spose.

[JoeyK.]

do you find that school relationships are hard?
I remeber when my friend went out with someone everyone kept going up to her and saying " OMGZZ is it true your going out with [Insert name]"
and it used to really annoy her.
Do you get embarrased when people are watching you ect?

It's really not that bad, usually a "yes" or "no" works... I don't really give a damn what other people think anyway, they'll forget in a week.

[Toughened]

I suppose the first week to 2 weeks can be really annoying. People asking you every question on the planet and maybe rumours here and there. What I find though people tend to forget at 2 weeks and leave yas too it. It becomes old news lol.

[Carlos]

I think that school relationships are hard.

[Meticulous]

I think they're pointless anyway.
When you're young it's not like you're gonna cheat on people.
So there's no reasno to break up but YOU GOT BORED.
And what exactly do you do in relationships when you're young?
Everything you normally do with someone that's close. Unless you get above 16. But then it isn't school relationship is it?
Am I being too negative? ;P

[Tiuhdur]

my old gf dumped me cos her mates told her to i hate her now :)

[Metric.]

do you find that school relationships are hard?
I remeber when my friend went out with someone everyone kept going up to her and saying " OMGZZ is it true your going out with [Insert name]"
and it used to really annoy her.
Do you get embarrased when people are watching you ect?


I find them stupid because obviously you're going to break-up over something stupid and then you'll have a little cry about how much you miss so and so and how much you want to kill yourself and how you can't live without this person BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!

People think it looks good when you hold hands on your way to class, and feed eachother lunch during break but really it looks retarted because because nobody loves somebody that much when they're still in school.

Like, holy **** it's disrespectful to yourself, and to others. Girls, when your holding hands with your boyfriend on your way to class and then you kiss like you're never going to see each other again and walk into class, it makes you look like a ***** and everyone knows you'll cheat on him sooner or later.

As for guys, it dosen't make you look like a pimp to have a girl hang off of you because everyone just talks about you when your not around, and fyi, others aren't jealous.

I guess it's ok to have a school "relationship" but have some respect for yourself and others. I see this everyday at school and it ****** me off so I have strong oppinions on the subject.

[Niallwozere94]

me and my girlfriend split up cos we got annoyed with ppl pestering us all the time :l gypsy thats the best post ive seen about this topic

[paradox]

Defiently, people kept looking at us etc

[Metric.]

me and my girlfriend split up cos we got annoyed with ppl pestering us all the time :l gypsy thats the best post ive seen about this topic

haha, it was quite the rant.

[Mentor]

I find them stupid because obviously you're going to break-up over something stupid and then you'll have a little cry about how much you miss so and so and how much you want to kill yourself and how you can't live without this person BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!

People think it looks good when you hold hands on your way to class, and feed eachother lunch during break but really it looks retarted because because nobody loves somebody that much when they're still in school.

Like, holy **** it's disrespectful to yourself, and to others. Girls, when your holding hands with your boyfriend on your way to class and then you kiss like you're never going to see each other again and walk into class, it makes you look like a ***** and everyone knows you'll cheat on him sooner or later.

As for guys, it dosen't make you look like a pimp to have a girl hang off of you because everyone just talks about you when your not around, and fyi, others aren't jealous.

I guess it's ok to have a school "relationship" but have some respect for yourself and others. I see this everyday at school and it ****** me off so I have strong oppinions on the subject.
Statistically 2/3 of people end up marrying there high school sweet heart. (its an American statistic so high school includes what in the uk is known as sixth form collage)
Regardless that statistic alown kinda contradicts your post, your basing it off the load minority who make that kinda thing obvious, not the actual majorty.

[alexxxxx]

Statistically 2/3 of people end up marrying there high school sweet heart. (its an American statistic so high school includes what in the uk is known as sixth form collage)
Regardless that statistic alown kinda contradicts your post, your basing it off the load minority who make that kinda thing obvious, not the actual majorty.

I'd keep that as a US-only statistic. I'd think it's less here.

[Mentor]

;3389522']I'd keep that as a US-only statistic. I'd think it's less here.
I duno, it holds true to quite a few people, even more when sixth form is included.
Note we have incredibly high divorce rates (1 in 2) here, so although the statistic may hold true, theres no reason to assume its going to last very long in many cases.

[DJCurto]

when somebodys going out with so & so in my school people say yh w.e & stuff & leave them to it

[Metric.]

