Virgin

[JoyFreak]

I've recently turn 16, the legal age of having sex. I'm wondering if i should loose my virginity? Some experinced people say it's like heaven.

Would do you think? Are you a virgin? Do you have any experince? Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up? Share it with us here! xD

[Tristan]

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"Okay I'm 16 now, so that means that I can DO IT! Okay, should I go and do it with some guy tonight?!" "Apparently it's really good so I want to have it right now!"

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I suggest that you think over your post and realise that you don't have sex because you can...

[Jordie]

I've recently turn 16, the legal age of having sex. I'm wondering if i should loose my virginity? Some experinced people say it's like heaven.

Would do you think? Are you a virgin? Do you have any experince? Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up? Share it with us here! xD


wait and find someone special to lose it with, dont just get with any old sket and spend the night with her

[Charlie]

Don't lose it to some random person because you can and people say its nice.

Wait, and do it with someone you actually want to do it with, you can only lose it once, make it worth while.

[Barkseh2131]

You cannot expect other people to tell you whether to loose your virginity or not, it Is completely up t you.

[JoyFreak]

I know it's completly up to me weather i want to loose my virginity or not but people say it is like heaven and i really do want to experince that thought. And i never mentioned i was going to loose it with some dirty old sket, infact thats the last thing i wanna do lol. I want to do it with the right one. The right girl. My parents bieleve in se'x after marriage, so i won't probably have se'x just yet.

I sometimes get jelous when my friends go omg i had se'x and it was awsome. They smile and laugh and they look happy even if it was with a dirty sket, they still looked happy.

[Tristan]

If you want to wait for the right person, why did you say:


I'm wondering if i should loose my virginity?

?

EDIT: By the way, sex isn't filtered. Lol. :P

[brandon]

you don't HAVE to do it just because you're legal to do it now. Just wait for the right time.

[Mentor]

just becuse you can, doesnt mean you should, but its really your choice what to do "/
If you want to, go for it. If not, wait till you do.

[OMGitsaROSS]

Its like an episode of some tv program, she wanted to lose her virginity but she didn't because her mum/mom told her what hers was like (on a bed covered in dog hiar) and she ended up there, she said no though (H)

I'm not ashamed to say I have down anythign with a lass purely because;
1 - It wouldn't make me feel any more of a man
2 - I want it with someone special
3 - I'm not obsessed :)

[JoyFreak]

If you want to wait for the right person, why did you say:



?

EDIT: By the way, sex isn't filtered. Lol. :P


I forgot to mention with the right one, i didn't mean i wanted to loose it now, i ment whenever the right time comes.

[Kyle.tk]

You can legally smoke, that mean you should start smoking? People say thats good?
When your 18 you can legally start drinking alcohol, that mean you should go to the pub and drink? People say thats good?

Stop being fussed about what people say and do what you want to do.

[FlyingJesus]

Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up?

lol@that

[cocaine]

Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up?


:eusa_whis

[Dal]

You can legally smoke, that mean you should start smoking? People say thats good?
When your 18 you can legally start drinking alcohol, that mean you should go to the pub and drink? People say thats good?

Stop being fussed about what people say and do what you want to do.
That is the best piece of advice anyone can ever give you. Amen.

[-Soph-]

just because your 16 doesn't mean you should loose it because its legal to, just wait till you actually truly want to do it.

[efq]

Its like an episode of some tv program, she wanted to lose her virginity but she didn't because her mum/mom told her what hers was like (on a bed covered in dog hiar) and she ended up there, she said no though (H)

I'm not ashamed to say I have down anythign with a lass purely because;
1 - It wouldn't make me feel any more of a man
2 - I want it with someone special
3 - I'm not obsessed :)


You forgot to say you wasnt human ;)

[T0M]

[/b]


You forgot to say you wasnt human ;)


I actually think john has made a great point =) :P

Also guy further up who said about smoking and alcohol great advice, although i dont see the problems with alcohol

[Bef]

wait and find someone special to lose it with, dont just get with any old sket and spend the night with her
Wont be a whole night if its the first time ;]


I know it's completly up to me weather i want to loose my virginity or not but people say it is like heaven and i really do want to experince that thought. And i never mentioned i was going to loose it with some dirty old sket, infact thats the last thing i wanna do lol. I want to do it with the right one. The right girl. My parents bieleve in se'x after marriage, so i won't probably have se'x just yet.