Statistically 2/3 of people end up marrying there high school sweet heart. (its an American statistic so high school includes what in the uk is known as sixth form collage)
Regardless that statistic alown kinda contradicts your post, your basing it off the load minority who make that kinda thing obvious, not the actual majorty.

Statistically 1/2 of those marriages will end in divorce.

[Colin-Roberts]

meh for me in our school its mostly the guys that make remarks and you just tell them to **** off and they stop

[Moh]

What realy does my head in is when they ask there mates to ask ppl out for them :s
There in yh 11, and to scared to ask them out, whats the point in going out with some 1 when ur scared of asking them stuff

[YoManGo!]

I find them stupid because obviously you're going to break-up over something stupid and then you'll have a little cry about how much you miss so and so and how much you want to kill yourself and how you can't live without this person BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!

People think it looks good when you hold hands on your way to class, and feed eachother lunch during break but really it looks retarted because because nobody loves somebody that much when they're still in school.

Like, holy **** it's disrespectful to yourself, and to others. Girls, when your holding hands with your boyfriend on your way to class and then you kiss like you're never going to see each other again and walk into class, it makes you look like a ***** and everyone knows you'll cheat on him sooner or later.

As for guys, it dosen't make you look like a pimp to have a girl hang off of you because everyone just talks about you when your not around, and fyi, others aren't jealous.

I guess it's ok to have a school "relationship" but have some respect for yourself and others. I see this everyday at school and it ****** me off so I have strong oppinions on the subject.

you sound jealous.

[Mentor]

Statistically 1/2 of those marriages will end in divorce.
Thats still a 1/3 of all people ending up happily married o.0 so your original assertion is still very wrong.

[lAdmire]

All my friends have bf's/gf's && I don't really get that. Like the day we started going out no one really asked me they more went to my friend's && asked && then decided to come to me.

[lAdmire]

you sound jealous.
Yea it's true. He does.

[lAdmire]

I find them stupid because obviously you're going to break-up over something stupid and then you'll have a little cry about how much you miss so and so and how much you want to kill yourself and how you can't live without this person BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!

People think it looks good when you hold hands on your way to class, and feed eachother lunch during break but really it looks retarted because because nobody loves somebody that much when they're still in school.

Like, holy **** it's disrespectful to yourself, and to others. Girls, when your holding hands with your boyfriend on your way to class and then you kiss like you're never going to see each other again and walk into class, it makes you look like a ***** and everyone knows you'll cheat on him sooner or later.

As for guys, it dosen't make you look like a pimp to have a girl hang off of you because everyone just talks about you when your not around, and fyi, others aren't jealous.

I guess it's ok to have a school "relationship" but have some respect for yourself and others. I see this everyday at school and it ****** me off so I have strong oppinions on the subject.
That's not true because you can fall deeply in love EVEN if you are in school. It doesn't matter.

Edited by micky.blue.eyes (Super Moderator): Please don't triple post.

[Haylz]

Well really in this situation I wouldn't be bothered either way, as it soon becomes old news, but what I do find annoying about it its when you don't go out with your ex anymore, you have to face them in corridors, classes etc (worser when your not even friends with your ex) but you could just be/make friends with them to stop this problem.

[beccyyy]

my first crush and school relation ship was when i was... 9 till 11... sounds young but we really did like each other. it was kinda like a friendship but a bit higher. we played pokemon and made a nidoqueen and nidoking called our names :) but it ended when the girl who bullied me, made him go out with her. at least thats what he says

[bouncy-bunny1]

Yes I think that school relationships can be quite hard..Im going out with someone at the moment and on the day we started going out everybody knew it was weird how the rumour got round so fast but I still get people coming up to me and saying stuff like: "are you going out with (name)?"
"have you kissed (name)?" and stuff like that and its quite annoying. However, school relationships don't have to be hard, if you're just yourselves and don't worry about other people you should be ok although its quite hard at first.

[5,5]

Yeah, tbh people really can be annoying at school when you got a gf there. Or even at anotehr school, lol.

[lAdmire]

It is annoying. Used to happen to me in elementary school. Now in high school, it's died down but still happens. I still date people but it's tough. Umm... if you really like the person, then you should date them. Ignore people when they ask you stuff like that.

[Loqo]

Never been in a major relationship in school but i have seen it happen and it looks annoying. Lucky enough for me all the girls in my year look a show (Layer after layer of false tan and peircings where they shouldnt be) so am not attracted to any of them! :)