I sometimes get jelous when my friends go omg i had se'x and it was awsome. They smile and laugh and they look happy even if it was with a dirty sket, they still looked happy.
People have different views on sex and it really depends what you personally feel.
Some people believe its something sacred and you should only ever have one partner.
Some people believe you should only have sex if you are trying to have a baby.
Some people believe you should wait till your in a relationship with someone before you have sex.
Some people believe that its a natural thing to want and to have sex and you don't have to be in a relationship with someone to have sex with them.

It depends on the person. None of these views are wrong, just different and it is up to you and nobody else what your views should be.
Don't listen to your parents or friends or even us. Make up your own mind and do what feels right to you.
Alot of people regret there first time but aslong as you do what you think is right at the time then thats all you need to remember. Regrets mean nothing.

[asher_]

I've recently turn 16, the legal age of having sex. I'm wondering if i should loose my virginity? Some experinced people say it's like heaven.

Would do you think? Are you a virgin? Do you have any experince? Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up? Share it with us here! xD

the foreplay is nice as is the sex. But I wouldn't lose it for the sake of losing it.

[Ostinato]

I've recently turn 16, the legal age of having sex. I'm wondering if i should loose my virginity? Some experinced people say it's like heaven.

Would do you think? Are you a virgin? Do you have any experince? Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up? Share it with us here! xD

Why do you want to lose your virginity jsut because "people say it's like heaven."

I'm sorry, but if you think sex is only about getting a sense of pleasure and thats the only reason people do it - and because they can - then your sadly mistaken. Sex is all about love, and I personally find it more enjoyable because I am in a serious relationship with a girl I strongly love. I think if I were just to go out and do it with anyone there would be no real spark or passion there, ultimately making it less enjoyable.

At the end of the day, I feel sex is something which should be shared between two individuals who have love for each other - not just getting with the first person you can for the hell of it.

[Caution]

yeah. go and smoke as well. you can do it all legally now!

:rolleyes:

[+44]

Turn gay.

Nah just messing.

Depends if you feel ready for it.

But whts the point in losing it if its just for the simple reason "oh i turned 16 an all my mates have" so wht? if its cos your worried about your mates just be like yeh but i r cool i got a hand an some tissues (Y)

But at the end of the day its ur decision.

[-Soph-]

and tbh, I doubt it'll feel like heaven if you do it with someone that you don't even want to have sex with that much.

[GoldenMerc]

Go watch 40 year old virgin 8-)

Wait for the right person i'd say

[Shawnstra]

It doesn't mean you must have sex when you can. You should wait and find someone you would love, and not just randomly pick someone?

[le harry]

Lose your virginity with someone you care about (girlfriend obviously), if you break up with her you can atleast say you lost it with someone special and you can officially do one night stands when you've been partying :)

[Aces]

Yeah, just wait for the one, dont do it in a hurry just cause you can.

[3420]

Lols, I aint having sex to past 18 tbh.. Can't take the risk :]

[Ed.]

Wait til you find someone that you love- dnt just do it because you can

[Crimson]

Nearly 1/3 of the people who have had sex the for the first time find it not as "great" as it is made out to be. You might find yourself as one of them. I myself, am a virgin - I'm 13. You dont need to feel pressured into having sex and loosing your virginity because your the legal age to do so. Wait for the right person to come along who you, not anyone else, would like to have your first time with.

[Kyle.tk]

That is the best piece of advice anyone can ever give you. Amen.

aww thanks, im honoured;D

[DJ-Vimto]

Turn gay.

Nah just messing.

Depends if you feel ready for it.

But whts the point in losing it if its just for the simple reason "oh i turned 16 an all my mates have" so wht? if its cos your worried about your mates just be like yeh but i r cool i got a hand an some tissues (Y)

But at the end of the day its ur decision.


i couldnt help but laugh at that.

there isnt really much i can add, everyone seems to have already posted all the things that sprung into my head.

the only person that can decide when you are ready to have sex is YOU.

[paws]

If you're really that desperate, there are
some cute dolls down at the sex shop.

[Alkaz]

Your first time should be special and after that it should
always mean something. But never loose ''it'' because you
can legally do it. If u do could be biggest mistake.

[velocity]

why is this forum so sex obsessed?

[Rizla,]

Nah loose it with someone your close with. Not because any of the reasons posted, but they won't laugh when you either:

A) Have trouble with "placement"
B) Can't get it in
C)Can't keep it in

Your first time is magical ;)

Edit: Oh, and I'm not bad mouthing sex, but it's not as good as i thought it would be before I started having it :p

[Virgin Mary]

I'm a virgin, I was impregnated by means other than sex though.

why is this forum so sex obsessed?
because they're computer nerds and computer nerds are obsessed with sex

[Eye!]

Go watch 40 year old virgin 8-)

Wait for the right person i'd say
lmaoo

'Always use periferals'
:p

[rnix]

lmaoo

'Always use periferals'
:p

Sex is good xD

All i can say...

BTW Eye im kool :'(

[Soy]

Basicly everyones saying the same thing in this thread;
Wait till your ready
Do it with somone special

:S Just cause your legal doesn't mean you automatically become a sex machine

[Kyle.tk]

why is this forum so sex obsessed?

because the majority of the forum are teenagers, and we all know teenagers (especially the males) all want sex. And some of the ones who say they have had sex think they're dead hard because they have:P

YE MAN IVE DUN LOAdSA GIRLZ YE MAN MY PENNIZ IS WELL MASSIF

[velocity]

im sorry, but im male, teens.
and im not in any rush to have sex, even if i did loose it soon, i'd like to loose it to somebody i know i truly love - not just for the sake of it.

[Myzas]

Jus bang a dog?

[xzl.]

YE MAN IVE DUN LOAdSA GIRLZ YE MAN MY PENNIZ IS WELL MASSIF


Jus bang a dog?
Lmao :rolleyes:
yh what most people have said wait till you find someone special ennit.

[VPSwow]

Im 14 and im a virgin. A lot of my friends arnt anymore but they say to me make sure your first time is with someone you love because they regret that.

All im saying is if you love someone then go for it :D

[Kyle.tk]

im sorry, but im male, teens.
and im not in any rush to have sex, even if i did loose it soon, i'd like to loose it to somebody i know i truly love - not just for the sake of it.

amen to that.

people are in such a rush to do it nowadays. Its even worse when girls seem proud of how many boys they have had sex with.. like

'omg i ****ged 3 guys on saturday, arnt i well gUD'

its just sickening

[Nixt]

Wait until you find the right person, or you'll regret it. As has already been said :P!

[Xotuako]

I'm 14 - I'm legal age for sex. In Spain that is.

If you choose to have sex, do it safely, and I hope it's good. ;)

[Kittii]

Im Not A Virgin,,
I Wudnt Loose Yah Virginity Jus Cause Yuh 16 ..
Im Only 15 [&&] I Wish Id Waited Til I Was Olda Cause It Wont Wit No One Special ..
Wait For Tha Special One To Come Along [&&] Do It Wit,, Not Jus Some Randomer Yooh Dnt No Very Well Cause Yooh Will Regret It,, Trust Me ..

xox

[Rizla,]

All this talk about "that special one" and half the forum are kids/teens. You're not going to meet "the special one" at this age, but you'll probably meet someone you care about, just *Removed* them.


Edited by Catzsy (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not avoid the filter.

[Lycan]

- do whatever the hell you want! , be spontanious.. don't go looking for sex but if the momment arises dont say no

[Rizla,]

^Yeah. If you're 16, being honest, I would have thought you'd have had plenty of oppurtunities by now. I'm presuming you've done other things like foreplay and that,, if you're good enough at fingering then the girls hardly going to say no unless they've got great willpower. They want it just as much as lads really ;)

[OMGitsaROSS]

Girls gag for it tbh

[Metric.]

I've recently turn 16, the legal age of having sex. I'm wondering if i should loose my virginity? Some experinced people say it's like heaven.

Would do you think? Are you a virgin? Do you have any experince? Or are you just waiting for the right one to pop up? Share it with us here! xD

umm.. you can basically have sex when ever, just aslong as you keep it to yourself and you don't parade it around.

[Rizla,]

It doesn't matter if you parade it about, you won't get in trouble for underage sex. It's basically just a guideline, the same as you won't get into any real trouble for unerage smoking/drinking. You might get an asbo for drinking if you do something stupid, but if you're chilling having a few bevs underage they'll just take it off you and maybe take you home.

[Kittii]

Altho I Posted A Few Comments Ago Sayin Yooh Should Wait Til Yooh Find A Special 1,, As Much As I Believe In That, I Agree Wit The Person That Said We Rnt Gna Find Tha Special 1 At Our Age ... Well Cmon Were Not, But Yeh, In Otha Wordz Thats What I Mean, Wait Until Yooh Find Sum1 Yooh Trust And Care About .. Some1 Yooh Want To Be With 4 Longa Than A Couple Of Months ..
Just Wanted To Make Tha Clear, Tanks ;]

Lotsa Love,
Briony <3

[velocity]

Altho I Posted A Few Comments Ago Sayin Yooh Should Wait Til Yooh Find A Special 1,, As Much As I Believe In That, I Agree Wit The Person That Said We Rnt Gna Find Tha Special 1 At Our Age ... Well Cmon Were Not, But Yeh, In Otha Wordz Thats What I Mean, Wait Until Yooh Find Sum1 Yooh Trust And Care About .. Some1 Yooh Want To Be With 4 Longa Than A Couple Of Months ..
Just Wanted To Make Tha Clear, Tanks ;]

Lotsa Love,
Briony <3
that proberbly took ten times as long as it would just typing in proper english.

[Caution]

Altho I Posted A Few Comments Ago Sayin Yooh Should Wait Til Yooh Find A Special 1,, As Much As I Believe In That, I Agree Wit The Person That Said We Rnt Gna Find Tha Special 1 At Our Age ... Well Cmon Were Not, But Yeh, In Otha Wordz Thats What I Mean, Wait Until Yooh Find Sum1 Yooh Trust And Care About .. Some1 Yooh Want To Be With 4 Longa Than A Couple Of Months ..
Just Wanted To Make Tha Clear, Tanks ;]

Lotsa Love,
Briony <3
why can't you type properly.:S

[Crimson]

I think its cute how she writes

<33

[Mentor]

I think its cute how she writes

<33

Your alown in that opinion. Then general concensus and my own opinion is that its just danged annoying.

[-Soph-]

I hate it when people over use the o and h keys.

"helloh what are yooh doing after school today hunni_xoxoluvya_xo"

:rolleyes:

[rnix]

I hate it when people over use the o and h keys.

"helloh what are yooh doing after school today hunni_xoxoluvya_xo"

:rolleyes:


lol you do on msn ;] joke


go on msn now maybe? :D

[vicious]

i'm a virgin.

[Rizla,]

I don't think that was the question....

[vicious]

I don't think that was the question....
you dont think what was the question?

[Rizla,]

Nevermind lol :p

[Zak]

Lost my virginity at 15.

It really aint that good..
Just make sure you no what your doing ok

If you don't want to do it.. don't..

[DiscoPat]

i dont mind the way she types

[xdannix]

i dont mind the way she types

Mate from a girls perspective - its better when your with someone you care about and trust then a one night stand.
I was with my boyfriend nearly 4 years an we decided after the first year to have sex. We were both 15 and he was a virgin. The first time was awful - but it gets a hell of a lot better. You shudnt rush into things just because you can - its not worth it!!
Just make sure you use contraception!!
x x x

[JimRave]

well when i turn 16 id be straight in der go for it if u ask me lol

[Dal]

well when i turn 16 id be straight in der go for it if u ask me lol
So is that the pigheaded view you have of losing your virginity? My gosh you will definately regret it if you do. Make is special with someone you care for and love. Someone who you can open upto and share you feelings with, instead of just having a one night stand or "going straight in there" as you put it. If you take my advice it would maybe stop you thinking with your genitals and maybe your brain :rolleyes:

[Byble]

Im A Virginnnn Been A Virgin Since Forever.. I Turned 16 In October..


I Think You Should Lose It To Someone Speciall

[benjamin]

Only lose your virginity if you feel like you want to.

[YoManGo!]

if you want to have sex, and you get a chance to then why not?

[Rizla,]

It's sex not a rocketship launchingSeriously, stop talking about it as if it's a wonderful moment. The only reasons to wait are the ones I posted, as you get older you aren't only going to have sex with people you care about.

[Xotuako]

And once your lose your virginity, you can't get it back! :o :P

[@xP]

Iam still a virgin but only 14..

But i would loose it at 16 but only with the right person.

[Calzeh]

I know it's completly up to me weather i want to loose my virginity or not but people say it is like heaven and i really do want to experince that thought. And i never mentioned i was going to loose it with some dirty old sket, infact thats the last thing i wanna do lol. I want to do it with the right one. The right girl. My parents bieleve in se'x after marriage, so i won't probably have se'x just yet.

I sometimes get jelous when my friends go omg i had se'x and it was awsome. They smile and laugh and they look happy even if it was with a dirty sket, they still looked happy.

They are probably just boasting about it. Sex is very overrated lol, from what myself and my friends have experienced. Most likely, your first time will be nothing but an awkward fumble and you wont have multiple Os or see stars. You'll prob lie there and think flip sake, is that it? And then later in your life you find the perfect girl, and you'll wish you could have shared it with her. Sooo yeah... but follow your heart, you'll know when it feels right.

[Mentor]

They are probably just boasting about it. Sex is very overrated lol, from what myself and my friends have experienced. Most likely, your first time will be nothing but an awkward fumble and you wont have multiple Os or see stars. You'll prob lie there and think flip sake, is that it? And then later in your life you find the perfect girl, and you'll wish you could have shared it with her. Sooo yeah... but follow your heart, you'll know when it feels right.

o.0 I duno, i expect theyed just end up with the same "awkward fumble" with this other person anyway. If nether people have had sex nether is really likely to know what there doing the first time. People have to get the hang of this stuff somewhere along the line afterall "/
Just my 2 cents.

[GommeInc]

o.0 I duno, i expect theyed just end up with the same "awkward fumble" with this other person anyway. If nether people have had sex nether is really likely to know what there doing the first time. People have to get the hang of this stuff somewhere along the line afterall "/
Just my 2 cents.
They could know what they are doing, if they have encountered the joys of naughty internet sites or read joyful magazine articles giving graphic details of what goes where and which position a person should go in.

[YoManGo!]

So is that the pigheaded view you have of losing your virginity? My gosh you will definately regret it if you do. Make is special with someone you care for and love. Someone who you can open upto and share you feelings with, instead of just having a one night stand or "going straight in there" as you put it. If you take my advice it would maybe stop you thinking with your genitals and maybe your brain :rolleyes:

everyone has different views of sex. some see it as a pleasure of the flesh and not just an act of love. it's not that pigheaded really, considering that a certain level of pleasure is reached during intercourse.

[Kissed]

What they said ^^
Too many boys in my year (11) have all been desperate to loose the big V, just because alot of the girls have. I always beg them not to do it with some random because even tho ur lads you will regret it in the long run.
The average age for boys is alot older than girls, don't worry & don't feel like your the only one!
Just keep yourself busy untill your in a steady relationship - it will be worth the wait :]].

[Isolde]

You should see the boys in my school lol! They chat up girls 24.7 to get into their nickers lol. My advice to you is to stick to bing a virgin as it's much mor better, your free and single!

What the hell is the poon law about, You need to be 18+ to watch poon but 16 to have seex? huuuuuuuuuuuuuuh

[le harry]

When you get with your partner you will regret it

"So honey, I never asked you, when did you lose the big V"

to which you reply being an honest husband and all

"Some sleezebag when I was 16 because I was desperate and it felt good"

:P

[.:Normal...]

Don't start having sex just because you can. You should have sex because it's the right time and you want to. I know too many people who regret it and were stupid because of being desperate to loose their virginity. Trust me, when you get older you'll regret it, much. So just wait for the right time and person :)